It seems almost universal that people's appetite increases as they gain.
I also believe it increases even more if you gain quickly, but I have less evidence for that.
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There are lots of people would like to gain but can't, or at least, can't right now. They have job or lifestyle conflicts (like you), or health concerns, or their significant other wouldn't like it, or their parents wouldn't like it, or they want to find a feeder first, or they are physically unable to gain (maybe 2% of the populace can't gain no matter how much they eat).
And of course a lot of feeders have a similar problem...they want to feed somebody but can't find the right person.
Welcome to the club!
14 years
Maybe for feeders the idea of fattening up a lover is so intense we forget the other aspects of a relationship. Then we meet the feedee and it turns out (s)he is a human being, and so are we, and even if the sexual aspects of it are ideal, we're just as picky as anyone else when it comes to making a relationship work. We have to bond on emotional, intellectual, spirtual, political levels as well as the rest of it. So we often let you (and ourselves) down.
But notice I said "often". Not "never".
14 years
edit wrote:
this is just too cute
Thanks!
14 years
Kit7 wrote:
for a long time I was scared of what people would think
How did you overcome that fear exactly?
14 years
Actually for feedees who have gained on purpose:
1. How much have you gained on purpose?
2. What do you weigh now?
3. How does gaining/being bigger compare to what you imagined when you began?
a. better
b. worse
c. about what I expected
d. better in some ways, worse in others
4. If you answered a b or d above, in what ways was it different?
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3. What would your goal weight be if you were independently wealthy? I don't know that I'd go higher than 250, only for risk of the 'beetus lol. It runs in my family so I'll have to be careful
Okay, what would your goal weight be if you were independently wealthy and diabetes was preventable?
14 years
BlossomingBelly wrote:
How much weight gain would you recommend to a new feedee?
Seems to me you should gain at least 10% (22 lbs in your case) of your current weight or it won't even be that noticeable. And of course if that isn't enough, you can always gain more!
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