Weapsep:
After reading about weight gain, i hear a lot about set point theory, how the body naturally gets used to a certain amount of fat and will do try to keep you above/around that weigh, even with effort. Gaining weight increases the set point, but can that point be made to go lower instead? Are there any studies that talk about this?

MariRadha:
For paraphilias this might work:
- retraining in a fetish you both like. Replacing one with a new one
- sexual transmutation techniques from yoga were you sublimate your desires and only have sex with your gf
-if all else fails SSRI and other meds lower libido and lower paraphilia urges

Munchies:
Here's a fun fact. Your lower stomach - specifically the space between your navel and your mons - is an erogenous zone. Try teasing and massaging that area on a stuffed belly. It'll feel amazing.

Effervescentfetish:
Wait what does everyone have that? I thought it was just me XD

Curiouslyafeedee:
Oh wow! Definitely not alone thenn...

Munchies:
Here's another fun fact for you:

Fat people have more nerve ending than slimmer people. This is because they have more mass and thus need more nerve endings to feel things.

And so, if you have a lot of fat around this erogenous zone, you'll also have more nerve endings. This is why some people can come just by playing with their belly.

If that's not something you can do, don't worry. Nothing is wrong with you. Some people just need more stimulation.

Glitter Jelly:
Does that mean new nerves grow? I would have thought the ones already there just ... I guessed, spread to the larger area?

Warriorfeedernyc:
ok why are you so locked on me do you like me or somethin. I have found someone already I just went out with them this morning for breakfast in times square we had a amazing breakfast.

I use my VR Headset to meet people so in my area. I created a kink friendly world or a meetup spot as you will in Vr so people with kinks could meet each other and join or meetup. Over the summer I had a lot of time and thats what I choose to do with it. Believe me or not you probably won't but. It's the truth.

Munchies:
Hun, we are too similar for anything to work between us.

But your response proves my point. Slow down and take your time. Just yesterday you were complaining you didn't have anyone. Today you say you found someone. So what was even the point of complaining?

Still, I wish you well.

Warriorfeedernyc:
Ok just because I said something doesn't mean I'm complaining. But you could just not reply and stop bragging about why you have no progression. If you ever thought even for the slightest that you could expand your horzion on other platforms you should give it a try.

Warriorfeedernyc:
Don't ever think were the same because were not you might not have any luck reaching out to some people. I do, I'm not gonna act like I didn't run into scammers a majority of the time but I have met some great people over the summer up to now. I have photo proof with there consent. But your too busy dick riding you cant get this shit out of your head hun.

So HUN quiet down for poppy ok and be a good clown.🤡🤡🤡

Warriorfeedernyc:
ok why are you so locked on me do you like me or somethin. I have found someone already I just went out with them this morning for breakfast in times square we had a amazing breakfast.

I use my VR Headset to meet people so in my area. I created a kink friendly world or a meetup spot as you will in Vr so people with kinks could meet each other and join or meetup. Over the summer I had a lot of time and thats what I choose to do with it. Believe me or not you probably won't but. It's the truth.

Warriorfeedernyc:
I have yet to find a actual pig or cow of a woman in NYC. I have found 3 people and these 3 were not even close to being the pigs or cows they told me they were they kinda just wasted my time & money in me trying to feed them in person. Where are the real gluttons?

Munchies:
Here's a fun fact. Your lower stomach - specifically the space between your navel and your mons - is an erogenous zone. Try teasing and massaging that area on a stuffed belly. It'll feel amazing.

Effervescentfetish:
Wait what does everyone have that? I thought it was just me XD

Curiouslyafeedee:
Oh wow! Definitely not alone thenn...

Munchies:
Here's a fun fact. Your lower stomach - specifically the space between your navel and your mons - is an erogenous zone. Try teasing and massaging that area on a stuffed belly. It'll feel amazing.

Effervescentfetish:
Wait what does everyone have that? I thought it was just me XD

Edit: oh and to respond to the original prompt, it's practically impossible for me to pleasure myself without cradling my small (for now) overhang. Even before I started gaining that was something I liked but now it's almost compulsory for me lol

Amazingem:
A little update, or anecdote for anyone who has been following our journey...

Life gets busy for both me and my fatboy often, and sometimes the time we get to spend together is more about falling asleep together than doing kinky sex stuff.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Over a week went by and we hadn't had any sex at all - not even any masturbating. So we planned to spend the weekend together alone for some quality time together.

He's supposed to be trying to lose some weight, but that hasn't really worked out, and he is actually at his heaviest weight ever. And his fupa is thicker and puffier than ever! It's kind of amazing how much blubber has to be pushed out of the way to get to his big, fat "clit" now.

After a morning full of teasing and titillating him, I told him to lie back and lift his belly back. Then I pushed his fupa back until I could see his clit, and I started to play with it. First, I just exhaled slowly on it, and just doing that made him groan slightly. I started to kiss it, then lick it, gradually driving him more and more wild. Then I took the tip into my mouth...

I am not sure if it was because he had a lot of pent-up energy or what, but after just a few seconds, he started to come! I took it into my mouth, as usual. But this time, it was different - he came, and came, and came! It was filling up my mouth, which was way more than usual! I actually ended up swallowing a little myself!

When he finally finished ejaculating, I got up and crawled up the bed, and kissed him, letting the all of his jizz fall into his mouth. His eyes showed he, too, was surprised by how much fluid there was! He swallowed it like a good little cumslut, although he sputtered a little, lmao!

Just thought I would share - it was a pretty neat thing! We're still not sure what generated all of that fluid, other going so long between ejaculations. But I think we should try again and see if we can duplicate it.