First of all, lets not forget that death feederism is not a thing, its a category of fetishes, because everyone has it different! And those fetishes share a common quality, usually puting the fetish above even your life. And it can get really weird and complex.
For example, i am a death feedee. I want to be fattened up to death, but that in itself wouldn't be enough to... bribe me into going down that path. What really turns me on are other things that can only exist if im being fattened up to death. For example, i wanna be incredibly weak (as in both physical weakness, and no self control) and absolutely dependent on a feeder woman who's on one hand really sweet (like, she constantly feeds and f*cks me, etc) but on the other hand a manipulative abuser who feeds my eating and cumming addictions in order to make it impossible for me to refuse to give consent, even as she feeds me through heart attacks. Being fed to death turns me on because its proof of how extremely weak and dependent i am to someone who plans to fatten me up to that point, thats what turns me on about it, not death!
In fact i kind of wish to find such a feeder, one to which i can consent to be handled in such a way that i loose the ability to ever retrieve my consent again. Trapped for ever with her feeding and fucking me mercilessly! O.o
1 year
Enas:If im well versed on this specific matter...
The direct assosiation between estosterone and agression is an, oftentimes false, oversimplification. What it actually does is to reinforce pre-existing social patterns and behavior. That's where agression comes from in the first place, and not testosterone, by itself.
My source for believing this is this guy:
youtube.com/shorts/sbgmUvV_qpE Is this helpfull? Do you disagree with it? What do you think?
Munchies:Yes! This is correct! Social stressors like poverty, unaddressed and underaddressed mental health, and gender roles are better indicators of aggression than hormones.
Fat isn't inherently feminine. It doesn't strip you of your manhood and make you more feminine. Sure, you are more likely to have lower testosterone and higher estrogen levels. But it is not enough to make you not aggressive.
Well, it can certainly bury mens' genitals, which is something ive noticed some stories name "manhood", and many people and i certainly find this incredibly hot...
My point is that in our fantasies it often does strip male feedees of our manhoods in some sense!
Especially in my own fantasies, wanting to be weak and dependent, to an evil woman etc.
1 year
If im well versed on this specific matter...
The direct assosiation between estosterone and agression is an, oftentimes false, oversimplification. What it actually does is to reinforce pre-existing social patterns and behavior. That's where agression comes from in the first place, and not testosterone, by itself.
My source for believing this is this guy:
youtube.com/shorts/sbgmUvV_qpE Is this helpfull? Do you disagree with it? What do you think?
1 year
Im really into themes of manipulation / abuse, and domination!
My favorite story on FF is "buried alive" and its about an inexperienced guy who finds him self in the hands of a manipulative death feeder lady!
Then there are lots of stories on Deviantart, which i like, and most of them have a mommy / boy dynamic, on top of the typical domination and maybe even manipulation.
I also really want to write a story, here on FF, but i havent gotten to it yet. Its propably going to be an effort to write the most extreme & dark stuff (for me) i can possibly come up with!
1 year
Anjou:
And then there is Jewish guilt...
What is jewish guilt?
1 year
Oogabooga10:
Hey everyone! 23m nerd here. I've never done one of these before, but I'm looking to talk those who are Christian and are into feedism. Feedism is rare in itself, but being religious AND into feedism is really rare. I'm Catholic, so it would be really nice to talk to Christians who are also into this kind of thing, but other religions are fine too. I really want to make friends in the community who are also like me, because even though I sometimes interact with feedism communities, I sometimes feel lonely because almost nobody is in my situation. Feels like I'm in a niche within a niche. I'm also really into video games, manga/anime, and motorcycles too.
I'd love to hear about your opinions and thoughts about this topic too, so feel free to share! Hopefully I'm not the only who's into this kind of situation 😅
If i understand the point of your entier post, it is basically asking people if they have this experience where their fetish contradicts their conciousnes? (If thats through the christian faith, or perhaps any faith seems to be of less importance to me)
1 year
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm not heckling, I'm supporting her choices.
Munchies:
Lies and slander ~
Hedonistic_Purity:
Say you.
The validity of an argument is independent of who is saying it.
1 year
Romy:
My diet is a total failure. I binge eat secretly from my husband and ultimately he knows it because the scale doesn't lie.
My nurse was condemned to fight with me because I didn't give me food and with my husband for providing it.
My husband is tired of dealing with me and decided to leave everything in my hands.
When I want to eat no one tells me anything. Now the diet is in my hands.
This is a disaster. I start crying while binge eating, but I can't stop ordering fast food and swallowing like a pig.
My physical therapist came to my house and I was eating hamburgers. The look on that guy's face was atrocious and I imagine he only thought "I get paid to do my job and keep my schedule."
I feel like no one helps me and they left me alone to my own devices, but I don't make the slightest effort either and I can't help it either, because the desire to eat is so strong that I end up eating everything on my table.
Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm so happy for you!
Munchies:
Piss off. We all know you are wanting her to die. It would be one thing if that'a what she wanted, but it's not.
Even Weetabix, another death feeder, has more decorum than you.
Hedonistic_Purity:
No I just want her to eat. As much as she wants.
She doesnt conciously want to eat, its that she cant help it. She has stated, litteraly in the title of the post that "Its enough"!
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.
Enas:
I dont care to pathologize anyone. I simply want people to learn what narcissism is, and what it is not, what are its specific qualifies, etc, and to be capable of figuring out the dangers that exist with it (for example, the worst case is narcissists in position of power). And i especially want the mods to be able to moderate these people properly.
Munchies:
So ... is this about the spat you had in chat earlier where you got ganged up on for being gross and got aggressive? Because that's what it's giving.
Its not about that, its about something that happened today (just a few hours ago).
Although i was very annoyed at something about what you mentioned, because when i tried to explain why often times i seemingly! refuse to accept opinions of other people, people acted as if i had no right to do so, and i was discouraged by this enough so as to not do it. I then thought that if i did, others would consider it harassment, because the person towards i was going to reply with it, said he is not interested. Thinking back at it i really should have said it.
1 year
Munchies:
No. Years ago, I was happy to discuss such things with you. I was patient. I was kind. But my patience and kindness are not infinite. After many conversations with you where I've been insulted and disregarded, I have no desire to allow you to treat me like that ever again.
I get that but you also dont shy away from making all short of statements about me that are false, because theyre based on, either my past (and not present) behavior, or they are just false due to a lack of information.
I've been trying to give you all that information but you refuse again and again. Yet you continue judging me incorrlectly (Im not bothered with being judged, but when you do it incorectly and publicly, i will have an extremely hard time making friends, etc.)
1 year
