Admin Mode: Just a reminder to everyone to please remain courteous to each other thank you. People are not obligated to introduce themselves/etc, but neither should people argue/discuss such disagreements out in the forums. As the first parts of the Complaints Procedure go:


If the topic continues to be derailed by argument it will instead end up locked. Please relax, and thank you for listening.

Admin Mode: Just a reminder for people to keep discussion civil thank you.

Well, I'm happy that it's finally Pancake Day, yes, Pancake Day, that is, P-P-P-P-P-P-P-P-Pancake Day. Pancakes for everyone.

Topics are certainly not kept strictly on rails, as one will notice around the General forum itself (fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/viewthread.php <- there's a good example. ), but roughly two whole pages discussing the conduct of another member of the site instead of the main topic isn't really appropriate, whether they are good posts, or not good posts. And yes, I am aware that Dazed himself continued talking about it too, as I noted, he is not to continue it either. But that is that, so carry on all.

Precisely, or we wouldn't have stories about incompetent doctors accidentally killing or permanently damaging patients anywhere in the news. Dr Jayant Patel anyone?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jayant_Patel



Perhaps an extreme example, but it is proof that they are not all infallable despite their lengthy experience. Luckily, we can count on the vast majority of them to be competent, at least.

This. She's highly unlikely to stop losing, and if you find it a 'huge turn-off' and it really bothers you, you may as well let it go now, really. The feelings will just get worse as time goes on, otherwise.

Admin Mode: Alright, this is unlocked now, everyone please keep to the original topic at hand rather than discussing the topic of Dazed (this goes for Dazed himself too), or it'll end up locked permanently next time.

Given how heated it's getting, I'm locking this for awhile until people cool down more.

Then don't call yourself a closet FA if you aren't one, Dazed. >_<; As I said:

You're only a closet FA if you hide someone you love in the closet or if you make negative remarks about bigger people to fit in. If you don't do these, then you aren't a closet FA. Period.

So... are you a true closet FA or not? If you don't run around shouting from the rooftops that you're an FA, it... doesn't mean you're in the closet, you know. FA's rarely do that either. They just live their life and do whatever as usual, not letting the worries cross their mind.

You're only a closet FA if you hide someone you love in the closet or if you make negative remarks about bigger people to fit in. That, is the kind of people we're talking about. If you don't do any of that, I think you may have confused yourself with an identity that isn't good at all.