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lovely_plumper wrote:
but sometimes I feel guilty when I don't gain and overeat enough....how does that work >.< I feel like a failure at these points


Remember, it's not a race! If you don't feel like eating that much some days, don't. You'll enjoy it that much more when you start stuffing yourself again!
15 years

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To quote from "Deciding to Get Fat" geocities.com/doctorfeeder/dtgf.html:

You like fattening food. Your favorite foods just happen to be laden with calories and you're tired of passing them up all the time. Wouldn't it fun to always order dessert when you go to a restaurant? Or even have an extra dessert? Once you've decided to get fat, you can have all the fattening goodies you want.
You like to overeat. Obviously, if you decide to get fat you can overeat as much as you want. And once you get fat, your capacity will increase, allowing you to overeat even more.
You're tired of feeling guilty. If you're trying to keep your weight down and failing, you will feel guilty over your weakness, your inability to control your appetite. But if you decide to gain, there's suddenly nothing to feel guilty about.
If you gain weight, it's not a sign of failure, it's a sign of success!
If you eat more than you planned, it's not a sign of weakness, it just means that you're getting good at this.
You hate dieting. If you decide to get fat you never have to diet again. In fact, you really shouldn't diet again. If you have the idea in your mind that you might diet at some point, it will undermine your decision to gain, and invite guilt (see previous point). There's no sense in getting fat if you're going to feel guilty about it.
Your significant other wants you to gain. This is not a good reason to gain by itself, but if you want to gain anyway, why not enjoy it?
You find it erotic. Of course, this is one of the main reasons people gain on purpose. If you feel that way, you already understand it better than I could ever explain. If you don't, you probably never will.
15 years

I seriously need help with this

soundedmind wrote:
Where would I even begin to find someone for him?


Have him put up a fantasy feeder dating ad. He's looking for a dominant feeder.
15 years

Do you like it when people notice?

Lexy wrote:
i want to see if we might have the same interests without seeming weird if it sounds crazy to her so i thought her reaction might tell me something


Put your computer where she'll see it, then go away with your computer "accidentally" left on and your browser on the Fantasy Feeder main page. (Or www.geocities.com/doctorfeeder or www.geocities.com/feedswomen)

Then it'll be up to her to say something.
15 years

Do you like it when people notice?

Lexy wrote:
anyway at what point can or should i say something encouraging or teasing? just ignore it?


What is your goal here?
15 years

Rambling :p

Check out my article "Deciding to Get Fat" at geocities.com/doctorfeeder/dtgf.html
15 years

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It may have nothing to do with your weight. Many things cause shortness of breath. Anemia for one.

See a doctor!
15 years

Tired of this


... and just like that all my self pity is gone. o_o


Glad I could help!
15 years

Tired of this

Stormfury_4000 wrote:
So I'm really getting tired of this whole feederism fetish.


For what it's worth, there are worse fetishes out there. At least you're not a pedophile, a serial killer or one of those people who like to cut off their extremities!
15 years

Has anyone seen that movie 'feed'?

Nice review...but I still don't want to see that movie!

I'm pretty sure that is the only movie about feederism, though there are little hints of it in movies about something else, e.g. "In and Out"
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