Theme of the month - may 24

Hey, I haven't forgotten that it's June. Does anyone have any thoughts on what they'd like to do? Poetry obviously wasn't a big hit!

We could:

Do a writing prompt again
Critique a single story (and if someone has something shorter, and would like to volunteer, that would be great!)
Do a Q&A about writing and writing kink fic with all the amazing authors here? Like I could come up with some questions and we could all answer them and then discuss? That one might be fun

Or anything else that you folks can come up with!
5 months

How to secretly add calories to my wife's meals?

Secret feeding is unethical (to say the least), against the ethos of this site, and Fantasy Feeder doesn’t allow threads like this asking for advice on how to do it or generally normalizing it. Please don’t make this thread again.
5 months

About your profile ...

Morbidly A Beast:
I wish there were other options, like gainer feedee don’t really fit right at least not for me, I’d feel much better if there was a option for something like BHM or something along those lines

Fat Admirer might work but that seems to be more like active seeking of fat than just being okay with being fat.

I feel like the people who don’t have it right probably aren’t real accounts usually don’t have anything else and are probably picture ripped from other people online. I’ve seen a lot of models pictures on here from profiles that are clearly not that model


If you see accounts like that, please report them. It’s super helpful. There are very few people who actually report fake accounts (there are a couple people who are great about it) and it’s hands down the easiest way to identify them. I know I don’t have an encyclopedic knowledge of every web model out there, nobody does, but everyone working together can make a difference.
5 months

Not a dominant feeder

StoryEnjoyer:
Not really sure what I would be in as a feedee, I am not sure if I would be dominant or submissive, in my minds eye I think it is somewhat neutral a bit of both.

Munchies:
Not all feedists are dominant or submissive. In fact, a good chunk exist outside of power play.

Letters And Numbers:
I feel like I notice a trend, maybe it’s younger people, or more online people, or just life in post 50-Shades world, of folks trying to shoehorn every relationship into a dom/sub power dynamic, which is just kinda funny to me.

Munchies:
Not sure how old you are, but this is hardly anything new. In fact, if you scroll through a lot of older feedist community posts (like Dimensions) you'll see that this kind of thinking is quite old. You and I know that being a feedist isn't inherently part of power play. But there's always been a sizeable chunk of the community that sees it that way.

Look at a lot of the older feedist media. Feeders tend to be coded as doms and feedees tend to be coded as subs. It's so ingrained in people's minds that anything outside of this dynamic is transgressive. In fact, if you look at some BDSM spaces, a lot of people think feedism is an aspect of power play.

It's not. I cannot emphasize how much it's not. But this is a mindset that's developed from the earliest days of the community and cemented by the mainstream not knowing what they're talking about.


I’m not talking about the feedist community, I’m talking about general life. There’s a desire to categorize people like they’re Pokémon that seems to be more common with younger folks but it’s not exclusive.
5 months

Not a dominant feeder

StoryEnjoyer:
Not really sure what I would be in as a feedee, I am not sure if I would be dominant or submissive, in my minds eye I think it is somewhat neutral a bit of both.

Munchies:
Not all feedists are dominant or submissive. In fact, a good chunk exist outside of power play.


I feel like I notice a trend, maybe it’s younger people, or more online people, or just life in post 50-Shades world, of folks trying to shoehorn every relationship into a dom/sub power dynamic, which is just kinda funny to me.
5 months

Theme of the month - may 24

Letters And Numbers:
Wisteria


Pale wisteria hangs
Soft violet almost fleshlike in the shade
Slack, heavy
A lover’s form. Posing
It’s spring when all is in its fullness
All winter preparing to blossom, now in bloom

Sex will take her into summer
Work her
Lose the ripened curves
Some of them

Leanness comes later but those are cold days
Now she’s heavy and warm and shaking in the breeze

Supergirl:
Really beautiful, I love it!

I am sorry I didn't see this challenge earlier - it looks like a fun one to try. I am very much NOT a poet, but the theme is kind of inspiring. smiley


Give it a shot! I’ll leave it open a few more days. I’m surprised we didn’t get any dirty limericks yet, tbh!
6 months

Boston feedee

Hey just FYI, you triple necro-bumped a thread that’s a year old where the last post is “it’s not real”. Don’t get your hopes up for an answer to a year old personal ad.
6 months