Area in the us with the most gainers/feeders/fas?

California seems to have the highest numbers of us in the USA.

But no one knows how many of us there are.
4 years

What could be done to stop so many from leaving the community?

What community??

It's just a bunch of people looking to find like-minded people.

The days of "Community" are long gone. People show up, curious then leave. Remake and delete accounts, come here to get attention or money. Read a story and look at pics.

None of that stuff requires community. Just a Website.

Once they get what they need, they go back to their normal lives.

There is no community. Just a fetish that links us all, loosely.

The chat is 99% Snipers (people who immediately PM every woman who walks in) and Moneyseekers
(you're not a real feeder if you refuse to pay strangers, after all, right?)


Most people who have a phone can't use it correctly anyway and it turns the chat into a dead zone even more.

The forums are the same old recycled topics over and over that devolve into the same old tired arguments. Or just people doing personal ads, complaints.

Communities have goals, pride, and unity.

Even the "Plus size' movement usually thinks feederism is just abuse anyway. So we really can't even claim to be a legit part of that, either.

So yeah, the "Community' days are long gone if they ever really existed in the first place.

There are no leaders, there is no goal, it's just every person out for themselves, expressing fantasies when no one's looking hoping someone on here has the same thing.

Usually, those people have nothing else in common.


People leave the website all the time, they return all the time, but there is no community to leave.
4 years

Fantasy feeders new look - we want your opinion!

Imagine opening this site on your phone and not expecting all the pictures, then anyone who can even glimpse at your screen knows what you're looking at.

A redesign is needed, but I think some discretion should be kept in mind if you're going to try and make it for a mobile set up.

Sometimes less is more. All the advertising pictures a bit of a waste of space because everyone who comes here already knows why in the first place.

Join our Fat Positive community. Sure, that's good in theory but it feels like trying to copy feabie a bit much. They did the same thing. Started out for fetishist people, then switched their approach making it "fat positive"

I think a pure fetish site still has a place on the internet. Fat positive implies that it's more of a safe space for fat rather than what it was intended.

BBW who show up thinking one thing will be in for a surprise when they are swarmed in chat by the horde of feeders looking for something else.

Not everyone sees Feederism as "Fat positive" behavior.
5 years

Gaining bbw wants a first time feeder

Opinions?

Nah, you're just looking for money. I don't see why you need it though. 80 pounds on "Accident" is quite the feat.
5 years

Gaining bbw wants a first time feeder

Accidently put on 80 pounds.


lol.

Sounds like a scam to me.
5 years

Fat bear week!

Viikinki:
The hell?


Yeah, I'm with you on this one. What the hell?
5 years

Time to walk away from the big girls

This is the third time this guy has "Walked away" just so everyone knows. At least the third time.

He'll be back, he'll leave again in a huff. Rinse and repeat.

Forever.
5 years

Time to walk away from the big girls

After just one month??

Well, bye.
5 years

Would you like to be a fantasy feeder moderator?

Sign me up.

I've been here for 13+ years with the same screen name.

I have a special way with people that only I can pull off.

It's time to make it official.
5 years