I think the OP is too sensitive and needs to man up. I can say that about the OP because they can't read what I wrote.

@BBWCreator82,

A very well thought out and written post. When the Internet was young back in the 90's I had a Feeder website. The people who managed to get themselves online were not your average person. It was a sort of filter and created a real sense of community.

25 years later the Internet has changed and so has the world. Prostitution was frowned upon and most women did not want to become one. The terminology has changed and they are now Content Creators no different to someone who makes videos about car repair. Attention from these people is worth money and you must pay.

In the good old days boy would meet girl and get married. These days the boys only want the best girls, be they the best BBW girls in our case and the best girls have so many males to chose from. This leaves a lot of lonely men who are prepared to pay to get a woman's attention. And they can get it when they pay but not if they don't pay.

The women themselves only want the most eligible men who then get all the action from all the women and rightfully get accused of cheating. The women then blame men in general for the actions of the sexiest men, whilst the majority of men remain rejected unless they pay.

This creates resentment all round. Why would a man try and be polite and to woo the woman when he actually has to pay? Why would a woman not treat men as creeps. The poor socially inept man gets the full force of being called a creep so will probably go back into his shell for fear of being arrested for verbal rape or whatever the hate crime is.

Society is broken in many ways and this is just one of them. There are probably technical things this site can do and there are probably some attitudes that could do with being adjusted.

People often can't identify whether the weight has piled on or fallen off. If you gain weight they will notice the difference and think you have lost weight. If in their mind you are the fattest man on Earth then when they see you they will think you must have got slimmer. They will probably stay off the subject too.

Cambridgeshire is FLAT not FAT. You misread the brochure.

Very nice. Keep going. Some have gained 100.

Re-frame the negative comments as teasing and recognition of how fat you're getting. If you like being fat then this is simply being reminded of something you like.

Wonderful. I assume she is ether happy to be this way or has no choice.

You need to be bold and meet people from here in the physical world. You need to be even more bold because it means evading our police state. As does the person you meet.

If you look at fat positive role models in the media they go on about how fab it is to be fat but eventually they lose a load of weight and bang on about how much better it is to be thin. Then they get fat again and announce that they have no respect for themselves.

I don't think the site needs to be fat positive or thin positive. Stick with the enjoyment of fat for those who enjoy it.

Anyone who can't find these sorts of sites need to learn how to use the Internet. However I think it needs to be clear from the front page what sort of site this is so that those people know they found it.

It's essential that you tell him. A normal man loves you because he finds you sexy. This is an essential part of the relationship for him. You might want him to love you for "what's inside that counts". (Yes I just committed a hate crime, too much truth)

If you're lucky he will have noticed you're a bit fat and actually wish you were fatter. So when you tell him he will be really happy.

If you're unlucky he will realise he is destined to be with a fat woman who he won't fancy. If he has any sense he will leave you that instant.

If you don't tell him and you're unlucky he will feel completely betrayed by you if he finds out later and be very unhappy that you're so fat.

You have more to GAIN if you tell him.