My thunder thighs destroy pants and shorts like nothing else. I've figured out how to mend the holes, but it doesn't look very nice.

My desk chair is in the process of breaking. It's been creaking and groaning for quite a while. Then a fastener popped off last week and now I have to be very careful how I sit, or the groaning becomes truly alarming! I hope it holds out until I can afford a reinforced chair.

Oh my god, so many times. My mom is the worst about it. I've told her I don't want to hear it, but she just won't listen. I love her dearly though... I guess everyone has a few bad habits. At least the rest of my family doesn't say anything about my weight.

I get grief from doctors too, but honestly, at my weight that's their job. They're trying to make me healthy because that's what doctors do. As long as they're not nasty or condescending about it I don't care.

Guild Wars 2, loving the new expansion!

This is happening to me too. A meal that was once way too much now fills me up comfortably with a little room to spare for dessert.

...When chairs with arms are the enemy. I went to get my eyebrows threaded at a new salon today, and had to squish in order to get into the chair! The armrests really dug into my fat. It was a normal sized chair, it just was not built to handle me! I'm starting to have similar issues at some restaurants.

...When your belly touches the edge of your desk when you're typing in a comfortable position.

...When your arms are in a resting position, your elbows touch your fat rolls.

...When you feel your belly resting soft and heavy in your lap, taking up space.

...When you have a hard time fitting your huge butt into many car seats. (I can usually wedge myself in, but I have to sit off center and part of my butt hangs off the side of the seat.)

Hi, I'm a SSBBW from California. I'm here to explore feedism and discuss fat life with a fat-positive community!