I share this fantasy, that somehow a kidnapping is a blessing in disguise and really it’s a dream come true. I want to be stuffed like a cartoon character, no fears, no limitations, just a belly growing and stretching outward, ripping my clothes, breaking my belt, breaking the chair and am too fat and full to move. Fuck!
Im glad I’m not the only one who has these fantasies!
3 years
I’m a guy moving into his twenties that has this fetish but I am only starting to really experiment. (I’ll share some background, if you want me to get to the point, skip to the last paragraph)
When I was younger, I didn’t know I had a fetish, but I had this strange attraction to really stuffed or pregnant looking girls. I would want to feel the way they did and ask my parents for more food like 2 burgers instead of one or a large pizza. I even tried mentos, soda, water, etc. bloats and have had fun with them. I did fall in and out of my fetish because no one in my life understood it and saw it as WRONG. I am now taking in my fetish and am accepting it more everyday.
Point is I really enjoy the feeling of stuffing my hungry belly to the max, to feel tight and sore from so much eating and digesting, and to have my girlfriend dominate me, rub it, call me names, treat me in ways I love. I’m scared though because I don’t want to gain weight. I enjoy being skinny and having an average body, it lets me do what I love irl. I’m afraid
I wouldn’t look good, I’d feel kind of ruined. Now that’s not to say fat on guys looks bad, I get turned on by fat guys occasionally and think their sexy, but I guess that’s too big of a change for me to dedicate myself to, I see myself as more than just my fetish. Fat naturally looks better on girls anyways.
Has anyone else had these fears when bloating yourself? Feel free to share your stories as have I.
3 years
I really enjoy comics like KipTeiTei’s on girls stuffing or being stuffed to enormous and unrealistic limits. It’s so incredibly hot or fun to read them, but is that bad that I like them for either fun or pleasure?
You can only go so far with a real body, and it becomes dangerous. With comics or pictures, the possibilities are limitless.
3 years
Gettingfatter:
I've always kind of likened it to going to a buffet - it's good to stuff when you're hungry, but pacing oneself you're going to be able to eat a lot more, and the stuffing is usually more satisfying when I do.
MrCupeKe:
What I fear most about pacing myself is that my appetite will be filled or will evaporate before I can finish eating, and so I’m stuck with a half full belly and no appetite.
I can’t wait to go to a buffet though, I’ve never gone, but I’ll be testing my limits with my girlfirend. Is it wise to drink as little liquid while eating so avoid filling yourself up?
Danny823:
I think a little water while stuffing is great for condensing the food you’re eating and can help you fit a little more. Things like soda are great if you’re looking to get more bloated, but you won’t get as many total calories in with soda because of all the space that carbonation takes up.
I’m really only looking to get bloated, not really interested in gaining weight. Thanks!
3 years
Gettingfatter:
I've always kind of likened it to going to a buffet - it's good to stuff when you're hungry, but pacing oneself you're going to be able to eat a lot more, and the stuffing is usually more satisfying when I do.
What I fear most about pacing myself is that my appetite will be filled or will evaporate before I can finish eating, and so I’m stuck with a half full belly and no appetite.
I can’t wait to go to a buffet though, I’ve never gone, but I’ll be testing my limits with my girlfirend. Is it wise to drink as little liquid while eating so avoid filling yourself up?
3 years
I love my fetish, I am slowly accepting it that it’s apart of me. I’m not forceful or demanding, but I try to involve my girlfriend as well, and she does every now and then. The trouble is we struggle sometimes with stuffing if we’re not super hungry.
Is it wise or an effective strategy to have barely anything to eat for breakfast and lunch, but then stuff yourself so much at night when your super hungry?
3 years
I feel like this feederism community is a safe place to talk about this, and leave any offensive or rude comments out.
I’m slowly realizing that I find guys attractive, not normal skinny guys but overweight or chubby guys. I’m trying to see guys as more than that, but the truth is, I feel a similar way about girls. I love girls bodies that are round and chubby and love seeing their body and don’t really care if I see their face or privates.
Can I say I’m attracted to guys even though my catagory for guys is limited to their tummies? I imagine cuddling and feeding them irl would feel amazing, and a kiss would be lovely feeling, but those ideas aren’t what turn me on. It’s their heavy body with their gay partner or by themselves.
Again, no rude or disgusting comments, they’ll be removed
3 years
So I know this isn’t a feederism thing, but pregnancy is still similar with having a larger belly than normal, though you get more than just feeling good out of it.
I enjoy seeing pregnant women in public just minding their own business, not in a creepy way, more of just a glance at them. I’m not sure why but whenever I see them, seeing a women produce life within her and looks perfectly happy in life motivates me to want to work harder in life to get that. I love thy feeling, it’s just something I look forward to to having my girlfriend become my wife, then become pregnant. It’s a plus because pregnant women are also incredibly sexy, so she’d look sexy naturally to me.
This is rare and I haven’t been able to find other people who get the same motivational feeling or finding pregnant women super sexy, can anyone relate? Share your thoughts on pregnant women, are they sexy, do you have a fetish for them, how do you feel when you see them?
And before anyone judges me on being an unprepared father who only wants a pregnant wife for her looks and not a child, I would never want her to get pregnant until I am absolutely sure I am ready for that kind of responsibility, and not anytime soon.
3 years
workingOnIt:
I think that the stress you're feeling is extremely understandable in your situation. It seems like you have pretty high standards for yourself (something I know all to well) which makes it really difficult to deal with the already difficult task of accepting sexual preferences that "deviate from the norm".
As hard as it is it might be to swallow, I am very confident in saying you can actively try and "force yourself away from this fetish" with all your might, but it's not going anywhere. I spent years trying to ignore my feelings and trying to convince myself that I could "get away from this." It doesn't work like that though, and in the end, that's really because it's a part of you. With that being said, I really really can relate to the stress your feeling in these circumstances.
I promise you though, if you find a way to manage the stress for the time being and give yourself the space to be open with yourself, that you likely won't always be this overwhelmed. You're already posting on this website which means at some level you're already working towards a level of self-acceptance. As you keep working through this process you'll get more comfortable with what you like and will be able to set aside unrealistic expectations more and more and see it in an unbiased light.
Having this fetish doesn't mean "you are doomed to be lazy." Having this fetish doesn't mean "you can't find a girlfriend who loves you for who you are." Having this fetish doesn't mean "you can't excel in your studies." It doesn't mean any of those things, or any of the other million things your anxiety is telling you it means. It's just an attraction like any other, another part of a perfectly normal and healthy sexuality.
Sending you positive vibes to get through this stressful time! Relax! Have a snack haha
Thank you!! All of that is so reassuring and helpful! I appreciate it greatly to realize I should accept myself rather than fight what is apart of me. I hope you accept yourself as well, I appreciate all the help and kind words so much!
3 years
Gay couples and transgender are more popular now more than ever and it’s being more and more accepted everyday.
I feel like more people can accept that it’s a thing that exists instead of impulsively feeling the need to judge or fat shame use. You know someone asked if I need therapy because I was simply asking about a bloating method. People can respect what we like and what makes us feel good, but they don’t need to be apart of it. I believe it
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