Morbidly A Beast:
Everyone wants to pathologize the bad guy and cant admit that there is just buttholes in the world.
I dont care to pathologize anyone. I simply want people to learn what narcissism is, and what it is not, what are its specific qualifies, etc, and to be capable of figuring out the dangers that exist with it (for example, the worst case is narcissists in position of power). And i especially want the mods to be able to moderate these people properly.
1 year
Munchies:
Once again, no one is saying you suffer from narcissistic personality disorder. If anything, you are an insecure manchild trying to prove to the world you are smarter and wiser than you actually are.
No, not at all! Your second sentense couldnt be further from the truth actually! I know what i am and what my abilities and needs are and what they're not. And neither am i ashamend of, or insecure with, my weaknesses. I really dont care to prove my intelligence to people, except of course when *they* for whatever reason need me to demonstrate it (which is something i sometimes also need from other people too, in order to bond with them properly!)
Can we sometime have a conversation about all this? Please? 🤣
1 year
I got 41. But i think the test is fairly stupid, the questions are few and shallow - they dont interogate you much really...
1 year
HectorBalloon:
This thread's going to be chock full of irony methinks. Where's me popcorn.
Please dont take this as a cheap competition or whatever. I sincerely think that we need a serious conversation about this topic!
1 year
Munchies:
Enas, you once made a thread about how no one likes you, several people who do not have a connection to you very kindly tried to help you out. And then you snapped at all of them and called them all stupid.
The thread ended up turning into a Roast Enas session because you kept insulting people and being arrogant. You are blessed that the mods came and deleted that thread.
The thread was deleted which means i cant go back and remember what people and i wrote in there, which is really bad. I would prefer it if it remained open, ideally without the roasting, since it was unecesary.
Still, i think you didnt understood the point of my post or my behavior, which was completely deliberate (i didnt snap at all, i know it might have looked like, but if you were to interogate me as to why i was saying the things i did, i think i would be capable of justifying them pretty well. Thats not something you can do when you snap.)
1 year
Enas:
There is a good book for learning what narcissism is, how to protect from narcissistic people, etc. Its called "Don't you know who i am!?".
If the book is too much, there also is an expert on the matter on YouTube, @DoctorRamani that has a dedicated channel on educating people on it.
I recomend these to everyone, especially the mods.
With this i also hope to begin a much needed conversation on narcissism.
Munchies:
But Enas ... you display traits of narcism. Not diagnosing you, but you regularly display such traits.
You're free to list them, however i suspect you belive so, only because i haven’t explained some things about how i behave to you. (And the reason for that is mostly that you refuse to engage with me about that)
1 year
There is a good book for learning what narcissism is, how to protect from narcissistic people, etc. Its called "Don't you know who i am!?".
If the book is too much, there also is an expert on the matter on YouTube, @DoctorRamani that has a dedicated channel on educating people on it.
I recomend these to everyone, especially the mods.
With this i also hope to begin a much needed conversation on narcissism.
1 year
Munchies:
I wish you a swift recovery.
Thank you! ❤️
1 year
Munchies:
I hadn't expected to see you for a bit. I thought you were in boot camp.
I did not anticipate that they would allow smartphones!
Also, im not just in the boot camp, but im ill in the bootcamp! Which means they allow me time to rest!
1 year
So, i tried this that Munchies linked out and here are the results:
Logician INTP-A
Energy: 72% Introverted
Mind: 74% Intuitive
... I forgot the rest...
Anyways, i find some of the things it says to be correct but others to be not.
I enjoy thinking a lot and in depth, although my thoughts are often chaotic and, seemingly unconnected. I do get lost in them. Having said that, i think i oftentimes arrive at incredible ideas.
The downside of my personality is that im always lonely, i oftentimes feel a desperate need to share these ideas in order for them to be, lets say, respectfully criticised and primarily because i genuinly think they can help people (and thats something i really love doing). But i dont feel comfortable with sharing them with people who i dont trust to a high degree. And the only way, i have found, with which i can begin trusting someone is them demonstrating their intelligence to me, regardless of if that is direct or indirect.
I think im also in a constant state of anxiety due to my thoughts, and the worst, about this part, is that the only way to get out of this anxiety is to stop having these thoughts, which is something i percieve as incredibly unethical, so i would feel really bad and anxious about doing it! :c
1 year