AskDrFeeder:
Intentional Gaining philosophies.

Can you think of any more? Which one are you?

1. Careful planner -- you decide on how much you want to gain, gain that much and stop.

2. Stage by stage -- you gain a certain amount and then re-evaluate, possibly stopping, possibly gaining more.

3. Letting go -- you focus on eating all you want and gaining all you want don't think much about weight limits unless it becomes an issue.

4. Max -- you try to get as big as possible.

5. Stuffer -- you're more into stuffing and getting really full. Gaining is just a side-effect.

6. Like #3, but with the additional goal of going out-of-control.

Plushie:
This is mostly for the girlie pops... What kind of outfits you like wearing the most? What are we wearing this summer season?

I love wearing pink, tennis skirts, rompers... like the bodysuit kind? yeah. and short dresses. I am thinking about buying some long ones though as to switch it up.

Recently I've been wearing a lot of like yoga pants... you know like the fold-over ones. They're so comfy.

Personally, I love seeing fat girls in dresses. Especially short ones paired with a shrug thingy.

Finickyfeedee:
I recently got a remote control wearable vibrator and would like to use it to try to condition myself to eat more. Has anyone got experience with this? What’s the best way to do it - every time you eat (within the bounds of appropriate settings, of course), or only when eating a specific fattening food to try to form a strong connection? Or is it more effective to do it only when stuffed to your limit?

Munchies:
It depends on what you're trying to achieve. Keep in mind, you are tying sexual pleasure to an act to achieve a desired outcome.

If you tie sexual pleasure to a specific food or beverage, then you'll get horny whenever you encounter it. If you tie the act of eating (in an appropriate context) to sexual pleasure, then you'll tie your specific flavor of feedism to sexual pleasure.

There is a flip side to this. If you enhance your desire to eat with sexual pleasure, you tie your sexual pleasure to your desire to eat. This can form addictive behaviors. I highly discourage doing this solo because it is very easy to go off the deep-end.

I've done this with a number of feedees, and it's always a good time. But when I do, I have to monitor their behaviors closely and intervene if they start going off the deep end. Also, if you decided to stop or cut back for one reason or another, it's exceptionally hard to stop.

Finickyfeedee:
What I’m hoping to achieve is for eating to actually be pleasurable in some way instead of just a tedious means to an end so that I actually want to do it.

Having historically struggled badly in the other direction, I’m not too worried about risks - even in a worst case scenario, being unable to stop would be infinitely better than my usual problem of having long periods every month or two where I can barely eat at all due to lack of appetite and food just seeming disgusting. It makes gaining hard which is annoying but it also makes just functioning pretty hard when it’s particularly bad. I’ve tried just about everything to get out of that cycle but nothing has worked, I’m hoping this will.

MountainChub:
Can you suppress the fetish and find happyness trough other aspects in life?

Enas:
I dont know how you can find happyness from a fetish, at least directly. A fetish has to do with pleasure, in order to find happyness you need to work for a higher cause, and so on.

What my advice is, is to start working on something exciting, so exciting that it makes you forget about your fetish! Dont try to do anything with the fetish itself, just let yourself get carried away from it, with something else.

Munchies:
This is like trying to kick binge eating by taking up smoking.

Assuming he has maladaptive habits with his feedist kink, it's just swapping one vice for another at best, or ending up with multiple vices at worst.

Enas:
Sorry, i didnt word it well enough. I had in mind things like reading / writing, learning, making art, or going on bysicle rides (thats something i enjoy a lot)

Munchies:
And that's putting lipstick on a pig. If you try to deal with internal issues only by focusing on external things, you won't get very far. You need to address the internal motivation as well.

Still, fetishes and kinks are a part of you. You can find healthier ways to indulge it but can't suppress it - at least for long.

Enas:
Of what use is it to adressed the internal motivation, if you cannot surpress the fetish?

Do you mean for example, psychological addictions that might have developed?

MountainChub:
Can you suppress the fetish and find happyness trough other aspects in life?

Enas:
I dont know how you can find happyness from a fetish, at least directly. A fetish has to do with pleasure, in order to find happyness you need to work for a higher cause, and so on.

What my advice is, is to start working on something exciting, so exciting that it makes you forget about your fetish! Dont try to do anything with the fetish itself, just let yourself get carried away from it, with something else.

Munchies:
This is like trying to kick binge eating by taking up smoking.

Assuming he has maladaptive habits with his feedist kink, it's just swapping one vice for another at best, or ending up with multiple vices at worst.

Enas:
Sorry, i didnt word it well enough. I had in mind things like reading / writing, learning, making art, or going on bysicle rides (thats something i enjoy a lot)

MountainChub:
Can you suppress the fetish and find happyness trough other aspects in life?

Enas:
I dont know how you can find happyness from a fetish, at least directly. A fetish has to do with pleasure, in order to find happyness you need to work for a higher cause, and so on.

What my advice is, is to start working on something exciting, so exciting that it makes you forget about your fetish! Dont try to do anything with the fetish itself, just let yourself get carried away from it, with something else.

MountainChub:
Can you suppress the fetish and find happyness trough other aspects in life?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what I’m doing differently my diet hasn’t changed much and I’m getting more exercise than I did in the past but my body just feels way more squishy and soft all over I’m getting these rolls on my arms I’ve never had before 🤷‍♂️

BigBallBellyGirl:
Back into gaining again (or rather eating as much as I want to, with gaining as a side effect.) Yesterday I went all out, only pausing when I was about to pop, and I may do it again today. I'm so bloated still the skin on top of my belly is smooth and tight instead of jiggly. The feast day included:

Breakfast 1 - 2200 cal.
- Green energy smoothie
- 2 boiled eggs
- 6 turkey sausage patties
- 1 banana
- Peanut butter toast
- Cream cheese sun dried tomato bagel

Breakfast 2 - 1300 cal
- Large blended caramel coffee drink
- 2 cheese and turkey croissants
- One yogurt parfait

Lunch 1 - 2100 calories
_ Large Dr. Pepper
- 3 double cheeseburgers
- 2 large fries

Lunch 2 - 1500 cal
- 3 Fish tacos
- Large Baja salad
- Large Margarita

Snack - 840 cal
- 4 Lemon bars

Dinner 1 - 3100 cal
- 2 full size dinner plates of lobster mac & cheese
- 12 inch cheese and garlic sour dough loaf
- 1 glass of Cabernet

Dinner 2 - 1700 cal
- 3 cups of rice
- Large serving of teriyaki broccoli
- 3 grilled chicken breasts

Snack 1 - 2400 cal
- Large bucket of movie theater popcorn with butter
- 64 ounce Dr. Pepper

Snack 2 - 1400 cal.
- 1 lb. Baby carrots
- 32 oz. Ranch dip
- 3 green apples dipped in peanut butter

Snack 3 - 1300 cal
- Pint of butter pecan ice cream

Total- 17,940 cal

Today, I'm going for 20,000 or bust.

Morbidly A Beast:
Probably wouldn’t be the worst idea however to go outside and walk around for an hour or two each day is free and doesn’t need a commitment like putting a exercise bike that it’ll probably just get used for a few days and then forgotten about, I get that it wares you out belive me but might as well start somewhere free

BigBallBellyGirl:
I do the same. Initially I tried at 200 feet, but now, cumulatively, I get about 6,000 to 7,000 steps, which isn't bad for someone my size.