Bailey's on ice is nice. Try the chocolate cherry Bailey's 😉
5 years
I found the secret to heavy cream...go get a big box of lucky charms. Use cream instead of milk. The marshmallows do amazing things in it and what's left is easily drinkable. Good luck!
5 years
Just_Jess_81:
8. Remove from oven and let cool/harden before eating.
This makes no sense to me
5 years
I admire your strength in talking about this, it's not easy. I have anxiety and depression, they both suck a big bag of dicks.
Get around people, it's a great distraction even if it's just people watching (which can also inspire stories to write). Last night I forced myself to go visit a friend because my mind hadn't stopped all day and I knew sitting home was a bad idea.
Going out into nature helps me a lot. Find the sublime, it will make you realize how small a lot of the things your brain is making seem so big are. Gardening, birdwatching, and simple walks in the woods are good low impact activities, if you can handle it climb a mountain or high hill and look around at all the beauty in the world. I also find that trivia and word puzzles (crosswords, cryptograms, soduku, etc) work really well at keeping the mind occupied. Just watching TV can make things worse for me, as it often depicts either a "perfect world" that doesn't exist (but my brain insists it does and that I don't fit in it) or provides an overwhelming amount of what's real (stay away from news channels!).
Creativity is good. I am no artist so drawing/painting can be frustrating, however coloring books work well. I have about 3 and a set of colored pencils that were relatively cheap (dollar store) and have kept me going for a couple years now.
Feel free to shoot me a message any time.
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Baba Yaga:
Would a Saturday work for everyone when the time comes?
If it were late afternoon/evening, otherwise Sundays are better for me
5 years
mangananga:
While i would like to go to this, i'm 20, so drinks would be off the table in a legal sense, i'm in mass so this sounds like something to look forward to, although it would be my first time meeting anyone else with this fetish irl
I don't think d&b cards at the door, just the bar. You should be fine.
5 years
Zelda64:
Okay I’m 18 and I just started college. So basically I have liked guys attractive and have liked guys from afar like celebrities or people I have never talked too but I have never liked someone for their personality in a romantic way. Like the guys I would have crushes on, I had this fake idea of who they were and I thought I was in love with their perosnality but I just ended up making up who I thought they were. I just don’t understand what it feels like to fall in love with someone’s personality I guess. I’m gay and in the closet so I’ve never dated but I’m just scared I’ll never be in a true relationship because I feel like I’m incapable for falling in love with someone. The relationship would just end up feeling like a friendship. Does anyone have any advice?
Wait. The one is coming, there's plenty of time.
5 years
mrgorbino:
Does anybody know of anything that could make for a good time/place specifically then around the city? I’m assuming that would be best for everyone as a group?
I'd prefer to not go into the city if possible, but if the southernmost tip of the state is most convenient for everybody I guess I could
5 years
cdn-ffa:
What you do, imo, is leave. No one gets to give you an ultimatum on your own body.
She's probably not attracted to fat, which honestly the majority of people aren't. But she chose to date you, so it's actually her that needs to be reasonable.
It's your body. You control it. And if she's the type to give "stop X or lose me" threats, I can pretty much guarantee even if you give in that it's a matter of months before she issues her next ultimatums to change you.
Well said!
5 years
Under is so much more comfortable
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