Fat fantasies

WeirdoOnArt:
I have had this fantasy already ever since I was a little kid. I would always put stuffed animals under my female friend's clothes and I feel like the awakening of this fantasy really wasn't present until I turned 11. Sometimes, however, I do feel guilty for wanting to have a fat girlfriend because of health concerns and that at some point I would be responsible for the risks. However, I really hope someday I'll find my marshmallow girl and that we'll be like a marshmallow on a stick couple (me being the stick and her being the marshmallow lol)


Stuffing toys under your female friend's clothes?

Batman couldn't have gotten that outta me.
11 months

Biggest gains around here

Flying_pig:
I have always found it funny that people are unable to read and imagine things between the lines. They tend to have fertile imagination.
Unless you can point out where I suggested numbers…otherwise the above statement defines you perfectly


Someone had a big bowl of grumpy flakes this morning.

No one is talking about numbers, silly goose. And for someone who claims others do not have good reading comprehension, yours is substandard.

Lemme elicidate for your edification, darling.

Yesterday, someone responded to your post with a list of models. Now, this person has since deleted their response to you, but one of the models mentioned is Layla.

You said that though her gains are impressive, she is not an SSBBW. She is a BBW.

Ditzy and I then remarked how arbitrary the line between BBW and SSBBW is. Sure, some people are clearly one or the other. However, some people do not fit neatly into that category. One person might think Layla is a BBW while the other might think she's an SSBBW.

The line between SSBBW and BBW is something the community discusses from time to time. There's no general consensus as to when you become an SSBBW. Some talk about BMI and body composition while others talk numbers.

And even then no one agrees. I've seen people say that being 300 lbs makes you an SSBBW while others claim 400. Some think you become an SSBBW when the plus sized section at the mall is too small, and others claim it's when your hips brush against the door.

And on, and on it goes.

I understand this is your first post, but you've had this profile for 3 years. That means you've been on FF longer than I have. How do you not know that?
11 months

Wanting to meet people and encourage them to eat more

Thecinephile:
Just got an account here and am quickly finding that many look for feeders that will act as sugar daddies into their cravings. As much as I would like to help financially I’m not in the best spot to do so. Really just looking to find people who want encouragement in their weight gain journey that I can support while pushing them to eat more. If that interests you please feel free to add!


Imma level with you chief. No one worth your time is going to mess with a 1-day old account. New accounts are extremely fickle. It's not uncommon for someone to have an account and then delete it before the day is over.

In the meantime, encourage people publicaly and be active in the community. This way people can sus out your vibe and see if you're worth their time.
11 months

Does anyone use the word "obese" to describe themselves or their partner ?

Ditzy:
Munchies you are a trip !!.
I call my BF my BHM but he gets embarrassed when I do that.
He calls me wide load sometimes and I am used to it.
Never describe him to others as obese just a big guy.


I'm a trip and a half, but I'm a fun trip.
11 months

Biggest gains around here

Ditzy:
Never really thought much about that.
This site has never been about that.
Dimensions and Curvage its always been a competition of sorts.


Yeah, it's a very different vibe. We might flex over gains, but no one really cares at the end of the day. No one really keeps track like that.

Plus, as it's often been debated, the line between BBW and SSBBW is super up for debate.
11 months

Does anyone use the word "obese" to describe themselves or their partner ?

Technoman:
It's interesting to me what words someone uses to describe their size or their partner's size.
For a size with more adipose tissue, one can say fat, overweight, chubby, thick, plus size, etc.
Obese would he a unique choice to use, if accurate.
Does anyone use the word "obese" to describe themselves or their partner ?


I call my partner morbidly obese in the bedroom. It makes him horny when I do that.

Outside of that? No. I don't refer to his size my, but when I do, I'll either refer to him as a "big guy" or "extra fluffy." This is because if I am too blunt, other people will take that as disrespecting him or being displeased with how he looks.
11 months

How to stretch your stomach/build capacity?

Elis137:
Help lol

Voluptuouslover:
Stuffing regular everyday with foods you like and follow it by something sweet after every meal (you will be surprised, I never had a sweet tooth and I created one like this).

After 2 weeks stuffing at every meal and deserts it will get easier and you will see an increase in your appetite and capacity already. Continue stuffing and when you are full drink fattening milk shakes, followed be glasses of whole milk which will not only bloat you massively but stretch your stomach even more.

After about a month you will notice that your appetite is much bigger but you are continually bloated and full but you really don't have an OFF switch, if you are full and don't feel like eating still do, the moment you start eating you just keep going without really even thinking about it.

If you continue this after 2-3 months you will have not only gained quite a but of weight but you appetite will have increased 3-4 times what you used to it - but now you will need to eat a ton just to be satisfied.

Congratulations you have stretched your stomach and need so many more calories and food everyday just to stay slightly satisfied.

I gained 60 pounds in a matter of 7-8 months doing this and it was very difficult to slow down and eat have way normal and give up deserts after every meal.


This is one way to do it, yes. But this is also very expensive.

You don't need to constantly stuff, but regular stuffing and bloating is good too.

For example, you can buy carbonated drinks like soda and seltzer water for cheap. The bubbles will stretch you out. Throw some mentos for added intensity.

You could also make a big pot of soup. You can eat that over the course of the day for cheap.
11 months

Weight loss regret


[b]Munchies:

Hun, I think you'd benefit from therapy.

Jelly Rolls:
I do want to get therapy but what type of therapist would I go to in order to talk about something like this. I’m currently in therapy for other issues and have a good hold of my life in all other areas.


Maybe a sex therapist? I'd bring it up with your current therapist and go from there.
11 months

Weight loss regret

Jelly Rolls:
TLDR: I lost a good amount of weight in the last 6 months and am somewhat regretting it because I miss have more fat on my body and am having stronger feedee urges because of it. Yet I still feel that I need to make my body even smaller because of the shame I feel and believe I can make myself like being smaller.

So over the past 6 months I’ve been losing weight probably around 20-30 ish pounds now (leaning closer to the 30). It started off unintentionally as I went off my meds and then became purposeful and faster. I did it because I felt that weight loss would get rid of my nonbinary gender dysphoria (I’m afasmiley. And the biggest reason would probably be that I felt that I had to conform to society and that my feedee kink was disgusting and made me inferior. I thought I’d feel better if I followed societies ideal and now I just feel like my body isn’t mine. I hate how smaller my boobs are now and miss my big chest that turned me on. My boobs are half the size they were and it’s makes me sad. I literally have a 38.5-27-38.5 inch figure now at 5’10 and my dysphoria is even worse since my shoulders shrunk from 43 inches to 38.5. I used to have a 44-29.5-42.5 inch figure and it’s all gone. My belly’s flat and doesn’t jiggle at all. smiley My body just feels so foreign and unsexy to me. I told myself that I’d eat 1200 calories a day and do 300 calories of exercise for the next 2 months and then maintain my size to see if I’d like it more if I got used to it. Though the more I diet the more sexual weight gain thoughts and dreams I’m having. Is there a way to make myself like being in a smaller body more?


Hun, I think you'd benefit from therapy.
11 months

Intake

Bigwideland:
I guess this indicates my eagerness to grow.

But I found in recent big meals, I can down more as a shake, than food you have to masticate. So I am thinking to blend some foods into a thick paste, so you can swallow a big mouthful in one go, no crewing required.

I can see this could increase my intake before fullness kicks in , and will improve digestion rates, to ensue even more intake.

Do other do this?

BWL.

Munchies:
This is called pre-digestion. You make the foods easier to consume by needing to chew them less.

Personally, I do not want to have a club sandwich smoothie. Takes all the enjoyment out of eating, and some foods do not smoothie.

Like, you do you boo, but I'm gagging.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Munchies, you made me think of what my epic Thanksgiving feast would have been like blended. Definitely not knocking BWL's theory by any means (or for that matter, how anyone chooses to gain), but my brain also said, "I ate a 9x13 pan of stuffing and a 9x13 pan of Mac and cheese. What if they had been shakes?" 😱


LMAO!

It's not the worst thing in the world. Pretty harmless, actually.

It's just ... a choice ...
11 months