softissexy wrote
Look em in the eyes than look at the pussy than look em back in the eyes, and deliver your line, subliminal messages rock. You have to let them know how you really feel lol that way you not automatically put in the friend category.

FriesWithThatShake wrote
My problem is that I can talk to any girl; hot or not, with no problem... UNLESS I REALLY like them. That's when I start to over think. A lot of my friends at work or school always wonder why I'm hardly ever dating someone, and most of the time it's because I either screw up or don't even try.

If THEY initiate a conversation with me, then I'm perfectly fine, but it's very difficult to start a conversation with someone you like. My mind thinks of every possible scenario before I approach, and at the last minute, I have the dreaded "WHAT IF?" question.

The ONLY time I ever am great in conversation is once I'm out of a relationship or depressed, as odd as that sounds. I become apathetic about what anyone thinks about me and I just say and do whatever the hell I want. For instance, on Christmas eve last night, I started doing stand up for my coworkers (about 10 people) and ended up entertaining the bar (100 people) over the course of the night (since I am naturally VERY LOUD and use strong gestures). I use it as my upper and then feel down once it's over.

Forest wrote
I don't really know what the problem actually is to be honest... Is it my looks? My interests? Behaviour? Personality in general? Never had a girl flirt with me or say something which could be interpreted as interest... Or am I just bad at reading signals? These sort of doubts gnaw at my self confidence when I sit in solitude and ponder these sort of questions.

Charlie Bucket wrote
to put on any serious poundage i would have to eat near on non stop, all day!!!:o and im not the 'biggest' fan of food!

missy1976 wrote
In real life, i get pissed off bec fat guys always think that they need to lose weight when in fact they r perfect as they are and the bigger the better!!!