Fantasy Feeder

Finding real people

WeirdoOnArt:
You’re not alone pal. I really wish I can find the right girl to care for and feed on this website.

Sir, you've been here for 4 days. And your profile is even worse than OP's.

You call yourself a "loser nerd." I know you meant that to be funny, but women see that as a red flag. We see it as you being an emotionally insecure little man-baby who will make that other people's problem.

I know dating is hard out here on these streets, but accounts that aren't even a week old with barely any site interaction and shitty profiles have no legs to stand on.

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Finding real people

Yeherehard:
Hey FF, i’m a 19m on here looking to meet people that are actually interested in chatting but it seems like almost everyone is on here to promote or just try to get money, am i looking in the wrong place or does anyone have any tips? thank you 🙏

Imma level with you, chief. It looks like some of your problem is self-inflicted. You barely engage on the site, your profile is barebones, and you tell people to hit you up on Snapchat.

No one worth talking to is going to take you seriously. It screams that you're here for a warm, bam, thank-you ma'am, and little else. So, naturally, the only people you'll attract are those looking to make a buck or get free food.

There's no sign of your personality. We can't tell who you are as a person. Your profile briefly touches on some of your likes, but it's primarily in service to you being a feedist. That's not enough to make people want to talk to you.

I assume you spent most of your time in chat. How often do you talk with people in gen chat vs sliding into DMs? Most women will sus men out before giving a guy the time of day to make sure he's safe and is worth their time. I'm sorry to say, but most women will not take a chance with your profile and site participation as it is now.

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Male pear

Bigwideland:
A member informed me I am a pear shape.

Quote:

It is very rare shape. This is a blessing among ssbhms to be a pear,

I am interested to know more and why is it rare?

I legit wanna know how many people are actually ssbhm-enthusiests. Because that's not true.

There's this idea that men tend to have apple-shaped bodied while women have more body diversity when gaining. This is what we call a load of hogwash in my neck of the woods. Even got into an arguement about it with a couple of male members once.

metro.co.uk/2017/05/21/there-are-only-five-male-body-shapes-according-to-health-experts-6650097/

As you can see here, pear-shaped men are the 3rd most common body shape. So it stands to reason that pear-shaped ssbhms cannot be that rare.

I will say that there are popularized body shapes. For men, it's the apple shape. It's all about having as big a belly as possible. So apple shaped men will be more popular the other body shapes.

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How much do you care about your own health ?

Technoman:
This is NOT a judgement. I am just curious about different perspectives. I am also curious to how different the answers will be whether someone identifies as a feedee, gainer, mutual gainer, foodie, feeder, fat appreciator, or something else.
I am a fat appreciator and I care about my health a lot. I think about healthspan, lifespan, and fitness.
I exercise and I am mindful about what I eat.

How much do you care about your own health ?

It's extremely important to my feedee and me. We are on the extreme side of gaining, but not the health issues.

Initially, I cared more about health than my partner. This is not to say he didn't care, but he was more ambivalent. But as he approached 500 lbs, he started to care a lot more.

I remember he had to have an MRI for an unrelated health issue and barely fit into the tube. Scared the shit out of him. He said that he never wants to be too fat for healthcare.

Personally, I think that's a really good thing to keep in mind. Once you reach a certain side, the medical world isn't built with you in mind. I don't think a lot of feedists think about that.

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Encouragement to keep going

J8o8h8n:
I feel like a part of what has me going back and forth with gaining is the lack of encouragement. I feel like I'll have good stuffing days, but when I don't see rapid results and I'm not getting encouragement to keep going, I end up backing off on gaining before I can really go all in.

Skill issue.

This is a self created problem. You're so focused on the gains that you are not having fun. I've read many of your posts. You put your body through hell, but you aren't a masochist. No wonder you're struggling.

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Name change

Misterioso:
That's a shame. I really wanted to change my crappy username after I started using this app again

Yeah, they got rid of it earlier this months.

And this is why you gotta take making a username seriously. Treat it like a joke, and there may be consequences.

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Love the look of being bigger and the feel of the fat, but not the feeling of being overweight?

Squash42:
Im dealing with very similar emotions. I gained a bit (mostly on accident), liked it sexually, but it was uncomfortable in every other context, so I am losing it again.

For me, I am not sure how much of the discomfort is genuine and how much is some manifestation of internalized fatphobia. Some of its about physical discomfort and some of its more of a mental thing. I even dislike how it looks aesthetically except for when Im aroused.

I would love if I could be fat when Im horny and then have it dissapear otherwise.

Maybe you should look into padding.

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Taking a time out for my health

BigBallBellyGirl:
Friends--

I hope no one takes this as me mistaking this forum for the airport, where departures are announced publicly. I also hope no one feels this is my attempt to chastise, dissuade, or judge anyone else. Couldn't be further from opposite.

I was taken to the hospital this morning with chest pain and inability to breathe. I'm having surgery at some point either tonight or in the morning to remove some blockages. I also have liver dysfunction. I'm not a drinker; in my case, it's related to excess fat consumption..

I have zero regrets about my gaining journey, and I'm actually very happy with my physical appearance. However, I'm not 30 yet, and I'm getting married this year. I'm going to have to reassess because I actually want to see my wedding and make it beyond that to see what the rest of my life holds. I really hope that includes a way to continue to indulge this fetish in a mindful manner. And likely, as I have been for well over a decade, I will still be lurking. 😊💜

I'm genuinely only posting because I've talked with so many people here, and I've enjoyed our exchanges and time together, but I don't even know your first names! I wanted you to know I think you all are beautiful people, and I wish you the most enjoyment life has to offer. I'm not closing my account, but I'll probably be semi-silent for a while.

Hugs, positive energy, and warm wishes to each and everyone of you!

Hey hun, feel better soon.

If you want to talk or just need some advise, you can hit me up. I'd like to think of myself as an expert on your specific situation. My DMs are always open.

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Good friend’s ex

Lovessbbws:
I'm in that situation my friends wife has gained 300 lbs and they are getting a divorce, her and I have always been pretty good friends and told me she would like to date and that she knows I am attracted to her and she finally realized she she loves me and would like us to be together

RenaissanceGuy:
Unlike the original poster's question, this is a much more straightforward answer in my opinion. This is a situation to walk away from.

I agree. Nothing good will come from this.

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Dating question

Puppichub:
When looking to date. Is there a way to signal that you're into feedism, so others would know but without blatantly stating it. (Its so stigmatized)

You can try out the vibe and see if this person likes what you like. But outside of that, you'll need to be upfront. There's a way to do that if you are interested. However, none have been widely accepted for all the secret signals proposed over the years.

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