Can't hep you there. Doesn't ring a bell at all.

The surest way I've found to lock in weight is known as the yo-yo diet effect. Gain, then go on a diet for a bit. Lose weight until you reach a plateau. Start binging again. You'll regain the lost weight and then some.

The setpoint, the weight your body thinks it should be at, slowly moves up this way, making (permanent) weight loss beneath that point less and less likely.

It's for this reason I'm never complaining when my feedee gets scared from the scales and goes on a diet. Unless it would be a lifestyle change, a diet just helps long term weight gain

Weight keeps showing as long as there is a surplus of calories. There is no "eat one, gain forever" kind of thing.

Posting and getting replies. Like a regular forum, but for us folks

Sharing wins but also "technical" talk. Example; how to keep your feedee at a certain weight when they've reached the level they feel comfortable with , etc.

PS: I sort of knew you would respond to this. You seem very in the know in the whole feeder/feedee area and I was >< this close to emailing you to ask the question

I recognize the women that could easily be turned into feedees.

Harder are feeders. It's difficult to figure out if someone just is FA/likes BBW, or that there's a feeder lurking behind that.

Besides us here, are there other places you can recommend to just *talk* about feederism?

Some places I've seen are either focused on photos (stufferdb, most reddits) or dating/fantasy (feabie, fantasy feeder maybe?)

Tumblr so far seems to be THE place where people just post.

Or, is FF the place to just talk about this?

Just scrolled through your posts but couldn't see something about this; where/how did this get started?

That always intrigues me

Wow, big win! Nice work, feeder Good team work, good guidance.

Oh no, that wasn't the tone of voice at all Wouldn't post so happily about it here otherwise

Thanks for looking out though!

I like that attitude. Doesn't work for me IRL because I want her to be happy -- but as a thing, with the right person, I could so see myself do this.

It's one of the many things I like from this kink. To see her walking around with a belly 30-40 lbs over what it should be, knowing she is carrying around all that extra weight "for me"

Feeding them fatter truly is the gift that keeps on giving

I've hand-fed her a few times, and that's cute. One of those times she was sort of done but I kept saying "no, one more." That was cute too.

But what I REALLY love is when she does it to herself. When she diets but instead asks for cake.

She has no discipline in this regard at all. I love putting food out, often close to her, and seeing her eat. At first a few chips; just going to be a portion. One chip at a time. Resolutely the bag goes closed! There! Then...bag open again...and it goes in by the handful, and she doesn't stop.

Two, three days later she weighs herself and is shocked! Shocked, I tell you! No more! She's going to eat smart now!

Then, in the evening, I ask "going to get myself something from the kitchen; you want something?" And there she asks for her donut, her cake, her chips, her candy.

Since a year she knows I love her big(ger), and since about a month I'm really pushing this, convincing her. She's eating like crazy at the moment, and already her weight is such that basically there is no going back. That would take so much sustained effort (read: discipline) for such a long stretch of time. She may yo-yo, but that is good; yo-yo dieting helps weight gain.

I *ADORE* it that she goes, and will go, between dieting and hardly losing, and letting herself go and gaining. And I *ADORE* that she is internalizing that; that she's actively letting go, giving up. It's like a rape of the mind.

Enabling is such a hot thing.