Anyone there talk?

PhoenixChimera:
I have tried to connect many times with a great many and been bitten for my troubles.
I’ve been around here for more than a decade and seen things get worse.
Mirroring the general state I have seen far too close up IRL.
No offence, but I didn’t expect a response from anyone-going by experience.
Thanks to all of you who.


Yeah, there's a lot of shitty people on here. But it is possible to make friends. It's a game of quality over quantity.

That said, sometimes you have to be patient. I went through a period of life with no friends. Looking back, this was because of my environment and that I wasn't in a good headspace to be anyone's friend. Once I dealt with my headspace, I was able to find 1 person to befriend. This person later became my best friend. And once I got into a better environment, I found a lot more.
10 months

Getting involved in the community

Shadowmike:
You've hardly been around and have a S.O. You try way too hard. You come off so needy and miserable.

Enas:
Eer... You say that to Munchies? Which is the most active user on forums, of the entier site for years?

This is really strange.

Munchies:
Meh. I don't care about his opinion. Still, I appreciate you saying something.

Enas:
I dont care much about what he said either, its simply false (besides totally obscene), but i really worry about how he thinks! He is totally spontanious here! No actual thought was involved to construct what he wrote down!


I appreciate the concern, Enas. That said, the guy's clearly jealous. His ire is laughable and an antithesis of having a community spirit.

That said, he provided a fine addition to this specific post. If you are wanting to find out how to be a part of this community, it's good to have an example of what not to do.
10 months

Getting involved in the community

Bigbellylvr1:
What can I do as a skinny person to be a part of the community and meet people it kinda feels like I’m not worthy of joining in on fat talk because idk what it’s like lol I really want to gain but can’t really afford it at the moment but I want to get my foot in the door for when the time comes

Munchies:
FF has people of all shapes and sizes. Skinny people are valid and welcome. We have several gainers and feedees just starting out, so you'll be in fine company.

Shadowmike:
You've hardly been around and have a S.O. You try way too hard. You come off so needy and miserable.

Enas:
Eer... You say that to Munchies? Which is the most active user on forums, of the entier site for years?

This is really strange.


Meh. I don't care about his opinion. Still, I appreciate you saying something.
10 months

Favorite euphemisms for fat

Shadowmike:
try hard lol


You are indeed ~

10 months

Favorite euphemisms for fat

Munchies:
Doing a checking educate, my friend.

Fat Dreams:
Sorry, what does that mean?


It's just a funny was of saying I learned something from you.
10 months

Becoming a feedee

SoloApollo:
Does anyone has any advice on becoming a feedee?


There's no one way to be a feedee. Some feedees gain, and some don't. Some try to stay healthy and active, while others try to move as little as possible. Some want to be as fat as possible, while others only want a little fluff. The best thing you can do is mess around, find out, and have fun.

Just try to be safe when you are messing around. A lot of people throw themselves into this lifestyle full tilt and get sick. They almost always give up because they are doing too much.
10 months

Getting involved in the community

Bigbellylvr1:
What can I do as a skinny person to be a part of the community and meet people it kinda feels like I’m not worthy of joining in on fat talk because idk what it’s like lol I really want to gain but can’t really afford it at the moment but I want to get my foot in the door for when the time comes


FF has people of all shapes and sizes. Skinny people are valid and welcome. We have several gainers and feedees just starting out, so you'll be in fine company.
10 months

Boyfriend becoming hostile towards my weight gain

Miachu:
Guess can give another update haha

Since getting with my current partner, I've put on like 40 pounds lmao

We're both going strong! And honestly, they appreciate me so much which has been a great feeling

Shadowmike:
Roller coaster of looooove.

Miachu:
damn right


Happy things are going well for you, love
10 months

Mental health and appetite

Tleo1995:
I'll start off with saying that I'm working with several mental health providers to help with the issues and I'm making progress with it.

The problem I'm having now is that I've been depressed/anxious lately and it's had a significant impact on my appetite. I get up in the morning and I get excited about being able to eat and work towards my goal body, but then as soon as it comes to trying to make food or decide what to eat I have absolutely no desire to eat. I was wondering if anyone has had this problem and if there was anything you were able to do to help with it. I'd like to put on weight but at this point I would like to at least maintain the weight I have. I've seen suggestions of smoking weed however that's not an option for me as I'm in the job hunt and have to be able to pass a drug test.


Glad you are getting help. Be safe, love. Kink aside, you deffo need to get some nutrition in you.

I have a sibling who is recovering from anorexia as well as dealing with bipolar disorder and ADHD. So sometimes eating feels like a chore to them. When that happens, they drink their calories instead. Their go to is Ensure, but you can use something else.
10 months