A note on weight/disability

Ditzy:
I would feel bad mooching off the government dole.
I'm just weird I guess.

Here in the USA if you do draw a disability check it comes with stipulations.
Not to mention a private detective working for the government watching just about everything you do.


Oh, 100%. The are always looking for reasons to take away your disability check no matter why you are on disability.

This is why if you are obese you have to have a comorbidity.
11 months

A note on weight/disability

Brastidious:
That's why I make the point on UK centric, you can just apply without a lawyer involved


The disability lawyer is to increase your chances of success. You don't need one to apply. But it does help a lot.
11 months

Good friend’s ex

Splash92:
So about a year ago one of my really good friends split with his girlfriend because she was “into things that he wasn’t.” That’s all I got out of it.
Fast forward to about a week ago and I ran into her. She was always “thick” but she put on a lot of weight. We happened to be at a bar so we chatted for a bit and she opened up to me that she was in fact into gaining. I didn’t directly come out and say I’m into women who do that but I made a hints like nothing wrong with a bigger girl. She wanted to get together again but I can already tell where this is going and I feel like that’s off limits being that she’s my good buddies ex. Anyone ever been in a situation like that?


This has the potential to get very messy. Sure, they aren't dating anymore. But I know a lot of people get weird about a friend dating their ex - especially if it means they'll be seeing their ex more.

If you want to preserve your friendship, I'd clear it with your buddy first before persuing her. There might also be more to the story than he first told you.
11 months

Girlfriend is into to it and i’m feedee curious any tips?

Oatie:
The title says it mostly, my girlfriend told me she’s into Feederism which I’ll be honest surprised me a little but not too much as I knew she liked my belly and thighs.
I’m a bigger lady and I have struggled with confidence in the past but she makes me feel very sexy and honestly never felt so free with my body confidence.
The idea of her feeding me is exciting and I’m traveling to meet her this weekend for two weeks and we agreed to give it ago.
I was wondering if there’s anything I can do to make it more exciting for her or any tips you all could give me?

Also don’t worry we have discussed everything like boundaries in detail already I’m mostly looking for fun advice.


Honestly, it's best to keep it vanilla and chill for now. If you have a shared kink you two are already experienced with, you can combine them together. But other than that? Keep it chill.

You are new to this. Focus on the basics for now.
11 months

A note on weight/disability

Brastidious:
This came up in chat and figured to make a topic about it.

Bear in mind that this UK centric and other countries may differ.

That said, being fat can qualify you for disability benefits.
When completing the forms, you need to be honest about how it affects you, especially day to day. It may seem hard, but it's the difference in qualifying or not.

I can't give specific advice, but it is something to consider if you've had days that have been difficult due to your increased size.


There is a caveat to this. Being so fat that it impairs your daily living can help you get disability, but you usually have to have a specific comorbidity to go with it.

And always have a disability lawyer.
11 months

How to secretly add calories to my wife's meals?

Harry-Misty:
I want to fatten my wife, she's already obese, but sometimes eating not enough to gain. What i can use to increase her calorie intake so she can gain and gain a lot faster?

Munchies:
Why in the world did you make two posts about this? No one is going to be on your side about this.

Secret feeding is the number 1 cardinal sin for feedism.

I Am Uo:
They made 4. 2 have been deleted. There is also 1 in the submission forum


Lord have mercy.
11 months

Wife has ibd, stomach ulcers.

Twig Bug:
Hello I hope everyone is doing well!
I have been trying to find ways to help alleviate my wife's Ibd and stomach ulcers...she wants to get as fat as possible it has a hard time eating more when she is full due to her stomach being more sensitive.
Please if anyone knows of any remedies that might help I am all ears!

Munchies:
She needs to heal her stomach ulcers before she worries about gaining weight.

Also, what is IBD?

Twig Bug:
I have gotten her some supplements that aid in healing the stomach, so far she has been doing better in that regard.

Munchies:
I'd wait until she's 100% ulcer-free first.

Twig Bug:
Yeah we are currently doing that, doesn't help she is always hungry...all the time. Lol


Lol, I bet. Persistent hunger is a symptom of ulcers. Although those so-called hungry pangs tend to be pain from the stomach lining.
11 months

How to secretly add calories to my wife's meals?

Harry-Misty:
I want to fatten my wife, she's already obese, but sometimes eating not enough to gain. What i can use to increase her calorie intake so she can gain and gain a lot faster?


Why in the world did you make two posts about this? No one is going to be on your side about this.

Secret feeding is the number 1 cardinal sin for feedism.
11 months

Wife has ibd, stomach ulcers.

Twig Bug:
Hello I hope everyone is doing well!
I have been trying to find ways to help alleviate my wife's Ibd and stomach ulcers...she wants to get as fat as possible it has a hard time eating more when she is full due to her stomach being more sensitive.
Please if anyone knows of any remedies that might help I am all ears!

Munchies:
She needs to heal her stomach ulcers before she worries about gaining weight.

Also, what is IBD?

Twig Bug:
I have gotten her some supplements that aid in healing the stomach, so far she has been doing better in that regard.


I'd wait until she's 100% ulcer-free first.
11 months