A lot has to do with one's genetics.
I have an Aunt who is very heavy and she is flabby and so was my great Grandmother.
I guess that has a lot to do with me being so flabby.

In my experience the first time I gained it was more a hard fat kind of fat.
I lost aprox 200 lbs at one point then slowly regained the weight but this time it was softer fat and was more fat in the belly, hips, butt and thighs.
Don't know why the fat came back fluffier/ puffier but I was so glad it did.

Moobs are ok so never feel bad that you have them.
My BF is 350 ish and has small ones and he doesn't like them but I tell him I like them.

It depends on the top I'm wearing if it feels snug my belly will find its way to peek out eventually.
Part of that is due to my waistbands rolling down.

If you want to get bigger then make the commitment and get bigger.
I have been through all the I want to gain but I don't feelings so I know how you feel.

That has been the way it is for many years so really nothing to worry about.
Don't take it personally is how I deal with it.
I have made tons of friends on here so if some ghost me Its not a big deal.
Its not about views, pics or how many likes you get anyway because those really don't mean anything.
Basically you cant force someone to chat with you.
Worrying about it is just stress you don't need.

Good advice I agree.
Gaining takes time and dedication on your part.
There are no magic pills or food that will make you fat quickly so if that was on you mind for a question the answer is no.
The best advice I can give is just increase portion sizes at mealtime and snack in between meals.
That lets your body adjust to the change in your eating habits.
That aside welcome, you have come to the right place if you want to gain.

My ex had a violent side and his mood swings were horrible.

There are so many its hard to pick just one thing.

It is common for newbies to want or expect to gain very quickly or in certain areas of the body and it just doesn't work that way.
I thought that back when I was beginning and asked the same questions.
The folks here were so nice and explained the reality to me.