Warning: high dose of sarcasm
Augmentor wrote
If the theme of this website offends you so much please go back to myspace so we dont have to walk on eggshells around people who do nothing but be negative about it.
If the theme of this website offends you so much please go back to myspace so we dont have to walk on eggshells around people who do nothing but be negative about it.
It's not about walking on eggshells around people, it's about common decency and courtesy so this doesn't happen:
canadianenglish wrote
a BBW, trying to come to terms with her body image being bombarded by 25 anonymous IM requests for freindship or the constant harrasment of not answering a PM.
a BBW, trying to come to terms with her body image being bombarded by 25 anonymous IM requests for freindship or the constant harrasment of not answering a PM.
A good amount have been driven off the site over treatment like that because they just get absolutely drowned by guys.
Augmentor wrote
This isnt purely a dating site and not everyone is here to find a partner for whatever reason so telling them your sarcastic revised codes of conduct would only serve to put them off taking part in what used to be a fun community. If I join a website and it turns out to be full of nude chubby men asking me to webcam its easy to remedy, not by trying to put them to rights on forum posts but by pressing "delete my profile" lol
This isnt purely a dating site and not everyone is here to find a partner for whatever reason so telling them your sarcastic revised codes of conduct would only serve to put them off taking part in what used to be a fun community. If I join a website and it turns out to be full of nude chubby men asking me to webcam its easy to remedy, not by trying to put them to rights on forum posts but by pressing "delete my profile" lol
It's not strictly a dating site, but that doesn't mean it's a free-for-all. And a woman shouldn't have to feel so harassed by guys that she feels she has to press "delete my profile", that's not remotely fair. They've got a right to enjoy themselves without endless bombardment and harassment. And this community is still a fun and friendly one, IMO, and if a guy can't voluntarily take part in it without some degree of civility and courtesy, well...
canadianenglish wrote
You're right, this site isn't strictly a dating site, but some people treat it like throwing out time at the nightclub and that is more harmful than suggesting a correct way people can conduct themselves whether just looking for freinds or looking for something else.
Maybe you are not bothered by some of the situations you listed above, but the majority of people who come on here with good intentions are!
You're right, this site isn't strictly a dating site, but some people treat it like throwing out time at the nightclub and that is more harmful than suggesting a correct way people can conduct themselves whether just looking for freinds or looking for something else.
Maybe you are not bothered by some of the situations you listed above, but the majority of people who come on here with good intentions are!
This.
13 years
Stronger than your man
Being dominated by a stronger lady is a beautiful dream of mine. Fortunately, I'm rather physically weak, so that makes it much more likely to achieve. 
13 years
Warning: high dose of sarcasm
chubbyhoney wrote
Please can we make it mandatory for new members to read this before they can start using the site please?
Please can we make it mandatory for new members to read this before they can start using the site please?
lilwitchygrl wrote
THANK YOU so much for posting this and I agree it should a mandatory read for all new members, especially if you are coming into chat
I bow at your feet lol
THANK YOU so much for posting this and I agree it should a mandatory read for all new members, especially if you are coming into chat
I bow at your feet lol
This would be very, very awesome.
Once again, if points could be given on this site, you'd get some for yet another awesome post.
13 years
I only like slightly chubby
chubbyhoney wroteThis is a fat-positive community, in all it's forms. Not a 'slightly chubby only' positive community.
Maximum wroteSeriously, this is the only decent feederism site on the whole net, we aren't about to ruin that by catering to individuals preferences. We provide a wide variety of what the community has to offer and you are free to enjoy and ignore what you please.
Also, as was already said, segregating the members based on size really goes against the sites core message of being a Fat-Positive Community.
Also, as was already said, segregating the members based on size really goes against the sites core message of being a Fat-Positive Community.
Precisely.
I'd also like to point out that there's already an Extreme Obesity forum on here specifically for the topic of higher weights. 
AND furthermore, if you want to see people only of certain weights, having a Gold profile(being a paying member) will allow you to search for people under certain weights instead of seeing them all.
13 years
419 scams
Yeah, the message/profile is so impersonal and stilted. Doesn't feel natural at all. Them being a feeder and PMing other feeders wouldn't help either.
13 years
Pokemon! ^_^
There's also a joke doing the rounds about Metal Gear Solid:
Solid Snivy = Solid Snake
Revolver Oshawott = Revolver Ocelot
Tepig Boss = Big Boss
Solid Snivy = Solid Snake
Revolver Oshawott = Revolver Ocelot
Tepig Boss = Big Boss
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