After making my post I realized that I hadn't a good understanding about what the basic account limits actually were; it seems like the OP request is pretty much already de facto, no? That's exciting. Thanks for the reply c00kie!

The trope of "secretly fattening someone up" is really difficult for me to read. The fact that they usually end with the victim being okay with it in the end seems like a harmful message: that abuse is okay as long as everyone gets their rocks off. Maybe there should be more stories where secret fattening ends with the victim getting out of the situation. That might be a nice change of pace.



To actually answer this, though, honestly just write what you enjoy. The world and population of writers is large enough that there isn't exactly a shortage of people to write stories around the topics they enjoy. People who write the stories they actually want to tell, without chasing trends or popular requests, tend to write better stories.

If you're wanting to expand your horizons, just read and explore things that you're uncertain would be hot; if they're not, you'll find out quickly and can move on, and if they are, not only have you unlocked a whole new topic you can enjoy reading, but you'll also have fresh inspiration for your stories.

If I were to make a real request of people to write, though, it would be fantasy stories in non-contemporary settings. When I click on the Fantasy genre, I usually have to dig pretty deep to find something that isn't set in modern-day America (and a lot of what I do find is based on existing franchises).

I enjoy when characters change in how they express their personality as they gain weight. The transformation of the mind along with the body is something that's a fetish in and of itself for me.

Whether it's someone becoming confident in their body and as they face other challenges in their life...

Or someone becoming more willing to show affection and be openly intimate with people...

Or someone becoming spoiled by the attention and constant deluge of food...

Or, for a darker slant, someone giving themselves more and more fully into gluttony and indulgence to the point of addiction.

Inner character arcs always make stories more compelling, and in feederism, you have a really easy way to tie that into a physical change that the characters undergo.

Hey, thanks, that means a lot!

No. You?

EDIT: I visited your profile and maybe the better question is if you have insight to share from a feeder/feedee relationship, regardless of which side of that you fell on, which you believe needs practical experience to truly understand. I'll readily admit that I have gaps in my knowledge and shortcomings of experience. Part of why I'm here is to learn.

Here's an in-between suggestion that might not be better than the status quo or what's been described above:

Maintain the current message limit, but sending someone a message gives them a free reply to you (and vice versa). This way a conversation that's gotten going between two people can keep going as long as they want, but no one side can start spamming or dominating the exchange.

No one person can be boiled down to a single label like that--at least not one who is well-rounded. I call my self a feeder. I also call myself a nerd. I'll talk about either with someone who shows interest in one or the other; I'd feel incredibly lucky to talk to someone who was both.

People have different priorities. Maybe feederism is the only goal; maybe it's just a small part of who they are. I take the position that assuming someone is the former is asking for trouble. At best you pidgeonhole your relationship before it's gotten started. At worst you lose someone's interest because you've presented yourself as a sex drive with legs.

But of course, maybe you know better than me; I'm new to this, after all. But to me, there's a difference between feederism as a kink and fetishizing people for their body type or habits. The former can enrich relationships. The latter is objectification that needs consent. Communication is at the core of what this thread is about. Finding out what people want before trying to provide what you think they want is critical.

This sounds like something I might try now too; I don't particularly care for trying to read people's minds, especially if their profiles are nearly empty.

The best advice I can give is to keep being patient. From what I understand of your approach in this case, it's similar enough to mine where I don't really want to start feederism talk right away; maybe that's the wrong approach on a forum dedicated to feederism, but my perspective on it is that an interest in feederism is implied here; it's a topic that can be skipped. There are other parts of someone's personality that can be just as if not more interesting than their kinks.

That being said, remember that people have lives and work outside of dating apps. I leave these tabs open while working on a different computer, and it's likely other people might do something similar. Be patient; even though it's just one more day waiting for a response out of the five years you've kept going, it will hurt, maybe more than each day that's already passed. But the most important step isn't the first, or the last; it's always the next one.

So keep reaching out. Maybe change your approach; you might be happier and find more success looking on a traditional dating app/site and bringing up your kink once you've gotten to know each other. That isn't to say it'll be easy. Online dating is the 2nd most demoralizing thing I've ever experienced, only behind job hunting.

But keep trying. Take a break to focus on yourself and other parts of your life, if you have to, but keep trying in the end. Be respectful, and be patient, but be determined. And remember that if people act like shit to you, that's their problem, not yours. Move on to better people.

Thank you for all your hard work!