Wannabe Princess wrote:
I think the point is that people know the risks and still choose to put their photos up, however they don't always feel 100% comfortable about it.
I guess there are 2 stand points - I am fat, I can't hide being fat so being on this site is no big deal to me. My parents know about the site, for example.
But If you are into fat girls/boys, or the feeding/stuffing side of things then they is something that is quite private and something that you may not want people to know about, hence the concern over privacy (which I totally understand!)x
I think you hit the right spot, Wannabe princess. I am a man that is into bigger women, but never shouted it out. People that knew me, could see, that I'm not into skinny girls. EG. I married a bigger woman and never had thin girlfriends.
But as I was in the pub nearby, there was a nice big girl that was tease about her size and I did stand up and say she's a beautyfull lady. Now everybody knows that I'm an FA, but I don't care. And everybody accepts it, altough there were some questions afterwards. I don't think it is bad to be recognized as an FA. I am and don't hide it, I don't shout out, but I can't be myself if I would have to hide my preference. I did recognise some dutch members, but only because we know each other from party's knowing our common preference.