Needtobefatter:
On one hand it's good that she's into feederism and possibly wanting to become fatter. On the other I'm not sure how I'd react first if I saw a family members body on Feabie. It might be a good idea to discuss it with her and see if wants to gain weight. If she does then there's nothing wrong with encouraging and supporting her in her goal, but I would block her profile.

Glitter Jelly:
Like me she gained a lot of weight during her anorexia recovery but unlike me she reached a point where she accepted her body as it is and belly dances as an act of rebellion against societal beauty standards.

She is so pretty and she can move! Here's a video of her that went viral on TikTok:

m.youtube.com/shorts/sdHPBfuV_Rg

She teaches belly dancing to anyone who wants to learn, no matter their gender, size, neurotype, age, etc.

I heard about her in the "Autistic Culture" podcast (which I love).

As an agender person myself, I also love that she identifies as bigender and also uses masculine pronouns.

Note: to my knowledge she isn't into the feedism kink so FGS please be mindful of that if you decide to comment her videos after watching them.

Munchies:
Welp, it seems that the error is site breaking. I haven't been on mobile for a minute. Got on this morning. For a lack of better wording, it's like the site is stuck two days in the past. Never seen this one before.

Glitter Jelly:
I was following someone called "Squishyest" and there's a green dot next to her avatar (which I thought meant she was online right now) but when I clicked on it it's like the account had been deleted. I don't understand how that's possible?

Glitter Jelly:
Weed elevates prolactin??? 🙀

My boyfriend has been addicted to it since he was 14. He also has moobs that remain visible even at a lower weight. I wonder if these things are related.

Munchies:
Potentially.

zrtlab.com/blog/archive/the-effects-of-cannabis-on-your-hormones/

This is something that I would like to see more studies about. But from what I gather from reading the studies and checking out some anecdotal testimonies, you have to be using excessive amounts of weed chronically.

Glitter Jelly:
He goes through one once (28 g) in 7-10 days. I think that's a lot? I wouldn't know, I have very little tolerance myself, I smoke one joint and I'm so stoned.

Munchies:
A whole ounce????

How does he afford that ever week or so?????

Glitter Jelly:
Short answer, he can't really afford to smoke so much but he started smoking at 14 and how it's an addiction. At least he completely stopped drinking more than 3 years ago.

He buys the cheapest once available at the SQDC (where you can buy legal cannabis in Quebec) and he's lucky his rent is much lower than most people but he doesn't have much left for groceries and has a breakdown whenever he has unexpected expenses.

That means I end up having to pay for many things but I stay at his place most of the time (even if I have my own apartment upstairs) so I'm OK with that. If my income wasn't good it would be another story.

He wants to reduce his consumption but can't right now because he has a lot of stress from school and he's in autistic burnout so going out into the world feels threatening and is exhausting.

Munchies:
Has he attempted to seek any assistance for his situation? If he's in school, there might be student resources that can help him. Even if it's a community college, there's usually something.

Glitter Jelly:
He has a social worker but everyone agrees that there are more pressing issues right now. Harm reduction is in effect and my boyfriend isn't in denial about his problem.

JohnFA:
How do I change my screen nane?

Glitter Jelly:
Weed elevates prolactin??? 🙀

My boyfriend has been addicted to it since he was 14. He also has moobs that remain visible even at a lower weight. I wonder if these things are related.

Munchies:
Potentially.

zrtlab.com/blog/archive/the-effects-of-cannabis-on-your-hormones/

This is something that I would like to see more studies about. But from what I gather from reading the studies and checking out some anecdotal testimonies, you have to be using excessive amounts of weed chronically.

Glitter Jelly:
He goes through one once (28 g) in 7-10 days. I think that's a lot? I wouldn't know, I have very little tolerance myself, I smoke one joint and I'm so stoned.

Munchies:
A whole ounce????

How does he afford that ever week or so?????

Glitter Jelly:
Short answer, he can't really afford to smoke so much but he started smoking at 14 and how it's an addiction. At least he completely stopped drinking more than 3 years ago.

He buys the cheapest once available at the SQDC (where you can buy legal cannabis in Quebec) and he's lucky his rent is much lower than most people but he doesn't have much left for groceries and has a breakdown whenever he has unexpected expenses.

That means I end up having to pay for many things but I stay at his place most of the time (even if I have my own apartment upstairs) so I'm OK with that. If my income wasn't good it would be another story.

He wants to reduce his consumption but can't right now because he has a lot of stress from school and he's in autistic burnout so going out into the world feels threatening and is exhausting.

Jboabfe:
I’m definitely heavy in the butt, I realized I was uncomfortable in just about every pair of jeans and ended up upsizing the pants. I think I might jump up another size, since even the new upsized pants (largest at the store I was shopping at) are JUST comfortable.

Glitter Jelly:
My boyfriend is bottom curvaceous (thicker thighs, round butt and wider hips) but he definitely wouldn't be considered fat here.

He's autistic and hates crowds so when shopping for pants he compares the width of the waist with his forearm to gauge so he doesn't have to try them on.

When he was heavier he used so wear size 34-36 so he thought the size 32 pants he had found would definitely fit.

He tried them once he got home and, to his dismay, they were tight in the legs and when he managed to pull them past his hips it became obvious there was no way he'd be able to button them.

He's a student and the last months have been very stressful for him so it's likely that he gained a bit of weight but you wouldn't know that by looking at his hollow cheeks and protruding collarbones.

Since then, he seems more self conscious, eats less at meals and somewhat reduced his sugar intake (he usually has ice-cream or pastries before bed). He's expressed that he doesn't feel good in his skin.

I'm trying to reassure him that he's not fat and nothing's wrong with his body. Thrift store clothes sometimes fit smaller or larger depending on how they were cared for and whether or not they got stretched with time. I suggested to him to look at the labels and avoid pants unless they have at least 5% stretchy fibers.

Munchies:
I learned this trick from my grandma. Take whatever clothes you want and hold them against your body. For wants, do the front and back. She had to do this when it was illegal for black people to try on clothes in stores. Not as great as trying on the clothes, but it's the next best thing.

Glitter Jelly:
That's kind of what he does, but maybe there's some discrepancy between how big he thinks he is and how big he actually is.

I personally wouldn't buy non stretchy pants as they are unlikely to fit me well. It makes sense as every body is shaped differently.

Elis137:
Hi everyone,
I’m really struggling right now. I have had this fetish for a long time, and it becomes especially overwhelming when I’m slightly manic and worse when I’m fully manic (I have bipolar disorder). During those times, I fully give into it and obsess over it. But once the mania is over, my eating disorders takes over (I struggle with bulimia and anorexia). It feels like I’m constantly stuck in a tug-of-war between these parts of myself. I’ve tried doing some bloats (with water and diet soda) but it just isn’t hitting right. So I was just curious if anyone else deals with anything like this and how can I figure out a happy middle ground.

Jboabfe:
I’m definitely heavy in the butt, I realized I was uncomfortable in just about every pair of jeans and ended up upsizing the pants. I think I might jump up another size, since even the new upsized pants (largest at the store I was shopping at) are JUST comfortable.

Glitter Jelly:
My boyfriend is bottom curvaceous (thicker thighs, round butt and wider hips) but he definitely wouldn't be considered fat here.

He's autistic and hates crowds so when shopping for pants he compares the width of the waist with his forearm to gauge so he doesn't have to try them on.

When he was heavier he used so wear size 34-36 so he thought the size 32 pants he had found would definitely fit.

He tried them once he got home and, to his dismay, they were tight in the legs and when he managed to pull them past his hips it became obvious there was no way he'd be able to button them.

He's a student and the last months have been very stressful for him so it's likely that he gained a bit of weight but you wouldn't know that by looking at his hollow cheeks and protruding collarbones.

Since then, he seems more self conscious, eats less at meals and somewhat reduced his sugar intake (he usually has ice-cream or pastries before bed). He's expressed that he doesn't feel good in his skin.

I'm trying to reassure him that he's not fat and nothing's wrong with his body. Thrift store clothes sometimes fit smaller or larger depending on how they were cared for and whether or not they got stretched with time. I suggested to him to look at the labels and avoid pants unless they have at least 5% stretchy fibers.