Munchies:
I wish you a swift recovery.
Thank you! ❤️
9 months
Munchies:
I hadn't expected to see you for a bit. I thought you were in boot camp.
I did not anticipate that they would allow smartphones!
Also, im not just in the boot camp, but im ill in the bootcamp! Which means they allow me time to rest!
9 months
So, i tried this that Munchies linked out and here are the results:
Logician INTP-A
Energy: 72% Introverted
Mind: 74% Intuitive
... I forgot the rest...
Anyways, i find some of the things it says to be correct but others to be not.
I enjoy thinking a lot and in depth, although my thoughts are often chaotic and, seemingly unconnected. I do get lost in them. Having said that, i think i oftentimes arrive at incredible ideas.
The downside of my personality is that im always lonely, i oftentimes feel a desperate need to share these ideas in order for them to be, lets say, respectfully criticised and primarily because i genuinly think they can help people (and thats something i really love doing). But i dont feel comfortable with sharing them with people who i dont trust to a high degree. And the only way, i have found, with which i can begin trusting someone is them demonstrating their intelligence to me, regardless of if that is direct or indirect.
I think im also in a constant state of anxiety due to my thoughts, and the worst, about this part, is that the only way to get out of this anxiety is to stop having these thoughts, which is something i percieve as incredibly unethical, so i would feel really bad and anxious about doing it! :c
9 months
Munchies:
noun: fellowship
1.
friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests.
Being in community is more than hanging out. Because there are women that are not in community with women. It's not a gender thing.
Instead, it's about understanding the struggles and joys about womanhood. Why we are the way we are. What it actually means to live as a woman - in all the flavors of womanhood.
I'll grant you that you know more than most of the men who responded in this thread. But there are sizable gaps in your understanding.
Im curious to learn more, what gaps in my understanding do you notice?
(edit: it might be good to answer this elsewhere, not here)
9 months
PhoenixChimera, what is the "Police and crisis team"? Im not familiar with it. O.o
9 months
I would say yes, but i will be gone for a long while by tomorrow's time! :c
9 months
Munchies:
To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.
Damn it, i dont know if i understand fellowship either xD
Do you mean, i dont often hang out with women, im not in their company, i dont socialize a lot with women?
9 months
Munchies:
Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.
Most men also lack these characteristics too!
Also, what does "But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women." mean? (sorry, i just didnt understand what that sentense means 😅)
9 months
Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.
She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.
She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.
I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.
I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.
Girlboss is something advocated only by liberal, or i shall say bourgeoisie, feminists. To make my point clear, i think liberal feminists are the second worse type of feminism (after TERFs), because it tries to invite women into the rulling class, when the solution is to abolish the rulling class.
Dont get me wrong, i dislike the fact that many women lack certain characteristics that i think everyone ought to have, but are limited as "masculine" only.
Instead, i would really like to be in a relationship with a lady, and for both of us to be equally expected of taking inisiative, to be rationalists, etc. And i absolutely love these, especially inisiative, when it comes to sexual life (maybe to an abusive degree even xD) but i also would really really appreciate it in every day life! And i also appreciate, both sexualy and in general women who are muscular.
Are these things part of a "girlboss" thing? Maybe, on an aesthetic level. But honestly, is there more to it? I doubt.
9 months
I think our society jumps from one stupidity to another without any sign of reason!
The current reality we live in makes it impossible for a typical couple not to have both people slaving away for some wage. So it seems like tradwives, something only rich people, who can afford to hire one or two low pay servants to do most of the "hard" household labor chores, can afford. Plus... Its a bad deal for the women, and a burden for the men.
I really hope this trend dies out soon, and i really hope the next trend is a reasonable one. But thats wishfull thinking... :/
9 months
