Munchies:
You told him to encourage her to be less mobile. Shit like that is precisely why people hate us feeders.

Emitrack:
Well why not encourage her to be less mobile, that’s a huge part of extreme weight gain you lose mobility slowly until either you stop gaining or become immobile. They need to make that decision themselves but she’s young she can afford a quite a bit more weight before that decision has to be made

SumoSized:
Hey y'all, I've been having an issue with my weight stagnating recently. I've been doing more of a go with the flow type gain so I've increased the amount of food I eat in a day but I stop just barely past getting full because after that point I just feel sick. Does anyone have any advice on how to increase your appetite/stomach capacity?

Munchies:
Ramen noodles

Don't use the seasoning packet if you don't want your blood pressure to french kiss the stars. But I highly recommend seasoning the noodles.

When you make the noodles, leave very little juice. Eat as much as you can comfortably stand. Then get any non-fizzy drink of your choice and nurse it. The noodles will expand with the liquid you drink, so don't chug it.

SumoSized:
Interesting I haven't heard of that technique, I'll definitely have to give it a shot

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Munchies:
Experienced extreme feeder here.

Ignore everything that Emitrack has told you. It is some of the worst advice that I have ever seen.

What you two need to do is sit down and talk about things. You both need to discuss the short-, mid-, and long-term goals you have for your feedist relationship. You need to discuss what her limits are, what your limits are, what kind of support she expects , and what you are capable of giving her.

Being the feeder of an extremely large, barely mobile person is not easy. The less she is able to do, the more she will depend on you. How much of yourself are you able to give? Will it have any impact on your relationship? Does she have plans if something happens to you and you are not able to give her your support?

If she isn't happy with the level of mobility she has, do not push her to lean into it. That's a terrible idea, and your relationship will suffer. In fact, as her pain gets worse, she will start to associate you with that pain. It will not end well.

I would highly encourage her to work on her mobility. If walking is too much pain for her, then she should look into aquatic exercise/therapy. The water will ease the pain in her joints and make the process far more pleasant. If she doesn't want to head to the pool since it's getting cold out, she can do sitting mobility exercises as well.

Emitrack:
I told him that communication was key, but it’s clear he wants her to gain and she wants to and we all know that with that comes reduced mobility, so yes they have to both accept and accommodate that.

SumoSized:
Hey y'all, I've been having an issue with my weight stagnating recently. I've been doing more of a go with the flow type gain so I've increased the amount of food I eat in a day but I stop just barely past getting full because after that point I just feel sick. Does anyone have any advice on how to increase your appetite/stomach capacity?

Fatty Timmy:
If you were going to a FA themed Halloween party, what would your costume be?

Mine would be Fat Bastard from the Austin Powers movies.

Effervescentfetish:
Hey so I've been thinking -- and most likely overthinking -- about what I'd wanna do for my profile pic on FF and other social medias. I usually go for pictures I've taken or random images/memes I find on my phone, but now that I'm trying to stop lurking and actually talk to people I worry about what kind of impression a picture of myself would give. For extra context I'm NB (AMAB and not on estrogen yet, but lucky enough to not look very masculine) so I already have to work around that, plus I'm ace so the only stuff that turns me on is exclusively feedism related. I'm not sure how to show that I'm super into weight gain and feedism in my pfp (i.e. getting good angles on my chub and wearing clothes that show off my body) without making it seem like I'm looking for exclusively libido-driven interactions and like I'm not in this to make friends for the most part.
Sorry if this is asking a lot, but can anyone help me out with this?
- Dice

PurpleJade:
Omg!!! I do. But that’s nothing, I love to eat 30 pounds in a day. My secret? Hitting my belly with a hammer. Nothing feels better than hammering 30 pounds of food through my digestive system. When I get to my intestines it’s quite scary! It’s a like a REEALLY big maze and I never know where to hit the hammer. Thats when I bring out the rat. The rat pushes through the 30 pounds of food that I ate. Usually the rat comes out fine, except for the fact that they usually go blind. I used to use mice, but think they’re much slower. I’ve used the mice 3 times so now I have 3 blind mice. If they sing to me, I no longer have the need to throw up. It just doesn’t happen, I just can keep eating. Definitely use some combination of these methods if you really wanna enter the big leagues to gain weight.

Dan34:
I’m a male feeder 24 and my gf 22 weighs 317lbs and I would love for her to keep gaining but I am starting to see the health implications of the weight gain, so my question is when should I just accept how big she is and not encourage her to gain more.


Thanks in advance

Morbidly A Beast:
I believe it I feel the same way, there’s times where it doesn’t even cross my mind.

It’s interesting too that the same feeling about someone looking fat is the same thing that triggers it in people who want to be fat(ter) - it’s like perfectly complimentary. I get it the worst if I look and feel fat