My career choice would be "independently wealthy". That way I could afford whatever feedism-related expenses might come up and have plenty of time to spend with my partner.
Forget just living off the interest, fattening off the interest is so much better!
11 years
I have a preference for fat women primarily because I have fetishes revolving around the fat itself.
I figure that's the best way to explain it. Only took more than two decades to simplify it that much!
11 years
pizza222 wrote:
I was teasing you for being chubby.
I am really sorry if it made you angry or shoked because I did not want to hurt you.
I apologize sincerely and I promice I will not make any referençe to you anymore
Not everyone is into being teased; I'd say that most people aren't. If you're going into conversations assuming that the person you're talking to wants to be teased, you're going to encounter a lot of negative responses to your attempts at chatting.
12 years
LyteWing wrote:
While there are still many great guys out there (I would like to consider myself one but then again all the creeps think they are great too) they seem to be far over-shadowed by the creepy jerks. My personal experience with this site is that most women will not even talk to you or return a simple hello message because they have received nothing but a steady stream of horrible messages from low-lifes since they joined the site and are therefore unwilling to take any more chances on anyone.
But here is the rub....the jerks would not use their foul methods if it did not work for them an acceptable amount of times. Personally I could never employ such methods but there is obviously some allure to the "bad boy" path that some women respond to, at least at first.
So when women get messages from jerks it's their own fault because women actually prefer "bad boys"?
Have you actually spoken to women about this? Because it sounds like a narrative that's being set up rather than something that actually happens. I hear it mostly from dejected guys who are lashing out in an attempt to soothe their bruised egos. I almost
never hear this sort of thing from women.
12 years
Layla wrote:
what I personally meant was that to me a guy hollering out of his car isnt really a compliment, its catcalling
compliments are nice
catcalling not so much
for me anyway
This sums it up pretty nicely.
12 years
okapi wrote:
Alabasters respomse was perfectly valid. This is something that often irks me aboiut online debstes. It has to be okay to point out cause and effect without having people attach a normative side to it. Saying "people will misbehave" is NOT the same as saying "people should be allowed to misbehave", any more than suggesting a lock on the door is giving people carte blanche to attempt a break-in.
Saying that "people will misbehave" is essentially saying that "people should be expected to misbehave"- which effectively puts all the blame for the problems that this misbehaving causes not on those who are acting like jerks but on the people who "should have known better" than to post their pics on a fetish site/wear those clothes/get drunk at that party/etc.
While the severity of consequence is different, it's the same victim-blaming game that's seen so often.
12 years
I'm really not that creepy. So what if I like to kidnap and forcefeed unwilling victims? You can't hold that against me!
12 years
SsbbwMika wrote:
I'm not near 1000 lbs
...yet.
12 years
johnxyz wrote:Murphy wrote:johnxyz wrote:
While it might be creepy to take a picture of them, it wouldn't be creepy to get to know them. There probably aren't many admirers of women that size in a small town.
If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you can try to find out where they live, and send an anonymous letter saying that they are admired. Maybe even give the FF url to them.
Did you seriously just suggest stalking them?
I don't mean follow them home. But if you see their car in the driveway of a small town. But if that is considered stalking, then just say hi to them when you see them.
My point was to be supportive of them. I am sure they get enough negativity.
You suggested trying "to find out where they live". That's called stalking, and it's illegal in many places (for good reason). You're advising someone to stalk a complete stranger because they're attractive.
Or, put more succinctly,
you're telling someone that they should be a sexual predator and- more than that- that
the person being stalked should appreciate the attention.
12 years
johnxyz wrote:
While it might be creepy to take a picture of them, it wouldn't be creepy to get to know them. There probably aren't many admirers of women that size in a small town.
If you don't feel comfortable doing that, you can try to find out where they live, and send an anonymous letter saying that they are admired. Maybe even give the FF url to them.
Did you seriously just suggest stalking them?
12 years
