I put on 100 or so pounds in the last 2 years and I cannot honestly say I’ve gotten much flack for it, and the few times It was Brought up it wasn’t done in a nasty way at all; I think people overthink because we sexualize our bodies it becomes a focus of us, where as people outside this fetish aren’t focused on it at all, of course not everyone will have positive experiences and it sucks but I don’t think the overwhelming majority of people are out to hurt the feelings of fat people

I think the biggest perk I’ve noticed is that people are a bit more willing to help you out and do tasks that are a bit easier for them as opposed to you doing them, particularly in the work environment.

I disagree entirely! Since gaining weight I’ve become completely insatiable, even after eating what I once thought was a large meal, and frankly I can’t help to notice I’m the biggest person in most rooms/crowds hard not to go unnoticed. Not to invalidate your experience or anything just my 2 cents.

John Candy and Chris Farley are legendary BHM, RIP.

when you’ve been wearing nothing but sweatpants and joggers for 2 years and you find out a grand total of zero of your pants fit.


when people always make sure you have had enough to eat/always talking to you about food, new places etc

when you’re referred to as “the fat guy”