Belly gaining and asexuality.

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

Stockylove:
And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉

Munchies:
Eh

I take your meaning, but I want to emphasis that the size of your fat pad or how buried your dick is has nothing to do with your libido. It also doesn't mean you can't have sex. You might need to get creative, but that's it.

I bring this up because a lot of people with dicks worry that if they get really fat, even with a willing partner, that's the end of their sex lives.

And yes. This can include some ace peeps.

Enas:
There is something really interesting here! Let me start by mentioning the fact that it is impossible to have sex (reach an orgasm etc) without a fantasy. It will operate on the cognitive level, and without it nothing sexual can genuinly happen. (asexuality might have to do with that btw! To not have those fantasies) Even when someone thinks they are experiencing the real thing, the actual pleasures come from the fantasy which is realized.

Now let me get a step further. In today's world we have lots of things like, Coke but without sugar. Or coffee without coffeine. And i think that what is illustrated by FAMGM is that sex today, is sex without sex. Meaning, the actual penetration and so on. Because the essense is on the fantasy, which if for example has to do with fat, and the feedee is extremely fat, then thats it! It doesnt mean that there is a low libido, maybe even the oposite! But its not something that can be satisfied through traditional sex intercourse.

What do you think?


Enas, where do you even get this stuff from?

It's 100% possible to orgasm or even have sex without fantasy. It's called being in the moment. Just because you can't doesn't mean other's can't too.

Also, asexuality means you do not experience sexual attraction. Sexual attraction is different from sexual expression. Some (not all) ace people like sex, but they aren't sexually attracted to people regardless of gender.

Another thing is that you are conflating kink with sex. They are two different things, and you can have one without the other. To be clear, I am not discounting nonpenetrative forms of sex like cyber sex. However, kink, though sexual, is not in and of itself sex.

For example, if you go to a BDSM dungeon to have someone pour wax on you, you aren't having sex. Even if you cum from it, it still isn't sex.
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Belly gaining and asexuality.

FAMGM:
I’ve certainly found that the fatter I’ve got the less important actual sex is. I can well imagine that at 600 lbs I won’t care about it.

Stockylove:
And more the dick is buried and disappear. Coïncidence?

I do not think so 😉


Eh

I take your meaning, but I want to emphasis that the size of your fat pad or how buried your dick is has nothing to do with your libido. It also doesn't mean you can't have sex. You might need to get creative, but that's it.

I bring this up because a lot of people with dicks worry that if they get really fat, even with a willing partner, that's the end of their sex lives.

And yes. This can include some ace peeps.
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The sensation of gaining.

Ace Of Spadez:
Feeling new stretch marks or just softer and wider turns me on. Especially seeing shape wear or exercise clothes get tighter.

Lately , it feels like when I eat I can feel the spots I want to grow stretch out , maybe that’s mental.

I ate bk and I could feel my tits stretch out my shirt and my hips widening


Yeah, that's a mental thing.
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Getting fat while eating healthy

Bigbellylvr1:
If anyone has any experience getting fat while eating healthy let me know what are some of the best healthy foods that’ll get you fat in no time


If you want to get fat and be healthy, you'll need to be patient. Rapid gains are sexy, but they aren't sustainable.

Just eat a balanced diet with larger portions and plenty of snacks. Just don't overdo it and make yourself sick.
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The sensation of gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
Well whatever it is. I have only been feeling it since I started taking gaining seriously.
Its usually the day after I stuff myself. Especially after some really fatty desserts.
I feel it in my lower belly.

Whether water retention or weight gain I really enjoy it!


If you are feeling it in your lower belly, there's also a high chance your are feeling digested food slowly moving through you.
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The sensation of gaining.

Miss Tiramisu:
Has anyone else here experienced the actual feeling of fat filling into your body?
That sort of tingly pressure that you feel in the spots you are gaining?
I just felt that for the first time, and I'm not going to lie, it really turns me on...


That's not what you're feeling. You are feeling fluid retention. This is common after a binge if you eat a lot of salt. This normally goes down after a bit.
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Do you have kinks that are unrelated to weight, food, or bdsm ?

Quiver:
I have an assortment that aren’t really related to fat admiration, but for me they kind of tie in, because the fantasy still always involves at least one big person/one person growing like crazy.

Like someone else said, tentacles, ovipositing, alien pregnancies, those all drive me bananas. I love the idea of swelling up because of a bunch of alien eggs growing inside me. Breeding and breast-milking, which is often accompanied by pig or cow transformations during sex. I consider inflation and extreme bloating to be extremely closely-related to rapid weight gain, and they scratch the same itch for me for watching someone grow. And then the weirdest shit that I can’t get enough of is like, slime stuff and unbirth. There’s also vore, but that one in particular is HEAVILY dominated by men who ignore my “no flirt” boundary and get pushy about rp-ing. Not sure why. I’d love to have some female friends who are into it.
The occasional vampire play or navel play is also tons of fun, and I’ve found that ears are a great erogenous zone too (although I wouldn’t consider that a “kink”).

Skeets:
breast-milking drives me absolutely wild. scenarios where i or a partner is fattening me with their milk or vice versa? 🥵😮‍💨 can’t get enough, and wish their was more content around this particular kink

Quiver:
I haven’t written or drawn anything on this theme in a bit, but it’s very much in my wheelhouse for it to turn up at random at some point. It’s just so much fun, it’s shocking to me that it’s not more popular in spaces like FF.

Skeets:
I couldn’t agree. I kept expecting it to be added to the kinks section of the “other feedism site,” but alas. we’re out here and we’re waiting to be recognized!


Have you checked out Fetlife? They have a lot of kink communities on there that you might enjoy.
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How to deal with weak guts

Chonkolate:
Usually try to stuff on weekends but how does one do it without destroying the ass or vomiting all night .-. I was so proud of myself for managing 6000 kcal highscore and now mourning over lost effort smiley

I should maybe shoot for consistent 4k instead when im ready again...


Stop going balls to the walls insane and focus on what is reasonable for you. You can work up to 6k over time.
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How to fatten up your partner

MrCuddles:
As of right now I’m done with school and she only as one more year and we currently split the cost for everything. She also has a side gig where the content she makes she sells which is how we’re paying for the food she eats. And I do see myself being with her for a long time so I don’t have a problem being the provider. As for the future you are right I’ve haven’t thought about all of that stuff yet but I’m glad you mentioned it because it will be something we have to think about


Yeah, it's super important to think about that. Not having a plan will put huge amounts of stress on your relationship. For now, I'd limit her gains to the outer edge of her comfort zone. It's cool that she has a side gig where she sells fetish content, but most fetish models only do that for a few years before tapping out. So, I'd figure out something more sustainable in the long term.

Can you two see her doing this in the next 5, 10 years? Will she have enough income from that to keep up with her food costs? The bigger she gets, the more she'll need to keep eating. Speaking as an extreme feeder, the food costs alone add up really fat after a certain point.

If you see yourself with her for decades to come, then there isn't a rush. Take the time to sort things out. Plus, if you go too fast or hard, she'll get sick and tap out. I see this happen a lot with extreme gainers and rapid gainers. They keep chugging along until around the 350 - 600 lbs range when everything starts to go wrong. Sometimes, they even have to completely give up because of the damage they've done to their body.

If you want to reach immobility, you need to focus on sustainability and not speed. Plus, there's a non-zero chance she might change her mind. I've met a lot of people who wanted to be immobile in real life, but at some point, they realized they preferred fantasy to reality. Most of them settle for being very fat with limited mobility. Only a small handful follow through because once you are immobile, there's essentially no going back.

Again, I'm not kink-shaming. I'm only saying this so that you and your partner achieve whatever outcome makes you two happy.
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