I need some help.

Kitty wrote:
I'm just trying to really grasp this. I feel like he has a secret agenda of making me fat though he says he never would.


Only your boyfriend knows if he has a secret agenda.

But I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. It's quite possible to fantasize about this stuff without ever doing it.

And even though we like this stuff, most of us oppose pressuring, manipulating, or tricking someone into gaining against their will.
14 years

Will feederism ever be...

Kid A wrote:
Please can we stop hating ourselves? Seriously.


Let's.

On the count of three.

One...two...three!
14 years

Will feederism ever be...

sethman wrote:Think about how many people that are even HERE, on FF, who don't accept the fetish.


Good point. But it's hard for us to accept ourselves in the absence of any wider acceptance.

I'm not too optimistic about this myself, but it's worth thinking about.
14 years

Will feederism ever be...

...accepted by mainstream society?

If so, how will this come about?

If not, why?

Discuss.
14 years

Big decision

"Deciding to Get Fat" at askdrfeeder.dyndns.org may help.
14 years

Real life fatasies :d

I wouldn't want to be in a feeding relationship with someone unless we loved each other.

That's usually the showstopper for me.
14 years

Q for foodees and feedees

koi wrote:
Well, I could go there for vacations as well. But I'd like to accomplish shit in my life, and I guess that Feederism Hostel wouldn't help it.


True, if you want to scale mountains or something.

But since you wouldn't have to work, it would open up some possibilities. Writing, composing, quilt making, whatever.
14 years

Q for foodees and feedees

deezaster82 wrote:
That would be paridise on Earth! Because, if such a facility existed, I'd work there and feed people and watch them grow soft and happy!


Maybe that's the business model. Feeders would have to pay to work there. smiley
14 years

Fat and height

It's not a big deal for me, except I don't really like a woman to be taller than me. (I'm 5'10"smiley
14 years

Q for foodees and feedees

Of course you could leave. It's not a prison. smiley
14 years