IHatedMyFatBody:
I think this is the only thing my boyfriend likes that I think deserves a separate thread. So I'm 34 and he's 24. As course back in January, in addition to not understanding how a tall fit man was pursing a woman as fat as me, I didn't understand how he was pursing one so much older. In April, he confessed to looking forward to see my aging. As in, grey hair, more wrinkles, more age spots, watch me transform into looking like a fat grandma.

In addition to wanting to fully appreciate his liking my fatness, I want to fully appreciate that too.
He said the wrinkles and age spots I already have is as sexy to him as my fatness.

Milhause:
The first time can be daunting but here are some things I wish someone had told me. Take it slow. Be open and communicative about what feels good and what doesn’t. If a position isn’t working, don’t be afraid to suggest switching things up. It’s okay to take breaks. The best sex I’ve ever had involved laughter, because sex includes a lot of weird noises, smells and other things.

As for the confidence issue, consider the following: we are rarely our own “type.” I’ve been with my partner for almost 10 years and when I look in the mirror I STILL think ‘Wouldn’t she prefer a tall guy? Or if I were more muscular?’ And yet, I’m her type. Physically, she’s apple shaped with a big tummy and she used to roll her eyes when I’d say she’s my exact type, but she IS. 10/10 times I will find her to be the most beautiful woman in any room she’s in. It’s difficult to believe that other people would find us attractive when all we see are our perceived flaws. But for someone else, they just see all the things they like.

IHatedMyFatBody:
Do people ever had sex while feeling they look ugly ? I know my boyfriend finds me gorgeous but I don't see what he sees. If I wait until I feel pretty while naked to have sex, I may die a virgin.

Enas:
I actually havent seen any story that experiments with a feeder (Id prefer a female one) that acts in a combination of (or uproach something that feels like) a combination of genuine affection but also genuine.... abuse, of some kind? Like, the feeder actively fattening the feedee against their will.

I tried to write a story like this (you can actually read its first chapter on my profile) and it went into a really interesting direction. What you can do, can be for example, if the feeder is in a group of people that needs something desperately (which in the context of the story justifies the "abuse" towards the feedee, of making them fatten up against their will, but simultaniously the specific person who fattens them up does have empathy towards that person. And so they try to show affection on them that on one hand eases the pain of the abuse but on the other hand works, in some limited degree, as coersion. For example the feeder (especially if theyre a sexy looking woman) could bribe the feedee with intense sexual pleasure if they keep eating and gaining. And i think this could take a genuine form because the abuse isnt simply because the person is abusive, but something external causes them desperation which turns into abuse. The contradiction between the kindness and the abuse can also be a psychological burden of the feeder, that will be torturing them.

The problem with this, which is also what fascinates me the most (yes it does make me horny AF but as a concept, mechanically, it fascinates me a lot) is that it will be difficult to have the abuse being genuine. In the sense that if the feedee comes to want it, from that point on its automatically not abuse.

Im really curious what youll think of that!

FattMatt:
I’m getting back to writing and I’m curious. Is there something or a scenario you haven’t seen used a lot in stories? We all know the feederism scenarios that have been milked way to much. Give me some idea’s!

IHatedMyFatBody:
I met my first boyfriend in January of 2024. He is a tall fit man. I was ranging from 340 lb to 380 lb at 5 ' 6. I'm an apple-shaped woman. He's my first date, my first boyfriend, and my first kiss. My self-esteem has climbed since dating him. I don't feel extremely ugly around him anymore. In March, he confessed to me that I was his exactly his type, both personality and physically.


But my confidence hasn't climbed enough to feel comfortable being naked in front of him yet. Pot belly, love handles, back fat, flabby arms, saggy tits, cellulite, and stretch marks. It's also for me to imagine how to physically perform with act of sex with my body, especially my pot belly. Any advice is welcomed.

Tomi20:
I have been looking for a while for a woman who wants a swallowing pig and who will witness a great physical change.

Munchies:
Unfortunately, we lost all the female feeders in the incident. It was very sad.

Tomi20:
In what incident?

Munchies:
The incident where all the female feeders just vanished. There haven't been any since. It's so sad.

Rotund:
Ahhh that incident I've heard everything about this incident (I have been MIA for months and no idea what is going)

Iwantrolls:
Thank you. Good advice. Hopefully I don’t plateau for a while.