Your bf should make sure you ALWAYS have large quantities of goodies on hand.

There should be a wide variety of goodies.

There should be plenty of fattening ones, and lots of liquid calories--milkshakes are particularly good. (Sodas are very fattening but really unhealthy, I'd avoid those).

Don't try to force yourself to the point of being completely stuffed (unless, on occasion, you feel like it). Instead just get into the habit of snacking frequently.

You may not gain much at first, but keep it up.

Your boyfriend should keep tabs on which goodies disappear the quickest, and make sure to replace them quickly, especially the more fattening ones.

Your boyfriend should monitor your gain and praise and reward you for each new pound, each new inch. Rewards may include your preferred sexual favors.

And of course, the gluttony pledge may help: fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/viewthread.php

If all you care about is a person's weight (be it thin or fat) you're shallow.

If, on the other hand, you care about the whole person, Dr. Feeder gives you permission to prefer certain sizes without being shallow.

It is very common to be conflicted. You may always be conflicted, at least to some degree.

But you should make up your mind.

Either get fat or stop gaining.

If you can't decide, don't gain anymore until you do decide.

Congratulations. You're a feedee.

Was the feeling erotic?

It could happen. It's already way more out in the open than it used to be. Just look at this site!

I don't know, the feeding inclination may just be a fetish, but if you want to actually experience feeding, you have to have a relationship. A one-night stand might be fun, but it's not going to cut it as a feeding experience. A person simply can't gain much in a night!

So a feeder will naturally lean towards a long term relationship.

There's no way to be sure.

Don't get fat unless you want to be fat.