Genuine examples of body confidence

Kacchan:
This is such a nicely written moment of admiration/optimism for a moment of enjoyment, comfort, and body confidence - thanks for sharing with us!

I agree that body positivity and fat confidence seemed to take a big step forward in the past decade. Younger people seem to be so much more comfortable with their larger bodies - FAR more confident than the average youth in the 80s and 90s would typically be. There has been a noticeable increase of advertisements with mid and plus size models included, and I applaud all who have worked so hard to bump the fashion and entertainment industry toward greater inclusion of bigger sized bodies.

I hope that more and more people are able to be confident in their bodies at any size. Little moments like this give me hope for younger generations who hopefully can embrace fat beauty and self-confidence.


As much as people dunk on social media, it's also paved the way for more diverse bodies to be celebrated. Back in the day, a small handful of really gross people determined what was beautiful and what was not. And for a while, you had to be a leggy (but not tall), slender, (often) blonde, pale woman. Of course, your average person found a great many different things attractive, but it was never front and center.

Now, there's greater visibility for many different people of all shapes, colors, and sizes. We still have a way to go, but we are doing a lot better than we did 20, 30, or even 40 years ago.
11 months

Gaining weight question

ATLFeeder1:
So I've always been more of a feeder than feedee, but I've come around to the idea of trying to gain 10 pounds to see if I'd like the experience. I'm 6 ft and 190 lbs now, so I would only be slightly overweight. I've fantasized about gaining to 221 pounds which would make me technically obese, but I think I want to take it slow.

For those who have gained intentionally, what was your everyday diet like? Is there a way to hit my 10 lb gain goal in 3 months without gorging myself every day?

Munchies:
What's the hurry?


ATLFeeder1:
I want to finally give in and have the body I've always wanted.


It can be possible depending on how active you are, but I personally wouldn't give yourself a time line.

A lot of people struggle to gain in the beginning. This is why most feedee newbies eat so much at first. If you give yourself a timeline and do not meet your goal, you'll be disappointed.

Instead, just relax your diet and let whatever happens happen. It will give you a chance to adopt a fat mentality. This way, if you decide to keep going, it will be easier for you.
11 months

When to weigh

BigBallBellyGirl:
I weigh every morning before eating or drinking, and sadly it's not for a fun reason. I'm a heart patient, and any fluctuation (Not a pound or two, but if I suddenly went from 573 to 583 the next day) can indicate a serious problem.

That said, I got this fat by stuffing and eating thousands of calories everyday. I found that daily weigh-ins could be deceiving when I was gaining because sometimes, I just had a belly full of several pounds of food. I got the truest look at my gain week to week, Wednesday mornings, on an empty tummy. This worked for me, because a weekend stuffing could easily jack my weight up 10 to 15 lb by Monday, but I typically didn't go too wild on Mondays and Tuesdays.

My advice is, pick one day during the week when you've usually been at the baseline for your current eating habits for a couple of days.


I'd also weigh yourself before you eat and after you use the bathroom.
11 months

Gain advice

PubBudd:
Hi folks

So I have been looking into gaining in different areas and I was wondering if anyone knows or has an information on how to gain in the chest area.

Big moobs have always been if interest to me and I was wondering if there is a way of getting them to grow bigger.

Also how to gain a softer belly and wider hips.

Thanks in advance


Just as you cannot spot reduce, you cannot spot gain. Some people might recommend certain things to influence your hormones, but there's no promise you'll get the outcome you want. It largely boils down to your genetics.

That said, you can do targeted exercises to sculpt your body to some degree. Plus, since the body burns visceral fat before it burns subcutaneous fat, you'll have a softer belly overall.
11 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Ex Jock:
It’s really hard to find a feedee. I think that’s why so many of us go from feeder to gainer; to become our own feedee out of lack of options, but still wanting to act out the kink

Enas:
I doubt thats how it works. Speaking about me, i considered myself a feeder. It was (and still is somewhat) a big turn on to see really fat women's bellies so i was definetely one! But nontheless i kind of remember myself when i was even younger that i didnt care much about women but rather myself! I would stuff my bkanket in my clothes at night for example, but that was very early on! I dont know what made me turn into a feedee but during that period i never cared about getting fat myself! I even exercised a lot (because i like body contrast).

I think the situation is far more complex than this. I dont think we are feeders & feedees as clear roles etc, even if it appears as such. The situation seems far more chaotic. Its not like you will find what you really are if you "look deep inside". What you think you are is constantly fabricated, in a way, which is the only possible way this part of us can exist, i think.


I've met a number of men who start out as feeders before eventually becoming feedees - usually after they are unable to find a feedee of their own.

I think some of that is because they never considered getting fat as an option. Other times, it's nice to be the one doted on and catered to. Guys like princess treatment too.
11 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Ex Jock:
It’s really hard to find a feedee. I think that’s why so many of us go from feeder to gainer; to become our own feedee out of lack of options, but still wanting to act out the kink

JohnT:
I would never be tempted to become a feedee or a gainer. The eating part has absolutely no interest to me. It’s the control aspect of it, having control over someone who has let herself go to the point she’s so massive she can’t lead a normal life


Well that's concerning.
11 months

Gaining weight question

ATLFeeder1:
So I've always been more of a feeder than feedee, but I've come around to the idea of trying to gain 10 pounds to see if I'd like the experience. I'm 6 ft and 190 lbs now, so I would only be slightly overweight. I've fantasized about gaining to 221 pounds which would make me technically obese, but I think I want to take it slow.

For those who have gained intentionally, what was your everyday diet like? Is there a way to hit my 10 lb gain goal in 3 months without gorging myself every day?


What's the hurry?
11 months