Feeder; a love story
Admin Mode: Just a reminder to everyone to please remain courteous to each other thank you. 
People are not obligated to introduce themselves/etc, but neither should people argue/discuss such disagreements out in the forums. As the first parts of the Complaints Procedure go:
If the topic continues to be derailed by argument it will instead end up locked. Please relax, and thank you for listening.
People are not obligated to introduce themselves/etc, but neither should people argue/discuss such disagreements out in the forums. As the first parts of the Complaints Procedure go:Step 1: Ignore the offending user
This is the simplest and most immediate way to deal with any situation. If you’re arguing in a forum, don’t answer back. If you’re in chat, hit ignore.
Step 2: Offer a compromise or an apology
Let the steam out of the situation. Be a grown-up and make the first positive gesture. And mean it—use positive, conciliatory language.
This is the simplest and most immediate way to deal with any situation. If you’re arguing in a forum, don’t answer back. If you’re in chat, hit ignore.
Step 2: Offer a compromise or an apology
Let the steam out of the situation. Be a grown-up and make the first positive gesture. And mean it—use positive, conciliatory language.
If the topic continues to be derailed by argument it will instead end up locked. Please relax, and thank you for listening.
14 years
Fat fetish community flag
Admin Mode: Just a reminder for people to keep discussion civil thank you.
14 years
Pancake day !
Well, I'm happy that it's finally Pancake Day, yes, Pancake Day, that is, P-P-P-P-P-P-P-P-Pancake Day. Pancakes for everyone. 
14 years
My rant on closet fa's
canadianenglish wrote
Not to be overtly controversial, but I felt the admin was overzealous in the first place. Internet forums are a contact sport, not sure the value of having the thread in the first place if it has to stay strictly on rails.
Not to be overtly controversial, but I felt the admin was overzealous in the first place. Internet forums are a contact sport, not sure the value of having the thread in the first place if it has to stay strictly on rails.
Topics are certainly not kept strictly on rails, as one will notice around the General forum itself (fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/viewthread.php <- there's a good example.
), but roughly two whole pages discussing the conduct of another member of the site instead of the main topic isn't really appropriate, whether they are good posts, or not good posts. And yes, I am aware that Dazed himself continued talking about it too, as I noted, he is not to continue it either. But that is that, so carry on all.
14 years
Dating slim girls - advice
chubbyhoney wrote
This sort of thing pops up all the time on the forums. In a nutshell: stop dating her.
This sort of thing pops up all the time on the forums. In a nutshell: stop dating her.
This. She's highly unlikely to stop losing, and if you find it a 'huge turn-off' and it really bothers you, you may as well let it go now, really.
The feelings will just get worse as time goes on, otherwise.
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