Variety helps the appetite more than anything else!
15 years
Before you gain, get liposuction everywhere you DON'T want to gain.
15 years
Shao_X wrote:AskDrFeeder wrote:Shao_X wrote:I'm from an Indian background myself and if there's anything I've learned it's that while being fat or chubby is generally frowned upon in society, it's moreso the case in ethnic backgrounds, especially in the east.
Then how do you explain all those chubby Bollywood actresses? Hollywood rarely lets actresses get chubby at all.
I hope I didn't offend anyone. I just wanted to know how much of this community consisted of other ethnic origins. Yes there are many chubby Bollywood actresses but that doesn't mean it isn't frowned upon - How celebrities are regarded in India is different than in Hollywood in the sense that chubbier actresses are still considered or "allowed" to be actresses, but they aren't featured in as many movies as the slimmer top actresses are. That's not to say they aren't as good, that's just how the film industry regards it. Given, more directors and producers such as Yaj Chopra are trying to set a more secular view by involving larger actresses as key stars in new movies. I understand that from a media point of view it seems larger women are greater accepted, but the majority of traditional families are not as accepting towards their daughters - I was just wondering and I'm sorry if this post caused offense.
Don't worry, no offense taken. At least as far as I'm concerned!
I don't quite understand though...if the anti-fat stigma is as strong or stronger in India, why do so many Bollywood actresses get chubby? Most American actresses take great care to stay slim.
One explanation that occurs to me is that perhaps some parts of India are more fat-positive than other parts. As you of course know, there is a huge amount of cultural diversity in India. Perhaps the traditions you are familiar with are more anti-fat than some of the others.
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Shao_X wrote:I'm from an Indian background myself and if there's anything I've learned it's that while being fat or chubby is generally frowned upon in society, it's moreso the case in ethnic backgrounds, especially in the east.
Then how do you explain all those chubby Bollywood actresses? Hollywood rarely lets actresses get chubby at all.
15 years
Jmverhaalen wrote:
Does it turn you on more when you see girls that dont wanna gain get fat and try to diet but they keep failing
Unfortunately, women who hate their bodies are lousy lovers, so I wouldn't like that in a girlfriend; however, I might get a schadenfreude-type naughty pleasure if I saw that happening to a woman I wasn't with.
15 years
I'd rather start with a slim or average-sized woman. The change is much more dramatic.
As a rule I don't find slimmer women very sexy but as soon as they confess a desire to gain weight they're incredibly sexy. Funny how the mind works.
15 years
Amatrix wrote:
i started to gain about a year ago.
at first i was "whatever i gain... i gain, if i lose i lose..."
but stuffing- just about each day, if not every other day...
has helped me grow. in my life.
If I'm not being too nosy, exactly how did you get from "whatever i gain... i gain, if i lose i lose..." to "stuffing- just about each day, if not every other day..."?
15 years
