lovely_plumper wrote:
I think what seems so very cute about it is possibly because you know that the thin person isn't ashamed to be seen with the fatter person where as society accepts more fat couples so it doesn't have the same affect I do find it cute but because I think to myself "that person is not in the closet about liking fat woot" not because it's cuter than seeing two fat people together but because you know that the skinny person isn't giving in to society's idea that thin is better or listening to idiots who might say to them "you could do better than a fat person" that's why it's nice to see in PUBLIC because they are proud to be together for all to see
You nailed it!
13 years
Kitty wrote:AskDrFeeder wrote:
Then what secret agenda are you worried about?
Well, I guess none. I'm starting to think that I got the wrong impression of this fetish . . . and then let my mind take it to the extreme.
Thanks for asking about it! I think a lot of people would just have stewed in their own suspicions.
I think our work here is done.
13 years
Kitty wrote:
I'm sure he'd never secretly try to get me fat
Then what secret agenda are you worried about?
13 years
Kitty wrote:
I'm just trying to really grasp this. I feel like he has a secret agenda of making me fat though he says he never would.
Only your boyfriend knows if he has a secret agenda.
But I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. It's quite possible to fantasize about this stuff without ever doing it.
And even though we like this stuff, most of us oppose pressuring, manipulating, or tricking someone into gaining against their will.
13 years
Kid A wrote:
Please can we stop hating ourselves? Seriously.
Let's.
On the count of three.
One...two...
three!
13 years
sethman wrote:Think about how many people that are even HERE, on FF, who don't accept the fetish.
Good point. But it's hard for us to accept ourselves in the absence of any wider acceptance.
I'm not too optimistic about this myself, but it's worth thinking about.
13 years
...accepted by mainstream society?
If so, how will this come about?
If not, why?
Discuss.
13 years
I wouldn't want to be in a feeding relationship with someone unless we loved each other.
That's usually the showstopper for me.
13 years
koi wrote:
Well, I could go there for vacations as well. But I'd like to accomplish shit in my life, and I guess that Feederism Hostel wouldn't help it.
True, if you want to scale mountains or something.
But since you wouldn't have to work, it would open up some possibilities. Writing, composing, quilt making, whatever.
13 years
