Fantasy Feeder

It's enough

Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm not heckling, I'm supporting her choices.

Munchies:
Lies and slander ~

Hedonistic_Purity:
Say you.

The validity of an argument is independent of who is saying it.

9 months

Enas

Romy:
My diet is a total failure. I binge eat secretly from my husband and ultimately he knows it because the scale doesn't lie.
My nurse was condemned to fight with me because I didn't give me food and with my husband for providing it.
My husband is tired of dealing with me and decided to leave everything in my hands.
When I want to eat no one tells me anything. Now the diet is in my hands.
This is a disaster. I start crying while binge eating, but I can't stop ordering fast food and swallowing like a pig.
My physical therapist came to my house and I was eating hamburgers. The look on that guy's face was atrocious and I imagine he only thought "I get paid to do my job and keep my schedule."
I feel like no one helps me and they left me alone to my own devices, but I don't make the slightest effort either and I can't help it either, because the desire to eat is so strong that I end up eating everything on my table.

Hedonistic_Purity:
I'm so happy for you!

Munchies:
Piss off. We all know you are wanting her to die. It would be one thing if that'a what she wanted, but it's not.

Even Weetabix, another death feeder, has more decorum than you.

Hedonistic_Purity:
No I just want her to eat. As much as she wants.

She doesnt conciously want to eat, its that she cant help it. She has stated, litteraly in the title of the post that "Its enough"!

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Morbidly A Beast:
Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.

Enas:
I dont care to pathologize anyone. I simply want people to learn what narcissism is, and what it is not, what are its specific qualifies, etc, and to be capable of figuring out the dangers that exist with it (for example, the worst case is narcissists in position of power). And i especially want the mods to be able to moderate these people properly.

Munchies:
So ... is this about the spat you had in chat earlier where you got ganged up on for being gross and got aggressive? Because that's what it's giving.

Its not about that, its about something that happened today (just a few hours ago).

Although i was very annoyed at something about what you mentioned, because when i tried to explain why often times i seemingly! refuse to accept opinions of other people, people acted as if i had no right to do so, and i was discouraged by this enough so as to not do it. I then thought that if i did, others would consider it harassment, because the person towards i was going to reply with it, said he is not interested. Thinking back at it i really should have said it.

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Munchies:
No. Years ago, I was happy to discuss such things with you. I was patient. I was kind. But my patience and kindness are not infinite. After many conversations with you where I've been insulted and disregarded, I have no desire to allow you to treat me like that ever again.

I get that but you also dont shy away from making all short of statements about me that are false, because theyre based on, either my past (and not present) behavior, or they are just false due to a lack of information.

I've been trying to give you all that information but you refuse again and again. Yet you continue judging me incorrlectly (Im not bothered with being judged, but when you do it incorectly and publicly, i will have an extremely hard time making friends, etc.)

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Morbidly A Beast:
Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.

I dont care to pathologize anyone. I simply want people to learn what narcissism is, and what it is not, what are its specific qualifies, etc, and to be capable of figuring out the dangers that exist with it (for example, the worst case is narcissists in position of power). And i especially want the mods to be able to moderate these people properly.

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Munchies:
Once again, no one is saying you suffer from narcissistic personality disorder. If anything, you are an insecure manchild trying to prove to the world you are smarter and wiser than you actually are.

No, not at all! Your second sentense couldnt be further from the truth actually! I know what i am and what my abilities and needs are and what they're not. And neither am i ashamend of, or insecure with, my weaknesses. I really dont care to prove my intelligence to people, except of course when *they* for whatever reason need me to demonstrate it (which is something i sometimes also need from other people too, in order to bond with them properly!)

Can we sometime have a conversation about all this? Please? 🤣

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

HectorBalloon:
Oh I think that's a good point. Maybe we could start with a quiz.

www.psychologytoday.com/gb/tests/personality/narcissism-test/results

I got 47/100.

20-33 — Very low
34-49 — Low
50-70 — In the middle
71-86 — High

I got 41. But i think the test is fairly stupid, the questions are few and shallow - they dont interogate you much really...

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

HectorBalloon:
This thread's going to be chock full of irony methinks. Where's me popcorn.

Please dont take this as a cheap competition or whatever. I sincerely think that we need a serious conversation about this topic!

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Munchies:
Enas, you once made a thread about how no one likes you, several people who do not have a connection to you very kindly tried to help you out. And then you snapped at all of them and called them all stupid.

The thread ended up turning into a Roast Enas session because you kept insulting people and being arrogant. You are blessed that the mods came and deleted that thread.

The thread was deleted which means i cant go back and remember what people and i wrote in there, which is really bad. I would prefer it if it remained open, ideally without the roasting, since it was unecesary.

Still, i think you didnt understood the point of my post or my behavior, which was completely deliberate (i didnt snap at all, i know it might have looked like, but if you were to interogate me as to why i was saying the things i did, i think i would be capable of justifying them pretty well. Thats not something you can do when you snap.)

9 months

Enas

Book recomendation on narcissism

Enas:
There is a good book for learning what narcissism is, how to protect from narcissistic people, etc. Its called "Don't you know who i am!?".

If the book is too much, there also is an expert on the matter on YouTube, @DoctorRamani that has a dedicated channel on educating people on it.

I recomend these to everyone, especially the mods.

With this i also hope to begin a much needed conversation on narcissism.

Munchies:
But Enas ... you display traits of narcism. Not diagnosing you, but you regularly display such traits.

You're free to list them, however i suspect you belive so, only because i haven’t explained some things about how i behave to you. (And the reason for that is mostly that you refuse to engage with me about that)

9 months

Enas