BBWcreator82:
No one needs to ever explain why they ghosted.
Baba Yaga:
Bull$hit.
I wouldn't have agonized for 6 months when my ex ghosted me back in 09 if she had simply told me what was going on instead of wait a year and a half to do it.
I know three, count em, three women on here that openly admitted to essentially cheat on their husbands by being here and delete when the husbands catch them or they put on enough weight for the husbands to suspect. A lady friend of mine told me it's the exact same with a lot of men on here, they come here to get off and scram.
I get the whole safety aspect and all, but there's a line that gets crossed if you're dating for real. If you're bringing someone home to family or sharing romantic dates, you bet your god*amn a$$ we deserve a f*cking explanation no matter how harsh it is. A simple "hey my husband found out" or "Hey I'm not into you as youre into me" doesn't have to be liked but would be respected.
BBWcreator82:
You've always had abandonment issues, though. I expected this kind of reply from you.
We're just people online. If we want to disappear, we don't have to tell anyone why. It's kind of one of the perks of being online, you get to disappear when you feel like you need to.
Ghosting sucks, but no one is owed a reason. If you think you are, that might be a personal problem you need to work out on your own time.
That's where we agree to disagree. It's one thing to be ghosted by someone you meet online and have no chance to meet in person.
It's another thing to be ghosted by someone you're currently dating for real, that you've been on multiple dates with, that you have feelings for.
3 years
HanselsWitch:
Oh, Baba. It wasn't even you this time and yet you managed to take it personally. 😏
It wasn't anybody. You pulled a Frosk looking for sexism that wasn't there.
Hold the L🤣
3 years
BBWcreator82:
No one needs to ever explain why they ghosted.
Bull$hit.
I wouldn't have agonized for 6 months when my ex ghosted me back in 09 if she had simply told me what was going on instead of wait a year and a half to do it.
I know three, count em, three women on here that openly admitted to essentially cheat on their husbands by being here and delete when the husbands catch them or they put on enough weight for the husbands to suspect. A lady friend of mine told me it's the exact same with a lot of men on here, they come here to get off and scram.
I get the whole safety aspect and all, but there's a line that gets crossed if you're dating for real. If you're bringing someone home to family or sharing romantic dates, you bet your god*amn a$$ we deserve a f*cking explanation no matter how harsh it is. A simple "hey my husband found out" or "Hey I'm not into you as youre into me" doesn't have to be liked but would be respected.
3 years
HanselsWitch:
Woman: Suggests a reasonable boundary.
Every insecure male on this site: 🤯🤬😭
Woman: Sets reasonable boundary
Man 1: Agrees with her.
Man 2: Disagrees but explains why without any personal attacks.
You: OMGRRDDDD INSECURE MALES ARGLE BARGLE AWWW HIBBABEEEE!!
3 years
LoraDayton:
Can there be a cool-down or anything for someone who keeps deleting and creating new accounts? I know it's against the rules to have multiples which is not what I mean. I've never deleted and re-created mine so I am just assuming that the signup process is just email-based, but having an extra measure to prevent block evasions or whatever it is that makes people constantly re-create accounts would be great. Maybe IP matching instead so people can't evade with separate emails.
Total agreement.
So sick of the same people ghosting again and again. Especially if people have gotten hurt in the past.
3 years
BradyG:
This isn’t 2022 gaining but since July 20 20 I have gained 157.2 pounds
157?? Wow
3 years
Just spent a month getting all 3 endings (trophies) for Fallout 4.
Done with games for a while unless the next GTA or Red Dead comes out.
3 years
Everyone that knows me online and in real life knows.
I don't exactly hide it either haha.
3 years
jiggle junkie:
Before Fry’s Electronics closed, they were a great place for at least seeing SSBBW nerds (sigh).
So many watering grounds for superfats gone with the winds over the years. Blockbuster and Hollywood video was also a great place for that, but I was only a tiny kid at the time so could only admire from below.
jiggle junkie:
I find it amusing how in depth some people get about cities and areas they seem to think are one way or another.
Fat people are everywhere..
Louiefat:
I think it's worth pointing out that the body positivity movement was started by women of color. And that Sir Mix A Lot's I Like Big Butts was a cultural paradigm shift specifically because white America idolized flat asses and thin lips. Now look at us.
Mix A Lot himself said he thought the song would offend the girls with flat asses and thin lips. Insead it didn't offend women at all, it offended liberal males that thought they knew what women needed to hear according to Mix.
His words.
3 years
Ditzy:Fat people are everywhere.
Literally this.
I bet I can go to Portland, Oregon and find plenty of fat girls to conversate with. It's all about having the confidence and social skills.
Hell the town I grew up with is preppy white ppl central but one of our cheerleaders was a bbw.
Is not hard to find anyone of any social circle if you know exactly where to look.
3 years
