I agree with just telling her, if she’s already showing every sign of liking and enjoying her added weight.

My other half has a big girl’s belly that’s gotten even softer through the years and I always make sure she feels loved each time I hold her :-) She’s gained about more 70 pounds since we met almost 10 years ago. I’d say she was about 260 when we met, so you do the math :-)

Aw, best wishes to all in this thread who want to have the most special gaining experience of all, which is to grow fat and happy with the one you love :-) My other half and I have fed off each other’s mutual love of our bodies. And thus, we’ve fed off many a dinner plate :-)

Sounds like a solid plan to gain a beautifully bigger belly :-)

I feel sad for you and your situation as you describe it. You need someone to love you for all you are. You don’t need someone writing negative things about you and hiding it.

Interesting this thread takes hold. I didn’t yet know my wife years ago for her first pregnancy, but it was indeed what grew her belly in the first place. Today, it’s quite the sagging pair of belly segments for the “B.” 😊

Can’t go wrong with pizza or pasta :-)

You always play the same note :-) At least the trumpet still works, I guess.

Hi everyone :-) We all post here a lot about our partners’ body type, but today the subject is hair. And what looks good on certain body types.

For the majority of my wife’s adult life, she’s had fairly long hair, with mainly a thin, straight texture to it once it grows to a certain length. She had cut it short many years ago, before we knew each other, and it brought out a much curlier texture.

I’ve always been mainly a “long hair guy” when it comes to my favorite style on her. But her decision to cut it short again recently hasn’t turned out as bad as I thought it would. Think Lily from the AT&T commercials, hairstyle-wise. It was long enough to be “present” but much easier to deal with for her. (At 330 pounds as she is, it got harder for her over time to do certain maneuvers, such as putting it up).

Recently, she’s cut it a bit shorter to where it’s poofier in the back bit crunchy due to all the goop she puts in it to accentuate her curls. She’s mentioned keeping it short forever, which is surprisingly fine with me. She’s mentioned styles that I didn’t used to think looked good on larger women, but I could even imagine her looking great with a buzzcut or just shaving her entire head and starting over. I guess it’s because I end up loving everything she tries, even if I don’t at first.

Wondering how I can encourage her to keep going wild with shorter and shorter hair without pushing too hard? I am so seriously excited at the thought of her with a short, tight buzzed ‘do or maybe just shaving it bald and see what happens :-)

Oh, it most definitely puts a belly on ya :-) Beer is a major reason I have a belly at all, as I’m a medium frame guy otherwise.

I can super-relate to having an unevenly-fitting dress shirt 😁 I wear a shirt size that fits loose in the torso but perfectly in the neck area so that my necktie fits comfily. Even when I’m at my heaviest and my belly is big, it’s still baggy in the torso. Wouldn’t be able to button the collar at all if not!