My wife is 5'5" and was 210lbs when she fell preggers. But the thing is our local maternity ward at the hospital has a BMI cutoff at 45. It used to be 40 though

I would have to say jiggly. I like the firmness you would expect from a preggo belly, but a bit of softness on top of a preggo belly, and some jiggle underneath is fantastic too.

I would have to say my wife, maybe another 20 or 30 kg (44 to 66 lbs). Apart from that, I have a close female friend who is 5'8" and about 240lbs. I wouldnt mind seeing her put on another 40 or so pounds. It probably won't happen though, but heres to dreaming.

I think being lazy could also play a part. Gotta love that laziness

I've spoken to foodies that also say that eating late at night helps because your metabolism slows down at night, while you're supposed to rest.