Hi

I just wondered who has the largest fattest hugest belly of them all. Does somebody know some links / pictures of a (probably) immobile beauty that has the largest belly ever?

I'm a belly lover so this is a very hot issue for me.

Thanks for any pointers

Markus (Rubens_Feeder)

Ok, maybe it will help you when I tell you you are cute and sexy!
And that I know a little about the subject, have been through it myself and now accept myself 100% and love all about it.
You have a interesting face that tells me already tha you are a fun person, but maybe a little shy showing that on a photo. And you gut nice hair (is that so soft and silky as it looks?) and wow, that belly... totally sexy.

It guess what I can tell you that it is a process, it takes a while to realize what you are and what you got. It is for everybody the same, no matter what you look like: we all get saddled with whatever we receive. We all know that we might change our mind, develop that or change things we don't like about our personality. But the body? That is fixed, you cannot change that. That is shocking, because it is so final.

But just because of that, it is also easy, if you see it from the right angle, since you cannot do a thing, so why not just accept it? We are all very hypercritical about ourselfes. We watch the news, the movies and watch the magazines and see these pictures of these women, that, well only are about 1% of the population. It is not a true representation of beauty. It is fake, yet you see it and think you are supposed to look like that.
I know you are out to get a girl, so don't worry about me hitting on you but you got a sexy belly! And for me a woman is supposed to have a clearly visible large belly. That is also because I like women that can enjoy and not kill themselfes about every gram of fat they got and eat salad only.
Compliments from others are a good way to start loving yourself, but remember and pay attention that you do accept them. Blowing them off with comments like "thanks, but...." renders them useless.

I can give you an example of me that might help you. I have large lips. The extreme stuff always makes it more difficult to accept ourselfes I think. So when I was a kid I thought that that was odd and wrong, since a man is not supposed to have large lips. Well, as I found out later, when kissing the first time, that women love large lips and that mine were made for kissing and that is why I love to kiss so much.

It also helps to for example record yourself on video. this can be hard and shocking at first, since you now see yourself as you really look, to others. We do filter much out when looking at ourselfes in the mirror.
It is hard, but can help. I can now see myself on video and listen to my recorded voice, knowing that it is me and loving it. But I remember having an issue with it too and learning with watching myself like that.

Markus (aka Rubens_Feeder)

I have been to bounce, on countless times back 3 years ago. I am not the clubbing type, I usually like to have an intelligent conversation with a woman and loud music and booze usually seems to be designed to HINDER that ;-) I am also more a nerdy intelligent type and was wondering, if you have to be a certain type to go clubbing and enjoy that you probably won't find anything serious or worthwhile (longer lasting).

But still, I enjoyed so much going to Bounce (and butterfly lounge, which is just another flavour) If you like BBWs and are a FA, it is like heaven. Let's face it, there are no bars for us, no places to go out and see BBWs (and ssBBWs) dressed up for us, showing off their curves and yes, their fat. It is kind of a hormone charged environment and many go there for just booty calls. I can understand why that is: Women finally getting out and realizing that they can dress fat and provocative and yes, that men will actually love it and give them compliments. It is a match made in heaven. Bounce might be ghetto, I don't know what that means, because I am seriously color blind, don't care what race somebody is, we are all human. The music is maybe what distinguishes it most as ghetto and I like rap, ok, BUT rap all the time, all the time??
Even at the Las Vegas Bash it was like that. I talked with many people and they also found it too much rap and I wondered who the DJ asked or if they just has an idea what they were supposed to play and never did a poll on music likes.

In the right company, with people I know a little I would go down there any time again, I love it. I am now up in San Jose, the SF Bay area, which is kind of far away, so it is not something I do causually. But up here in the bay, there is NOTHING.. and I mean nothing, totally weird that in a place with millions of people where half of them are obese there is not one large club that caters to them.
And club bounce is that, it is large. One weekend I had a hard time finding parking.

Now I talked with Lisa Marie some time ago, one of the founders of bounce and she said that it was taken over by somebody else and degraded since then. I cannot talk to that effect, I have not seen it since then.

I know that a lot of people talk bad about it, but hey, it is the one and only and still the largest there is. For this, I cherish it and love that at least somebody is doing something. The atmophere where FAs and BBWs finally can meet is wonderful, no discrimination of any kind. And the 300 lbs limit? I have not been for a long time, yes, but I think this is just bullshit. They will not discriminate you if you are too thin.

So if some of you guys want to meet there a weekend, I will plan to visit some friends in LA at the same time and lets go have some fun!

Markus (aka Rubens_Feeder)