I used to be a fan of 'bottom heavy' women and, while I still am, I've grown to appreciate more all round fullness over the years. I guess I like a shape like Carrie from carrieland or Brooke from way back.

My 'unusual' like if you can put it that way is girls with biggish cales and cankles. Something about the sight of bone just above a girl's ankles that doesn't do it for me at all. I also like it when the collarbone 'goes missing' under a layer of fat so there's just a continuous softness from the neck all the way down to the cleavage!

I don't think this is a question that can be easily answered. Why do some people want to look a certain way, have a certain hairstyle, like to do certain things? It's just the way a person is I guess. I, for example, am not fat but have a solid build. I used to go to the gym and was toned but never got overly muscular or anything like that. I stopped going this year and while I have not gained any weight, I have lost all my tone and am certainly 'softer' than before. I'm kind of conflicted because while I miss my toned physique, I am also intrigued by the thought of getting bigger. I'd love to perhaps try it for a year with a partner. The two of us could just let ourselves live a completely indulgent lifestyle for a year, enjoy the experience and journey, and then reassess things after that. I think at the end of it I'd get back to the gym and lose weight and tone up but, like I said, I'd love to experience being a bigger guy.