Phenomenal_ssbbw:
Do you love to lay on the belly or play with the belly or both
I never even bothered with my stomach until I grew a gut and I started to realize the new sensations of playfully slapping it and having it rest on my lap when I sit down.
4 years
quiverdream:
I love this thread.
We can tell. Lol.
4 years
WideJuan76:
My gut has been rubbing up against the steering wheel for ages now and I got over the embarrassment of a seatbelt extender but the craziest sensation is to feel you belly touch the seat and steering wheel at the same time. That is when I knew that I was beyond just fat 🐽🐽🐽
BigFox:
Touch the seat?? In what way?
WideJuan76:
It might be more of my fupa area than my belly.
BigFox:
That just spawns more questions :-P
Hahahahaha.
4 years
WideJuan76:
My gut has been rubbing up against the steering wheel for ages now and I got over the embarrassment of a seatbelt extender but the craziest sensation is to feel you belly touch the seat and steering wheel at the same time. That is when I knew that I was beyond just fat 🐽🐽🐽
BigFox:
Touch the seat?? In what way?
It might be more of my fupa area than my belly.
4 years
My gut has been rubbing up against the steering wheel for ages now and I got over the embarrassment of a seatbelt extender but the craziest sensation is to feel you belly touch the seat and steering wheel at the same time. That is when I knew that I was beyond just fat 🐽🐽🐽
4 years
chubbydiva:
Watching my aunts being SSBBW's themselves; but I'm at the BBW level.
My aunts were the same way. All of the were well over three hundred so when I went to chill with them during the summers; I always came back chubby because every meal they ate was fattening.
4 years
Ditzy:
Yes and especially by my eventually ex husband and my Mother.
johniav:
My mother is a great lady. However, she always makes it a point to let me know when I have gained weight.
chubbydiva:
Same here since I became the fat one out of my mother and sister.
Yeah, my mom was really the person that I was worried about because I had talked to her when I moved down South but she hadn't seen me because I basically went down there to gain in the first place so once I got past her slick comments I paid no attention to anyone else.
4 years
It was a natural progression for me in which I let the greed become a mind of its own. I moved away with a woman to change things up and we went all in into this life to the point that I had really not had that "I am fat" moment until I caught my gut hanging below my shirt in Walmart and by then I was too addicted to the food and the results
4 years
thiccbell:
So the other day I met someone and we hit it off pretty well talking about the kink and many other things. We exchanged handles and have been keeping in touch but I'm always surprised at how open they are about sending pictures and such of stuffing and that they are glad to know that i enjoy what they send.
You know how it is, it's too good to be true, right? I know we have a good thing going but in my head it feels like it's not real and we barely know each other.
They say how genuinely glad they are that i enjoy what they do and never ask for anything in return. As much as I love this, it feels almost suspicious. I mean, most of you probably have been in similar situations, right?
So there's this imposter syndrome, where i don't think I deserve what they do to me but also that it might be a trick that they are setting up. But at the same time i feel bad that they might be genuine and I just might be trampling on their feelings because of these thoughts.
Don't ever feel bad for feeling this way; there is nothing wrong with being skeptical until you see consistent congruency between their words and actions. You have to be safe on here and set boundaries for yourself because you have folks all over the globe on here and so many people on here are here just to pilfer money from folks. Some are here just to get off to fat chat. I had someone who saw me chatting with another person in the chat and they started talking about how they wanted to get fat like I have and I gave them everything I did so the very next day the deleted one profile to start another and then apologize that they used the conversation to fake like that wanted to get fat so they could actually masturbate to the fat talk so always set your boundaries and realize that folks on here are strangers you don't know.
4 years
loradayton:
welcome to the life of what I think honestly MOST of us feedees are! In my opinion - most of us aren't gaining. Anyone who tells you that you must somehow be involved with gaining - whether giving or receiving - in order to be "in" in the community are gatekeeping ***s and dead wrong.
If you read my profile, I've outlined it like this: the kink is foreplay and sometimes fun for me. It's not a lifestyle. That's not a dis for those to whom it is a lifestyle. Maybe you are just discovering it is not your lifestyle, but just for fun or foreplay.
Feedism does not mean limitless or immobility for everyone. If you still enjoy feedism, you are still a feedist and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You get to decide that on your terms.
It's not an absolute or black and white. You can stop and go as you please or re-evaluate whenever you want. If you want to pause and lose now, that's cool. If you want to pause and gain later, that's cool. If you just need a breather to figure that out, that's cool too.
Sounds to me like you just hit a limit for awhile. Sit with it and see how you feel and don't make any rush decisions.
I thought that I was the only one trying to speak from real vantage points on this page but this is so spot on that I have to give a standing ovation for its artistry. All of this, is a kink; some of us just take it further than others and this is not some cult that either you go all in or not. It is a person's own kink and the "FAT GIFT" affects each of us very differently and that is cool and nor should you have to justify how you express it. I chose to go beyond a point of no return because back when I started down this path, I was told that this was what one should do when they accept that they see fat in this way but I later realized that there were way more subsets and categories in this and they are all a part of the same spectrum. We all have our limits. Hell, I went down this path and enjoy all of the fat I grew but I know a group of women in Louisiana who had spouses that they help feed to such a point that these dudes had issues doing everything and that was when I can be fat but not that fat so accept your limits and pay that nonsense that you have to keep going to prove how much of a feedist you are no mind.
4 years
