I don't know, the feeding inclination may just be a fetish, but if you want to actually experience feeding, you have to have a relationship. A one-night stand might be fun, but it's not going to cut it as a feeding experience. A person simply can't gain much in a night!

So a feeder will naturally lean towards a long term relationship.

There's no way to be sure.

Don't get fat unless you want to be fat.

It's funny because when I wrote it I had no idea it would actually work!

Wonderful gain!

Has your appetite changed much since a year ago?

Try reading my article, "Deciding to get fat"--geocities.com/doctorfeeder/dtgf.html

I agree that sexual pleasure is why gaining can get out of control (much of the time anyway) but there's more to life than sexual pleasure. It's not the only consideration when deciding whether or how much to gain.

I got a letter from someone like that recently:

www.geocities.com/doctorfeeder/index.html

It's true that some people find it really hard to gain and don't even dream that getting too big could be a problem.

But metabolisms slow down as you get older. And appetites can increase, especially if you overeat frequently.

Also, you may find a feeder who makes gaining much easier than you ever dreamed!

All I'm saying is, stuff happens.

Of course there's a risk you'll get bigger than you want. That may happen even if you don't gain intentionally! Don't believe me? Just go to a Weight Watchers meeting. It will be full of people who are bigger than they want to be--and most of them never gained on purpose.

The advantage you have over those Weight Watchers is you actually want to be fat--so you can get bigger than many of them can without being bigger than you want.

The disadvantage you have is that you love gaining and you may grow to love it even more. You may find it difficult to stop.

I'd say take it slow. Figure out the maximum weight you're comfortable with and plan on stopping well before that amount, leaving yourself some wiggle room in case you overshoot.

There's still some risk, of course. But there's risk to almost anything worth doing. It's your call.

It does cause problems, of course. But it sure makes it a good time to be an FA!