*is seriously, seriously jealous*

I couldn't agree more.

I think one of the problems is people like FemFeedr--hi! ltns! good to see you around --and I are applying older social rules to online communication, which is developing it's own set of social norms over time.

I was surprised by some of winterstocking's list, but I have to agree that you can't presume people have logged on intentionally, or will remember to put 'away' or 'busy' notes up, or that they'll feel comfortable or obliged to write hours or days later.

I think we have to learn to have thicker skins online. And that's a very mixed blessing indeed.

If you don't mind subtitles, there are a lot of great films out there. For example, there was an outpouring of brilliant films from Iran for quite a while, from directors like Makhmalbaf and Kiarostami and others... The censorship made them work in allegories, some of which are quite beautiful.

You don't. You hope she enjoys it and decides to do so because she thinks it's fun and it pleases you. But you can't convince her--she either wants to or she doesn't, and it's her body.

I think you're all overlooking the legitimate problems some of us have.

If I post a face pic, and a student sees it, then our relationships is FOREVER changed, even if s/he never tells me s/he saw me here, or knows my kinks, or anything. I can't have an appropriate intellectual relationship with a student if our sexuality is in the room with us all the time. (*THAT* is why it's against the rules, along with the possibility of taking advantage of authority.)

I would happily post a face pic if I worked in an office. So have a little consideration for those of us with legit reasons, please?

OK, this leads me to a question. I know there are a lot of people--some feeders/feedees, some not of this community at all--who are turned on by mess. If this is you, help me understand? I kinda get the pleasure of different textures, like wallowing around in Jello, though don't expect to see me doing it. But spilling food? Ewwww.

Help?

I think it's really hard for guys who prefer chubby women. It's a bit more obvious if you're truly fat, but chubby and plump women sometimes prefer not to think of themselves that way. Or to think they're going to lose it. And in any case don't want their boyfriends pointing it out.

So, he may have bad experiences expressing his preference. Or he may be shy about it. But it surely sounds like he's enjoying the changes--and enjoying you!

Oh, my.

I don't think this thread will last, given that it's about children and feeding, I *think*. But it's pretty confusing.

I also love the toasted sandwich variety... my great grandmother used to make me a sandwich that was my first food love, I think. Fresh white bread, thin slices, buttered, with slices of any cheese that melts stringy, like mozzarella. Lots of butter in the pan, toast the bread in the butter until the bread is crisp and buttery and all the cheese has melted.

Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.