Wouldn't be able to recommend anything in London as I am based up north. However as for experiences.. I can safely say that whenever I have been for a massage, I have always had a good experience with staff and therapists. So don't be put off by your size. You can expect professionalism with no judgement. After all you are paying for a service!

Thought I would weigh in on this one...

Obviously the way you look and your weight is a big part of this fetish.

However when you are in a relationship with someone surely there is more to that relationship than looks, sex and fetish.

As much as I enjoy being big, I would never want to be with someone who was only interested in me for my size.

So I would maybe have a serious think of why you are with this person and if it is purely for fetish or is it an actual relationship...

If you have a relationship and you genuinely care for this person then as previously stated, your partners health is more important than your sexual desires.

If your interest is purely sexual and fetish related... Then you should consider ending the relationship so your partner can concentrate on themselves and being in a place they are happy with weight and health without having to worry about upsetting you and your sexual needs.

Trust me... We're working on making the searches better.

Also...You can do a partial search by username, you just need to start typing in the name and a list of usernames containing the characters will appear. If there is multiple people a scroller will appear and you can scroll to see all usernames containing the characters you have typed in. Obviously the more you type in the easier it will be to locate a specific user.

Once you have identified the user in the list, then press search and it will bring up the profile.

I realise that many people use similar words in their usernames so maybe we could look to update this include avatars to make profiles more recognisable.


But thank you for your feedback.

c00kie
FF Team

You'd be surprised at how many messages we get in the FF Team inbox from members saying thank you for the site, because they have met and found partners or got married to their partner that they met on FF.

It is lovely to get those messages, and I can assure you it's not a rare occurrence as you may think.

I myself had a long term relationship for over 10 years with someone I met from the site. I've made countless friends and gone to loads of meet ups.

Don't forget that we have verified profiles now so you can search for genuine members and also get verified yourself so other members can find you!

1. People with verified profiles will have submitted a photo showing that they are who they say they are.

2. Members with verified profiles have confirmed they are not here to solicit or advertise and are using the site to get to know people and be a genuine member of the community. (If for any reason a person with a verified profile does solicit then please let us know as we will remove their verification status).

Go to your profile and click the verify button. Or click on the video below for a step by step guide if you need assistance with it.

Hi,

I spoke with hiccupx earlier before sending the reply.

We appreciate your feedback, and that you feel strongly about the pager navigation options. However the changes implented were for a reason and will not be changed back.

Thanks,

c00kie
FF Team

Just searched on the forums and I couldn't see a thread for a UK Midlands meet.

But there nothing stopping someone from making a thread about it and organising a midlands meet up. Sounds like at least two of you are interested at least and I am sure more would follow suit!

Yeah why not, you should create a thread and organise a midlands meet if you fancy it.

Have to say I am unlikely to attend, i've done enough travelling over the years to various midlands and London FF meets. Us northern folk always seem to be the ones travelling. So when I reboot this one I will be sticking to Manchester as the location.

QUEEN OF THE NORTH! Haha

Hey all, so I am going to make a call on this one. There's not been much interest from members, and parts of Manchester are still in lockdown so I think it's best to cancel / postpone a meet up.

It sucks, but its more important that everyone is staying safe right now. We can revisit the idea once things get a bit better in the Manchester area.

Not sure if other meets are happening in the UK... I did see talk of a London meet so if anyone that was considering heading up from down south do check that out as that may still be going ahead.

Until next time folks!

Ha scratch that... Although these posts have been removed in the admin section they still appear to be visible in the gainer section!

We will get this looked into as soon as possible as this is a bug.

Bear with us folks!