Beachside Farmer:I would believe it as well. Have always been curious how much men take up these sites. Surely nothing can be 100% accurate but this site alone can see that. Though I do believe there are probably less women who are open about being interested in this fetish than those who are proud of it. Could make for an interesting study. Great work!
Munchies:It has nothing to do with being proud. They get run off the platform. To be a public female FA/feeder is to deal with aggressive male feeders who try to manipulate you into being their feedee, desperate and horny male feeders that violate all of your boundaries, and scammers who think you are a man and harass you for money.
You could be a gold star lesbian and the men will try to harass you into submission. I've seen many a female FA/feeder flee in terror.
The only reason I am still here is because nothing these creeps do can top the horrors I have survived irl. If I wasn't made of sterner stuff, I'd have been run off within the first week of being on here.
Growing Rolls:I'm really sorry you’re experiencing this—it’s not okay at all. No one should have to put up with that kind of behavior. To all FFA/female feeders out there: Stay strong, and know that you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Munchies:I see where you are coming from. I appreciate the effort. But instead of asking women to endure, let's ask men to be better.
Growing Rolls:You're absolutely right. It's not about women enduring, it's about men doing better and being held accountable. Everyone deserves respect and kindness, and the responsibility lies with all of us to make that the norm. Thank you for bringing this up.
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The patriarchical hierarchy and ideology, as well as strict gender roles must be abolished, for anything good to happen. You cannot hold accountable those in power who have the power to evade that, for example.
By the way i also wanna bring up something ive noticed. When news report, for example, harassment, rape, etc, ive noticed the titles are always "Woman was raped" or something like that, but never "Man raped woman". At least on my local news its like that.
8 months
I kind of want to share more stuff about death feederism...
I know that with death feederism there always comes bad psychological stuff. Because of course youre killing yourself without necesarily wanting to die, specifically (youre not trully suicidal, in its typical sense). Im often finding myself thinking about how to deal with those! Is it possible to doge them so as to not suffer from them? So far the only idea i got about this, is basically to "burn the bridge". That is to say, to make myself so severely addicted to food and sex, that even if i really suffer, i will be completely incapable of wanting to stop! I find this hot in itself, im turned on by the idea of being addicted. Im also turned on by the idea of having an Evil feeder who refuses to stop fattening me up, even if (so addicted that i am) i do manage to communicate that i do want to stop. Id love it if she would then do a good forcefeeding and fucking session, just so i forget about it or whatever!
I know im super fucked up, but i honestly get super turned on by all that abusive stuff! 😅
8 months
First of all, lets not forget that death feederism is not a thing, its a category of fetishes, because everyone has it different! And those fetishes share a common quality, usually puting the fetish above even your life. And it can get really weird and complex.
For example, i am a death feedee. I want to be fattened up to death, but that in itself wouldn't be enough to... bribe me into going down that path. What really turns me on are other things that can only exist if im being fattened up to death. For example, i wanna be incredibly weak (as in both physical weakness, and no self control) and absolutely dependent on a feeder woman who's on one hand really sweet (like, she constantly feeds and f*cks me, etc) but on the other hand a manipulative abuser who feeds my eating and cumming addictions in order to make it impossible for me to refuse to give consent, even as she feeds me through heart attacks. Being fed to death turns me on because its proof of how extremely weak and dependent i am to someone who plans to fatten me up to that point, thats what turns me on about it, not death!
In fact i kind of wish to find such a feeder, one to which i can consent to be handled in such a way that i loose the ability to ever retrieve my consent again. Trapped for ever with her feeding and fucking me mercilessly! O.o
8 months
Enas:If im well versed on this specific matter...
The direct assosiation between estosterone and agression is an, oftentimes false, oversimplification. What it actually does is to reinforce pre-existing social patterns and behavior. That's where agression comes from in the first place, and not testosterone, by itself.
My source for believing this is this guy:
youtube.com/shorts/sbgmUvV_qpE Is this helpfull? Do you disagree with it? What do you think?
Munchies:Yes! This is correct! Social stressors like poverty, unaddressed and underaddressed mental health, and gender roles are better indicators of aggression than hormones.
Fat isn't inherently feminine. It doesn't strip you of your manhood and make you more feminine. Sure, you are more likely to have lower testosterone and higher estrogen levels. But it is not enough to make you not aggressive.
Well, it can certainly bury mens' genitals, which is something ive noticed some stories name "manhood", and many people and i certainly find this incredibly hot...
My point is that in our fantasies it often does strip male feedees of our manhoods in some sense!
Especially in my own fantasies, wanting to be weak and dependent, to an evil woman etc.
8 months
If im well versed on this specific matter...
The direct assosiation between estosterone and agression is an, oftentimes false, oversimplification. What it actually does is to reinforce pre-existing social patterns and behavior. That's where agression comes from in the first place, and not testosterone, by itself.
My source for believing this is this guy:
youtube.com/shorts/sbgmUvV_qpE Is this helpfull? Do you disagree with it? What do you think?
8 months
Im really into themes of manipulation / abuse, and domination!
My favorite story on FF is "buried alive" and its about an inexperienced guy who finds him self in the hands of a manipulative death feeder lady!
Then there are lots of stories on Deviantart, which i like, and most of them have a mommy / boy dynamic, on top of the typical domination and maybe even manipulation.
I also really want to write a story, here on FF, but i havent gotten to it yet. Its propably going to be an effort to write the most extreme & dark stuff (for me) i can possibly come up with!
8 months
Anjou:
And then there is Jewish guilt...
What is jewish guilt?
8 months
Oogabooga10:
Hey everyone! 23m nerd here. I've never done one of these before, but I'm looking to talk those who are Christian and are into feedism. Feedism is rare in itself, but being religious AND into feedism is really rare. I'm Catholic, so it would be really nice to talk to Christians who are also into this kind of thing, but other religions are fine too. I really want to make friends in the community who are also like me, because even though I sometimes interact with feedism communities, I sometimes feel lonely because almost nobody is in my situation. Feels like I'm in a niche within a niche. I'm also really into video games, manga/anime, and motorcycles too.
I'd love to hear about your opinions and thoughts about this topic too, so feel free to share! Hopefully I'm not the only who's into this kind of situation 😅
If i understand the point of your entier post, it is basically asking people if they have this experience where their fetish contradicts their conciousnes? (If thats through the christian faith, or perhaps any faith seems to be of less importance to me)
8 months
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm not heckling, I'm supporting her choices.
Munchies:
Lies and slander ~
Hedonistic_Purity:
Say you.
The validity of an argument is independent of who is saying it.
9 months
Romy:
My diet is a total failure. I binge eat secretly from my husband and ultimately he knows it because the scale doesn't lie.
My nurse was condemned to fight with me because I didn't give me food and with my husband for providing it.
My husband is tired of dealing with me and decided to leave everything in my hands.
When I want to eat no one tells me anything. Now the diet is in my hands.
This is a disaster. I start crying while binge eating, but I can't stop ordering fast food and swallowing like a pig.
My physical therapist came to my house and I was eating hamburgers. The look on that guy's face was atrocious and I imagine he only thought "I get paid to do my job and keep my schedule."
I feel like no one helps me and they left me alone to my own devices, but I don't make the slightest effort either and I can't help it either, because the desire to eat is so strong that I end up eating everything on my table.
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm so happy for you!
Munchies:
Piss off. We all know you are wanting her to die. It would be one thing if that'a what she wanted, but it's not.
Even Weetabix, another death feeder, has more decorum than you.
Hedonistic_Purity:
No I just want her to eat. As much as she wants.
She doesnt conciously want to eat, its that she cant help it. She has stated, litteraly in the title of the post that "Its enough"!
9 months
