They’re alluring simply because it’s evidence of how much weight someone has gained recently 👍
1 year
In recent months, I’ve obtained a family sedan with plush, wide leather seats that fits both our little one and my wife quite comfortably. My other half is 5-2 and about 340 pounds. So anyone in the thread with similar dimensions can relate on how much more comfy she is now :-)
1 year
Interesting this subject comes up, as wifey and I will probably be mattress shopping again next year. I can tell our memory foam mattress topper is giving out after just three years.
As a coupla posters have said, I just don’t need to be financing a $1,500 bed. Too many other expenses in the house. I’ve seen many an ad online for these whiz-bang beds, like the Helix, for example, but they’re priced just too high. She’s still about 340 and I’m roughly 180, so we indeed need something that’s just the right amount of cushion and will distribute our weight comfortably.
1 year
AskDrFeeder:
Once you're fat you don't have to worry about getting fat. It'll be a fait accompli.
Has anyone ever used this rationale to ease their doubts about gaining?
Bigdoug:
Yes, my wife after gaining during her pregnancies and not losing weight afterwards.
My wife is the same way. Gained about a hundred pounds after her first two many years ago. She gained only about 10-15 pounds for first child together four years ago, but by then she was already 300 pounds :-)
1 year
I’m not hiding at all :-) On here often enough passing along encouraging words and having a good time in general!
1 year
My other half has begun to be a bit bolder in public this summer :-) She’s finally found some sports bras and short tops that fit her body but still show a little of her belly down below. She still sticks her lower bet into her elastic pants, but we’re getting closer to just letting her big, beautiful belly hang out totally :-)
1 year
I always love telling mine and my wife’s gaining story — always love seeing these “origin story” threads :-)
My first memory of encountering fat was a regained memory told to me years after the fact by my mother. I would play with the arm fat of any female relative when I was a toddler and was being held. I’m told my grandmother slapped me one time for doing it.
In young adulthood, I felt the attraction to chubby girls starting in middle school and on into high school. I didn’t have a girlfriend until I was out of high school (wasn’t ever part of the clique, as they say), but nothing turned me on like a pair of chubby cheeks, chubby upper arms or big thighs. Chubby bare feet still turn me on as well :-)
My first steady girlfriend wasn’t all that fat to start out with, but over five years we ate well enough to fill out the both of us. Her arms and belly puffed out mightily; probably gained at least 50 pounds being with me.
Another five-year relationship followed when I moved to another state. She was already heavy, about 5-6 and anywhere between 220 and 270 over the course of that time. She was insecure about it and, along with being bipolar and in denial about it, never really relaxed and enjoyed her own existence, much less her luscious figure.
I met my wife 10 years ago now, at a concert. Mutual friend of ours made sure we were both there. The friend figured we both needed to stumble upon each other after going through such rough previous relationships. I can still remember the first time I saw her short, 5-3 figure walking upon the rest of our friend group to meet up. A black blouse cut low to emphasize what I would eventually find out were 46 DDD breasts. Cute, chubby face and such a soft touch with everything. I was smitten, though it was another year before we started dating officially.
I was slowly but steadily getting a big ol’ ball belly during these years. A big, hard visceral fat basketball belly! She sure hasn’t minded, being a big girl herself for so long now. She was actually a tiny teen, just with out-of-proportion breasts for what was then her figure. I just recently saw pics of her at 13 that I hadn’t seen before. It’s truly amazing how petite and skinny she was before puberty and the rest of her teen years.
She had her first child barely out of high school and, according to her accounts, gained between 80 and 100 pounds between the pregnancy and health-related issues with certain meds’ effects on her. Three years later, she had the depo shot for birth control and got pregnant (and fatter) anyway with her second child. Wish I’d have known her then so I could have witnessed her body change. Her waistline and belly just exploded in size :-) She stopped wearing underwear at a certain point and her back is big and broad with luscious layers of fat all 300+ pound ladies seem to have. Her butt also grew into a full-fledged “buttshelf” during that time. This is as good a point in the story as any to mention her bra band size was only in the low 30s entering her 20s. So that’s more than 12 inches gained just in her middle since then :-)
We had our first child together three years ago now. She was already just at 300 pounds, so she didn’t have to gain but maybe 20 during the pregnancy. Today, she’s a proud 340 pounds with a spirit that’s just as soft and tender as her skin :-) We’d have each other no other way but fat and happy :-)
1 year
HisNaughtyWife13:
Hi there! I’m new to this as well. Normally it was gross to eat in front of a man. When a guy loves it!!!! Win freaking win!
Welcome to the site! Many of us here indeed love it to see a woman be confident in her figure 👍 Hope you enjoy a highly complimenting experience!
1 year
Doughlvr:
Visual contrast is great, don't get me wrong. But I love the fantasy of imagining a partner who is 2 times... 3 times... my weight. My God that is the hottest thing ever.. weight contrast is truly amazing 😍
It’s indeed a fulfilling dynamic. I’m about 180, but my wife is about 340. We enjoy our respective physical assets ❤️
1 year
Ditzy:
Better check because they had a recall on some Boars head items.
True, there is indeed a safety recall with that brand. I usually avoid due to price and just get the store brand.
Same thing but cheaper!
1 year