This is really kind of you! And i would love to add a few things!

Try to get into the other person's shoes! Try to understand how your actions will affect them, from their point! I promise you, once you understand how to make the other person's time pass well, they will appreciated your acompany a lot! ^^

Try to understand yourself! Try to understand why is it that you May not care for the above point for example! (if thats the case) or try to understand what other areas in you are under developed, lets say!

And please... Please! Try to comorehend that everyone is stupid! Including the person you might talk with, yourself and me! We're all stupid, in the sense that we make choices that will end up hurting us, without us even realizing!
We're stupid, because we dont know everything! And that is natural! We are born only with some basic insticts! These dont help us understand how the world works, but only push us to do things that will ensure our survival! We have to learn, beyond that! And thats how the stupidity vanishes! We are at a point where information is widely available! What we have to do is go and explore it, so that we understand how the world works, and inevidably, become less stupid!

It might seem tabbo, offensive or unkind to talk about stupidity. But the reality is thats a stupid way to think of it! Because if we dont understand the problem, we wont be able to solve it! And it will continue to hurt us!



What i just wrote, is also an attempt at spreading love, kindness, respect and trust, however ironic it might sound! I just hope its not an utter failure at it! xD

Hey you never know! >.<

I know its extremely unlikely something will happen, but ill put efford in anything thats not absolutely impossible!

Indeed, but that person still logs in sometimes!

Are you looking for friends, or possibly a feedee? :3

Hello there! This might have been asked before but i couldn't find something quickly.
I'm trying to commit to gaining, and i would like to hear tips on how i could gain in a relatively healthy way, if im looking to get extremely fat. (ideally I'd like to end up completely immobile, and to do that successfully, i must be as healthy as i can in each point in my weight gain journey)

Out of curiosity, do you have similar interest on guys that want to fatten up (but aren't quite there yet)?

Hahahaah, i definitely agree, i find it best when that's the case! 😂

Okay! Now I can work with this a little bit better. So, what you write here is basically a materialist explanation of how this came out to be! The way i interpret it at least!

My question is, Is this the best we can do? To pretend that our bodies are beautiful, (instead of beauty living in the ideological space) in order to counter the discrimination? But it would require the same level of mental energy, or less to explain that everyone has different views! That's a much tougher ideological argument to make, instead of the "No, im beautiful", which is really only a reactionary move to the discrimination. It tries to prove it wrong, without proof which makes it a toxic and not a constructive argument! And I'm criticizing precisely that! And in fact i provide an alternative, precisely because i do understand that discrimination does cause harm! It is stupid! It is irrational! But the way to counter it is not with more of the same! But with something that will render the logic of the discriminator obsolete!

Also a few more points,
I never implied, and i see that it might not have come across clearly, that beauty isn't real. Beauty is purely ideological. It resides in the domain of ideology,each one of us has! And our ideology constructs our reality! Here I'm not saying that beauty isn't real, but precisely *how* it is real!

Secondly, i didn't understand how beauty is a social contrast at all. Beauty standards absolutely are (in any kind of civilization) i can see how perceptions of beauty can affect society, and how society can affect the perception of beauty people have, but that, again is something elde. I'd really appreciate it if you explain this point further, because i cant see how beauty could be a social construct!
And lastly, I'd actually appreciate it If you also provide constructive criticism to my previous post too!

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Please offer your insight! Don't waste your time and energy on responding with completely useless, to the conversation, memes!

Well, i understand that this comes from a good place, but i find bizarre this way of trying to appreciate a belly! Let me explain:
No belly is beautiful. For the same reason nothing in this world is beautiful, or ugly. That's not a property of objects, but an idea in our heads! We think it! It's us, who find things beautiful or ugly! And if there are many (different) opinions, some will find it beautiful, others indifferent, and some will think it's ugly.

My point is that this is neither a way to appreciate people's individuality, because it contradicts itself (by way of assuming that we all have or we all ought to have the same, set way of thinking)

We have to come up with something better than this!

For example things don't owe us to be beautiful. The first step to trully appreciate a belly on the basis of beauty, is to realize it's right to not be beautiful! And it's then that you can appreciate the relationship between the object (in this case the belly) and the person who finds it beautiful!! That's far more radical! Not only it is much more liberating, but it's liberating on more dimensions too! If you want to gain or loose weight, because you have a desire to have a certain body, different to the one you got, it liberates you from hating your body for not being beautiful, because it simply doesn't owe anyone that! But it also doesn't force you into believing that your body is in fact beautiful or ugly, because it's neither! But you have the freedom to like it or dislike it! You can find it beautiful or ugly! Or even be indifferent! Nobody else can force that *you should* find it beautiful, or ugly. But simultaneously they also can have their opinion, and you don't have to view it in the same way!! You can talk about it if you want, that whould be cool if it is done in a productive way, but you could also not, if you don't want to!

Note that this doesn't make harassment acceptable tho, constructive discussion is one thing. Harassment is something different and stupid!

I hope this came out clearly! And im really curious, what do you think? Feel free to criticize what i said!