It wasn't until the last 30 or 40 lbs before my sides began to widen out, I began to grow boobs, and my back began to chub up. I think it's pretty common for a guy to be all belly for a while.

Just PLANNING a weight gain diet is sexy to me.

This isn't quite the same as a partner, but I confessed to my brother about my sexual feelings regarding gaining weight. He told me he thinks I should at least stay the size i am and even get fatter if it'll make me happy.

I almost came out to a co-worker a few days ago.

i don't know if there are many chicagoans here, but i work down in the west loop and i enjoy going out to lunch. if any FFers are interested in meeting somewhere, i'd be up for it.

While i bought a scale about 18 months ago, I rely much more on a measuring tape.

I don't have a real weight goal, although the guys I see online whose bodies I admire are just over 300 lbs, maybe 40 lbs heavier than me. My belly is about 51" around now and I like the idea of being able to say I am four-and-a-half feet around (three inches from now).