Clickon ADDs? Now who would do such a silly thing? Honestly?

They're kinda scary though: a year ago they were 'in the netherlands', next they were 'in amsterdam', next was another major city slightly closer to me, now it's a few not so little cities near me. They're closing in! Soon I will have BBW neighbours looking for sex

Lol! I always get BBW dating sites and stuff like that

I agree 100%!



Trust me, I hate these labels as much you do. Even the word (or abbreviation) 'FA' just sounds wrong ...

I hope one day liking big(ger) girls or boys is just as 'normal' and accepted as liking blondes or whatnot, because it IS just as normal.

I've given this some more thought and to be honest I don't think the closet FA's are really the ones to 'blame', but the rest of the world is. The world hates fat people and therefore people who like fat people are weird. Sad but true ...
To many of us here, fat is a preference, like blondes or brunettes. To the rest of the world, fat is more like an orientation, like being gay (which is also unfortunately heavily frowned upon).

However I think the only way to break through this, is that every single FA will come out of the closet and every fatty starts being proud of him/herself and show it to the world. Then MAYBE, in time, things will get better ...

Well, not nearly everything that tasts good is unhealthy and things don't always become more tasty the more fattening ingredients you put in.

That being said, many thin-focussed people are afraid of anything that might even be remotely fattening. Not having that fear does remove a barrier and open up the options when it comes to ingredients. Nothing can replace a stick of real butter or a dash of heavy cream in my eyes. And diet-coke just doesn't taste right to me.

Long story short: Not every FA makes a good cook and not every good cook is an FA, but I definately think a fat hater is less likely to become a good cook then fat admirer.

I wanted to write down a giant story in the defense of all the young FA's still 'in the closet', but then again, I do not want to give them an excuse to stay inside.

This is good reading btw:
lardbiscuit.com/lard/truefa.html

It took me a while to find my way out as well ... I think I was around 18 years old when I fell for a big girl and decided admitting it to the world was the only way for me to ever be happy. Best decision I have ever made in my life.

What bothers me is that there are hardly any girls out there that enjoy being big, or even accept it! I have honestly only once in my entire life met a big(ger) girl in real life that was open about the fact she was NOT unhappy with her weight, but even then, if she could snap her fingers and be skinny she'd do it in a heartbeat.

Based on a traditional after dinner cocktail recipe, but with a little more calories:

250ml of regular cream (the 20% fat kind, higher fat cream make the recipe a little 'too much'
1 shot (~35ml) chocolate liquer (like mozart)
1/2 shot (~20ml) vanilla sirup
1 teaspoon powdered sugar
1 teaspoon cocao powder

Shake over ice and pour into a large longdrink glass. Perfect for topping of a nice meal

This. Dieting can change a persons life, habits, preferences and prioroties. I've seen it go either way, good and bad ...

I've been eating a LOT the last two months and I was kinda sceptical about the whole stomach strech theory: I figured it would take years. But boy was I wrong ... I used to be stuffed for the the rest of the night after a big meal, now I eat a bigger meal, wash it down with a liter of soda and eat an entire pizza 2 hours later with another liter of soda to wash that down. Then I spend the rest of the evening munching snacks.

I haven't gained much weight at all though, but as a foodee, enjoying myself goes first, weight is a pleasant side effect .