Today I renewed my license and we were confirming all my info address etc etc but then she was like “is this accurate?” Pointing at my weight, she said “it’s 100 pounds it was flagged in our system as error” and I said yup it’s real and she processed to apologize profusely… I felt bad for her so I said you’re okay just doing your job no harm done it’s real.
Anyone else have anything similar happen?
2 years
there seems to be something to the thought of being straddled by a petite fit girl.
2 years
my meals… when I was skinny I’d maybe have like a burger fries and a soda when I went to McDonald’s. Today I got like 2 Big Macs 2 mchickens a large fry and a shake. Then for dinner I made some burritos but I just ate the entire package it was like 12 burritos meant to feed a family lol.
2 years
Feedeewannabe420:
It's the roughest choice ever right? On one hand I love my soft thighs and bulging tummy and big still quite perky tits. On the other hand I don't want to need to change my lifestyle so I can maintain the gaining, I would have to buy a whole new wardrobe and the inflation is going insane here in Czechia...
I despise seeing myself so fat, yet it arouses me so much. But my lifestyle isn't compatible with being obese. And I want to live my life and do a career in the field I work at and I can't imagine myself doing that and being obese ate the same time.
I know I have to stop for my health, to fit into my clothes, to be attractive for my boyfriend, but I just feel like I would loose the one thing that can truly satisfie me if you know what I mean. It feels like an addiction, extremely connected to masturbation and excessive edging. I even hurt myself from using my magic wand on my clit for too long, haha.
Well this is a tough position to be in and I just don't know what to do. I don't want to have to choose. I fear the shame from my family, friends and colleagues. Yet I feel so much more satisfied sexually.
I wouldn’t worry to much about not being able to do your job while being bigger, unless your industry requires you to be a certain size there’s very few things you can’t/won’t be able to do. Also don’t worry about what people might say, chances are they won’t say anything but it’s a chance… but most people don’t want to hurt other peoples feelings and if they do say something it’s out of concern for your wellness.., but what I wrote is highly circumstantial, and not everyone has a supportive network
2 years
Speaking of I’m about due for a new one as we speak my butt and sides touch the armrests 😳 I’ll ask my boss about sending me a new chair, and I’ll link some details on what I’m getting, if you’re interested.
2 years
I would recommend against the idea of a gaming chair and just get yourself a nice sturdy office chair, it will last longer and will be better ergonomically. I found gaming chairs to be flimsy and gimmicky, personally. And more support the better.
2 years
Bigdj1977:
I agree with this “kink” not being exclusively sexual. Heck, I don’t even consider it a kink really. To me it is much more a lifestyle than anything else. Sure there is a sexual part to it, but that’s just one small section of it. The way I see it, you can’t be living your live as a 300, 400 or 500 pound person just because of a sexual kink. If you’re really into this fat lifestyle it has to check off a lot more boxes.
I like that. It is a lifestyle. We’re really body builders when you think about it!
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.
Munchies:
Kink doesn't have to be sexual. I do kink stuff on the time with others on the site. It's very rare that I'm aroused when I do that/
There are more aspects to feedism than getting fat or fattening others. For example, you can be a foodie (someone who loves to eat food, but isn't concerned about weight gain) or a fat appreciator (someone who likes fat people and may not care about weight gain).
There are also some people on this site who aren't feedists but enjoy the scene all the same.
You are welcome to be here no matter what you decide.
Oh this is very insightful thank you, I thought kink was inherently sexual!
Currently I think gainer describes me but foodie sounds about right too. Also your point on not everyone here is a feedist gives me some relief too.
2 years
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.
2 years
