My family only knows that I'm ok with my wife being overweight and that I actually find her size attractive. But, they know nothing about me wanting to gain on purpose, my wife gaining on purpose at times, or anything else like that. They will never know either. Certain things I think are private. Sex life and Kinks being one of them. My family is also very against fat. So I don't think they could understand my views even if I told them. But, this just me.

I hear ya. I am in a similar situation. Trying to gain subcutaneous fat. Trying to stay away from too much sugar to avoid visceral fat and any possible metabolic issues. Even tho I doubt I am anywhere close to getting either.
I remember trying to gain a few years back. I was able to gain about 20ish lbs in a few months. When I started I could barely eat anything. Kinda what I am dealing with now. But, as time went on and I pushed myself to keep eating eventually I noticed that anytime I didn't feel full I was hungry. It was actually a little scary! I could kinda see how ones appetite could get out of control. Resulting in gaining way more than I would want or would be healthy. But that's just me. Others have different wants. But yeah, I think I know what you are talking about. When you get to that point where you feel hungry almost all the time. Best of luck and hope things work out for you!

Its actually supposed to be the opposite. Fats make humans feel full quicker and for longer. Its the sugars and simple carbs that get digested fast and your hungry again soon after just having eaten.
Depending on what sweet things you are eating, it could also have a lot of fat in it along with sugar. A lot of desserts are often high in sugar and fats.
Anyway, I'm not this way. Fats are much more filling, for me. Which is part of the difficulty with trying to gain and eating lots of fats. Sugar also has metabolic risks. Anyway, not sure why you are the opposite. Maybe your body reacts differently to fats and carbs. Maybe a doctor would help letting you know what is going on. Good luck either way!

I'm jealous! 300lbs! Nice, that's pretty much my goal. My wife is around 250. She was up to about 350 about a year and a half 2 years ago because of the medication she was on. Here I am starting at about 145. I got a long ways to go. My family is very negative about weight issues. Especially my mom. So I know I will have to confront that sometime. If I can gain enough. I think 300 is a good goal. Maybe 350 at most. That's about that area where you are quite fat and it's a noticeable struggle sometimes. Granted I am just going by how my wife was. At the same time still active enough to live life and do things. Anything over 300-350 worries me. But who knows, guess Kevin and I will see when we get there! And yes, you can definitely be proud of Kevins size. You've been there helping and encouraging the whole time!
It's nice to talk to another happy married couple into the same things. It's why I joined the site. Take care!

Nothing wrong with finding things sexy. Everyone has their quirks, kinks, fetishes, etc. The one many of us have, for whatever reason, happens to be about weight, fat, food, feeding, etc. The biggest hang up that gets to most people is that being fat is associated with a lot of negative stereotypes. There is definetly potential health issues one has to be aware of, etc etc. We only have this one life to enjoy the things we like. Don't let this chance slip by.

Telling him that you like him bigger might reveal that he may be fine with it. Hell, he may actually be into it too and he is afraid too! lol. Good communication and honesty I think are pillars of any good relationship. I had to tell my wife, I had to know her reaction. Thankfully it was a good one. Only you can know if you feel its right to tell him. Best wishes!

All of what you said sounds exactly like me! The whats and how I discovered that I like my wife bigger. She thankfully was perfectly fine with that. It took me much longer to tell my family and others that I like how she is. Not that I will love her no matter how she looks. Even tho I do and will. But telling them that I find her size attractive. Finally after all that I got into this community and discovered I wouldnt mind be bigger like my wife too. She really likes the idea. So I am trying to fulfill that. Anyway, it's all a journey. There are lots of moments and ups and downs. I figure I'm not getting any younger. So I might as well enjoy this journey while I can and not let others make me feel bad about why I find my wife attractive and such. Best of luck to you and your husband! Ever want to chat send a message

If you're comfortable with it I'd share it with her. Communication and honesty are extremely important for a successful relationship. Slowly introduce her to it and how you feel about it all. Sharing all that with her doesn't mean she has to gain or anything. This fetish isn't for everyone. She may tell you she is fine with it and may do some gaining. She may naturally gain thru life for various reasons. Many people keep this fetish in the realm of fantasy. Which you can also do. It may not seem as fulfilling, but for some it is. You won't know how she feels about it all until you talk to her. And tell her you love her no matter what and that she doesn't have to gain if she doesn't want to (of course). Then take it from there and see how life goes.
I was afraid to tell my wife, girlfriend at the time. While she isn't a feedee and was also skinny. She just ended up letting herself go, and ended up actually liking her size now and how much I love how she is now too. Of course I love her no matter what too. But it comes down to that honesty and communication. Best of luck

I'm pretty much doing the exact same thing as you are for similar reasons. I've also went back and forth about it for years. But I keep coming back to wanting to gain more and more each time. The last time I gained intentionally I gained almost 30lbs in a few months. I loved it! My wife loved it! Alas I had some health issues and lost it all and then some. Its really really hard for me to gain. So when I did so well that time I got really excited.
I'm also getting older. At 40 now. So I want to be able to gain now while I still have some youth to me to be able to enjoy it. I also want to avoid any health issues as I get older and heavier. So if I can at least enjoy the next 10 years of life much fatter and even if I lose it around 50 years old I will be happy I went for it. At least thats what I think. Good luck to the both of us! Maybe this time we both will get to the size we want and enjoy it all. Best wishes!

I always know when there is a scientific question on weight gain that you will be there to answer. Good on you for your knowledge, research, and replies to those in need,