Sending gifts

Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it

Letters And Numbers:
If you encounter someone who you feel is a scammer, flag them. You can do this through their profile. The volunteers who assist on this site ban the profiles of scammers every day, but getting tips always makes it easier.

On top of that, and like others have said, be smart online. Don’t give money to strangers. If someone is being aggressive and it feels like they’re not on the level, trust your instincts. If someone claiming to be a 23 year old American woman also claims to be into blues music and luxury brands that 60 year old rich men like and getting fat JUST FOR YOU, they’re probably not who they say they are. If someone has pics posted and are asking you for money, do a reverse image search. If the pics are taken from Tumblr or onlyfans or Instagram, report them. If someone has a kik account in their profile, raise an eyebrow. If someone has a Kik and a Signal and a telegram, they’re a scam artist. Don’t give money to strangers.

And absolutely do not take it personally if a scammer seems to be only interested in your money, just report them and block them. It’s not you, it’s the world we live in.


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Does being fat enhance the experience of the fetish?

Ultimateaaron12:
Pretty much the title just the title


Depends. Some people are stuffers and bloaters, so they aren't trying to be fat necessarily. Some people are foodies and feel ambivalent about gaining weight.

Non-gaining feedees are also a thing.
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Sending gifts

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t understand the angle here at all, like it would be nice to have someone pay for my food and stuff; I can easily spend 500-600 dollars just on food in 1 weekend just on food but I don’t understand the wanting to pay for it, like I don’t even wanna pay for my own food and food brings me joy, I don’t understand wanting to pay for someone else is that like financial fem dom stuff or something. I might be a pig but I’m not a pay pig


There's multiple reasons.

For example, practicality. Fattening up is expensive. So if a feeder wants to fatten a feedee, it makes sense to provide the food in whole or in part. This is especially true if a feeder wants the feedee to eat something or somewhere specific.

Other feeders like being directly responsible for the feedee's weight gain. If they can cook and/or hand feed the feedee themselves, paying for the food is the next best thing.

In my case, I buy my partner food because I love spoiling him. He never asks me for anything, so it's all the sweeter when I surprise him with something that he enjoys.

Gotta remember that not everyone enjoys the same things you do and vice versa.
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Sending gifts

Bbwchaser21:
Not sure why that would be a problem, if the member is on the list you know what's expected if you chat or if they are not on there it might dissuade them from asking for money as mods could add them with chat evidence


What good would that do? A determined enough person can easily pretend to be someone else. The list would only be useful for the truly stupid. On top of all that, a lot of men will label women who reject their advances as scammers, so that would render the whole thing useless.

Just screenshot and send a report to admin.
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Sending gifts

Bbwchaser21:
Hi people

Seems there is a lot of emphasis on sending gifts whether explicitly asking or alluded to after a small amount of chat, does anyone partake in this and does it satisfy anyone?

Just curious really, I see the thread about it at the top of the forum that's locked advising against it


I am once again asking people not to give money to internet strangers. And on the flip side, do not accept money from internet strangers.

Never ends well.

If someone you don't know demands or suggests money out of you, there's a high chance that this person is a scammer or a user.

If someone you don't know offers you money, there's a high chance they are trying to buy power over you.

Now, if you are a sex worker or other kind of content creator, I'm not talking about you. That's a business thing that both parties have consented to. I'm talking about the regular-degular crowd. Take the time to get to know each other first for at least a few months. Once you can trust each other, then do gifts.

I'm dating my current feedee. He was my feedee before we started dating. He paid for his own food initially before I decided I could trust him and pay for his food and sometimes get him other things.
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Growth

Morbidly A Beast:
I wanna be carried like a princess 🥺


I'll put on 200 lbs of muscle just for you, lol
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Mental health and appetite

Tleo1995:
I'll start off with saying that I'm working with several mental health providers to help with the issues and I'm making progress with it.

The problem I'm having now is that I've been depressed/anxious lately and it's had a significant impact on my appetite. I get up in the morning and I get excited about being able to eat and work towards my goal body, but then as soon as it comes to trying to make food or decide what to eat I have absolutely no desire to eat. I was wondering if anyone has had this problem and if there was anything you were able to do to help with it. I'd like to put on weight but at this point I would like to at least maintain the weight I have. I've seen suggestions of smoking weed however that's not an option for me as I'm in the job hunt and have to be able to pass a drug test.

Munchies:
Glad you are getting help. Be safe, love. Kink aside, you deffo need to get some nutrition in you.

I have a sibling who is recovering from anorexia as well as dealing with bipolar disorder and ADHD. So sometimes eating feels like a chore to them. When that happens, they drink their calories instead. Their go to is Ensure, but you can use something else.

Cassiepup:
I struggle with a lot of that too, minus anorexia. Do you have any other recommendations besides Ensure? Drinking my meals seems like the only solution to when eating feels too difficult for me.
I also struggle with GI issues so I'm sometimes just too scared to eat in case I'm bloated for 6 hours afterwards... Shakes may be difficult for me because of a sneaking suspicious on lactose intolerant 😔 I just kind of deal with it though because cheese and ice cream are my vice.

I got super depressed last fall and have lost 40+ pounds because of periodically just not eating. I'm the thinnest I've been in years and even though I'm still fat I'm not happy with it. I had finally accepted my body and felt comfortable gaining/maintaining...


Don't need lactose to have a good time. Try making smoothie instead. You can use a milk substitute or even juice.

Ever had a strawberry smoothie with orange and peach juice? Highly recommend.
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Dumb gaining question

Snivvels:
You should also consider *what* you eat. There is tonnes of research on how the body processes food. (Mostly to help people diet ironically.) Eat some fats fairly obviously. But excess carbs also get stored using different mechanisms, so have excess carbs too. And if you don't worry about your health you can consume products containing Fructose as this gets processed in a different pathway (IIRC.) I believe that in the US at least 'High Fructose Corn Syrup' is added to loads of stuff so is hard to avoid. (Someone correct me if I'm wrong.)


Limit your sugar intake if you feel attached to your teeth, beloved. Dental pain is common in reckless feedees and gainers.

Protein is also important, so don't forget that either.
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Growth

Kx500:
I have always been a feeder and into larger women.

Nothing has turned me on more than seeing a slim fit woman turn into a big, thick, luscious curvaceous goddess. Her fitness dissapearing under layers of beautiful, soft fat. Seeing an already beautiful larger woman also add some extra sand to her figure has also been a massive turn on.


However in recent times I have been told by a plethora of people that I myself am remarkably underweight and that I need to thicken up myself.

One person told me that I need my own personal feeder! Another began expressing the changes they would love to see to my body and that it would help me become more attractive. My ex girlfriends have all told me they would love to see a thicker version of me.

Having said that I am at odds whether or not to go down this path.

I'm sure many a person on this forum has been in the same position.

Can anyone offer any form of insight into this


I tend to see thin men as delicate. It's like if I'm too rough, I could accidentally break them.

This has not happened, but they do not like it when I pick them up and hold them like a princess.

That said, if you really are underweight, you should put on some weight for health reasons. I used to be underweight. Gaining was the best thing for me. I stopped being cold all the time, I didn't get sick as often, and putting on muscle has made me a power house.

It's great.

You don't need to be fat, but at least on enough to be in the healthy BMI range.

Your bio says you are 123 lbs and 6'2". I am 5'7". I could princess carry you. My biceps are more than likely double yours. I do not say this to mock you. Rather, I am pointing out the severity of the problem.

You need a nutritionist, not a feeder. If you are more than likely missing huge swaths of nutrients and are probably at risk or have health issues from these deficiencies.
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Dumb gaining question

Ultimateaaron12:
So I’m really skinny with a fast metabolism and desperately want to put on weight I still don’t fully understand how weight gain works but from what research I’ve done it takes about 3,500 calories to gain a pound let’s say I wanted to gain 1 to 2 pounds a month would I have to eat 3,500 a day every day for that month to gain the full pound or will it add onto my weight in a shorter period of time


Maybe not every day, but most days. Just be patient with yourself.

Your bio says you are 23. Do not be shocked if it takes you a few years to start thickening up and your metabolism can take a bit to slow down. Not saying you'll have to wait, but it is a possibility.
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