Nofbar:
The thing about fat cell numbers being constant past a certain age has been around for a very long time. Around 15 years ago it was debunked. There was scant evidence for it and a lot against, but nobody really checked to see if it was true.

AskDrFeeder:
...eat so much you can't eat another bite and feel sad that you have to stop?

Miss Tiramisu:
I was hoping that I could get some advice from some people with more experience than I do.
My goal is to hit 400 eventually, but I really want to maintain my mobility. For most that wouldn't be much of a concern but I am 4'11', and that just makes me a little unsure.

If anyone has some advice or knowledge for me, that would be amazing and I would love to talk about it.

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m gonna say no only because that’s a super human person in a video game, I don’t think there’s prize winning mma fighters who can do stuff like that.

Can we be morbidly obese and active? Absolutely, but let’s be realistic no one can do 9 back flips in mid air lol.

Plushie:
Are you only interested in feeder/feedee for getting off or do you try creating an actual relationships with these individuals?

Like, when talking to a feedee or a feeder is it only to talk with them to like get off or do you try and pursue an actual long lasting romantic relationship with them?

Is it just for the fetish or is the fetish a lifestyle?

I've seen many feedees talk about their feeder as just a feeder and not so much as a committed romantic partner... and it sort of puts me off. Like I completely understand having an agreement but agreements is all I seem to see. Like, don't get me wrong I love me a good arrangement... but there doesn't seem to be like any romantic aspect to these agreements and its all sexual.
I don't really see many willing to go out and about with these... I guess I will call "play" partners for the lack of a better word.

It seems to me like a lot of feeders seem too embarrassed to ever actually be seen with a fat partner, in case like friends or family see them out or something.

(sorry if all jumbled and incoherent. or like misspelling and poor grammar. the dyslexia is asking up today lol lol)

Spike:
Yes.
Sadly the fetish related to fat people is they cannot be fit so people upplay on that. Many can lift many things, I personally walk 10k steps a day, and many fat people lead VERY active lifestyles unhindered by their weight with great stamina, strength, mobility, and agility ;]

Stockylove:
Have you ever had a psychological, physical attraction, or both, to an overweight character in a film, series, anime, cartoon, or video game? How did it go for you? and what did this awaken in you?

Technoman:
Maybe I messed up this post by mentioning my past guilt.
I didn't want the comments to be so focused on just me, I'm just one individual.
Think about the bombardment of messages from mass media and social media painting fat admirers and feeders in such a villainous light.
Especially when the man is a thin individual who is the admirer and the woman is a fat individual who is being admired, how the man is painted as a villain and the woman is painted as a victim.

Munchies:
Okay, but like ... why?

Are you taking advantage of these women? Are you respecting the bodily autonomy? Are you keeping their best interests in mind at all times?

I'm a sadistic domme feeder into extreme weight gain. I like making fat men crawl around on their knees with overly full fat bellies. I don't give a fuck if people like it. The only thing that matter is if my partner likes it.

Now, if you are taking advantage of women or forcing them to do things they don't want to do, then that's a different story.

Technoman:
There are messages telling someone (often men) that there is something to feel guilty about for simply finding something specially attractive about a fat individual (especially if it's fat women). It doesn't even need to come to the point of a relationship, just the mere desire is shamed.

Plus when it's consensual relationship, then there are messages raising doubts on how consensual it is for the one being admired. If the one being admired is just doing it to keep the one doing the admiring.

The reason an admirer is shamed can be multiple reasons: the admieree's health, being called shallow, accused of sexualizing fat individuals, accused of trying to trap the individual, etc.

Technoman:
Reasons to NOT feel guilty for loving fat women, or fat men, or whatever fat adult ?

I have personally experienced guilt for loving fat women.
I have seen a few threads with someone mentioning feeling guilty.

Maybe a member feels guilty right now. Or maybe a guest visiting this site feels guilty right now.

I would like to reasons to NOT feel guilty.

Munchies:
Honestly, this is such a BS thing. That's a person at the end of the day.

If you see them as a person and not as a sexy object, you have no reason to feel guilty. What you're describing is fatphobia. You have some soul searching to do hun.

Technoman:
Maybe I messed up this post by mentioning my past guilt.
I didn't want the comments to be so focused on just me, I'm just one individual.
Think about the bombardment of messages from mass media and social media painting fat admirers and feeders in such a villainous light.
Especially when the man is a thin individual who is the admirer and the woman is a fat individual who is being admired, how the man is painted as a villain and the woman is painted as a victim.

Stockylove:
I was just wondering if there were a lot of people who admitted to having these fetishes or kinks to their parents, families, friends, or work colleagues. How they reacted. Did they discover it or did you tell them? How do you live this experience?

For my part, no one knows. I simply don't assume it, especially since I have a lot of kinks around gaybears and bellies in general. If I told them all about my weird big weirdo's kinks, they'd be sent to the psychiatric asylum.

Arame:
Me, personally?

I reject the term fetish cause I don’t think this is a fetish. People like what they like. If you notice, it’s only a “fetish” when it’s not the norm. If a short woman prefers a tall man, it’s never accused of being a fetish. If a man wants a slim woman, it’s never accused of being a fetish. Because we like people with extra body fat, now all of a sudden it’s a fetish. It’s a joke to me. But! That’s just my opinion.

But to answer your question, yeah everyone knows I only date big people. Some don’t like or agree with it but they know better to than to say something disrespectful to me about it.