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Dreamcrowblackdream:
Has the chat room been down? The last few days when I enter it just shows 0 members and it’s blank.


There was a major chat update. Some people (such as myself) have been able to access chat with no issues. Others seem to have the issue you are having.

Not sure why.
1 month

A kink you have that you bet no one else has?

Voluptuouslover:
This one has to do with weight gain -

I love it when a women gains weight and even her fingers get fatter or chubbier - so cute!

My wife has fairly slender fingers, it is always the very last place to show a gain, she really has to pack on the pounds all over or it to finally end up on her fingers getting chubbier.


Linnerud:
I’m kinda the inverse. For me, the slender fingers suggest that the feedee was/is still skinny, but giving in to gluttony. Definitely a turn on for me

Voluptuouslover:
Well that is my wife sexy as fuck Shapley slightly fatty with huge juggs and a pear shape with a massive lower belly roll huge hips and thighs and fat upper arms with SLENDER fingers.

Schebabel:
definitely agree that slender fingers on a big belly are muuch better. It emphazises the size of the belly more


I see your slender fingers and I raise you "feedee with thick fingers" because the finger fucking is just better.
1 month

Ai fat humiliation bot

Morbidly A Beast:
the endocrine system is very complex and its deeper than estrogen = female testosterone = male


Unfortunately, fatphobia (which is entrenched in misogyny, oddly enough) is very pervasive in this community.

If you are a trans person who wants to look more feminine, and you find the way you gain weight a method to achieve this, I am not talking about you. I'm talking about those who think getting fat is inherently feminizing. After all, there are a lot of trans people seeking a more masculine look by gaining weight.
1 month

Crushing doctor's office experience

BigBallBellyGirl:
I need to find a new cardiologist. I didn't exactly handpick mine. I had a medical emergency 13 months ago, and she performed my emergency triple bypass. At the time, I was over 600 pounds. Following the surgery, I was able to get down to 555 - 560, but no matter what I did, I couldn't keep the weight off. I settled around 585 for a while. Last December, I got married, and I did indulge on my honeymoon, although I only had one true stuffing. By New Years, I was back at 600. I decided I was going to focus on clean eating (lean proteins, vegetables, salads, lots of water) and activity to the extent that I'm capable of it. I've stayed on the bandwagon (until today) with the occasional treat a time or two a week (and by that I mean a piece of pie, not the whole thing). I also stay within maintenance calories.

Nevertheless, I'm gaining weight. I have a very large girth, well over 100 inches around standing. That limits my mobility in the extreme, and I can't stand for long without my walker. My husband helps me d sitting exercises every day, but I just don't have a big range of motion. I'm about 646 at the moment. I don't have lymphedema... I'm just... FAT.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not unhappy with my size. I actually like my appearance. But I know I have to control my weight, or I could easily be unable to leave the house in a year, maybe less. I definitely don't want that.

My last appointment with my cardiologist was in January, and I was about 600 pounds then. She doesn't have a scale that can accommodate me, so they asked me to estimate my weight. I know exactly what I weigh, and I was honest. She commented on my weight gain before asking anything else. She didn't ask how I was feeling, about my breathing, about my control over my diabetes. She went straight for extra weight and reacted as though I was 200 pounds heavier, not 40-something. Even worse, when I told her what I eat in a day, she refused to believe me. My eyes were stinging with tears the whole time, because I know the truth. I'm not a liar. Otherwise, I would have put 600 down as my weight and not admitted I'm heavier. I quickly got around to refills of my medications, and left. I'll also add, my glucose was 125 and my BP was 140/100, which Is high but pretty reasonable for someone who is super obese, so no alarming indicators based on my actual health.

This evening, I spiraled. Despite my sweet husband trying to distract me, I ordered 5 Big Macs with extra cheese, 2 Crispy Chicken sandwiches, 2 fish sandwiches, 40 chicken nuggets, a milkshake, and a large Coke. I ate all of it, and I felt nauseated, I think because I'm no longer used to eating greasy and fatty foods or consuming so much sodium. It's also unlike me to eat out of sadness. When I was gaining, stuffing was always a happy and festive occasion.

My husband is encouraging me not to guilt myself and reminding me we can reset. And I'm going to ask my primary care doctor for a referral to someone new. I just wish medical professionals didn't take such delight in admonishing, and I wish she had believed me when I told her the truth.


It sucks when medical providers have shit bedside manner. How you treat your patients greatly impacts their care. It would have been more helpful to get to the root of the issue and not berate you.

I'm sorry, love. You do not deserve that.
1 month

Is chat still down?

OhHey:
Dang smiley Come talk to me


I just checked. Chat is up and running.
1 month

Body hair/hairy bellies, hot or not?

Bcool:
I shaved my chest once to make the woman is was with at the time happy. It was itchy a a pain in the ass. now that I'm getting fat I hope theres some woman out there that like hairy cause I really don't want to shave that much anymore


Some women like smooth chests. So prefer hairy. Others don't mind either way. I'm sure you will find someone.
1 month

Stuffing idea [need your opinion]

Spoilsandriches:
So I found this article www.bbcgoodfood.com/health/nutrition/the-10-worst-ultra-processed-foods-you-can-eat
I was thinking:
2x monster energy drinks
1x loaf of white bread
1x box of cinnamon cereal
6x hotdogs
6x vegan hotdogs
1x bag of chicken nuggets
1x can of Pringles
2x microwavable meals covered in vegan cheese and margarine

This shouldn't be too challenging because these are pretty palatable foods. FF, what's your opinion?


All at once? I mean you could but you'd also feel like shit afterwards.
1 month

Documented weight gain journey

Morbidly A Beast:
I think bbwcasey had one of the best gains of all time before she retired


I looked here up. She got impressively round. It also looks like she collabed a lot with reinapop too. She is another model with impressive gains.
1 month

Documented weight gain journey

Enas:
Back to the topic. OP, define "best".

Morbidly A Beast:
That’s not the topic, enas. This Socrates larp you do is getting really old


It's best if we call collectively ignore Enas. Can't have a productive conversation when he is in philosophy mode. So might as well not have one with him at all.
1 month

Hunger?

Lispoiledprincess:
I wake up starving, belly grumbling, hunger pains. I eat until i feel satisfied, but the hungry and growling comes back shortly after. I can hear it, so i assume others can,


Either your capacity is outrageous, or you do not eat enough protein/fiber.
1 month