Ditzy:
I caught a lot of guys staring some just smiled and some had a look of disgust but I loved it so I would smile back.
There is nothing like catching folks gawking at our apron.
4 years
Nice to meet you and if you have any questions about any of this then we are all too glad to help.
4 years
I actually had several who wanted this with me but I declined because I have seen the darkest side of this fetish and the practical application of being superobese day to day so I would rather be extended fat than immobile.
4 years
Doctor Reynolds:
Thanks for your response to my last post..... I just can't hide it to myself anymore, it's really sad to be alone all my life without no woman.
DaphneFeedMe:
I highly recommend counseling. It's how I learned to put myself first and figure out all my priorities. When you put yourself first, you will attract others.
I totally concur with Daphne with getting counseling and that is where you learn concepts like being mindful and how to reframe belief structures that keep one in a state of constant rumination.....
4 years
Complicity:
DaphneFeedMe:
He's not happy her tits deflated...sounds like something they should seriously talk through before marrying or they could experience what I did. She's dieting and he doesn't like the results. Communicate! Again, divorce sucks lol
Complicity:
Don't people usually prefer firm/shapely breasts over deflated ones? What's there to talk about, "Honey, the way your breasts look after weight loss isn't as sexy, just wanted to let you know"? If OP were to divorce over saggy tits, that's a totally separate issue from this fetish.
If the complaint was that she was losing weight, period, I'd get the concern, but that wasn't mentioned at all. This is just a matter of a looser, saggier body after weight loss, which generally isn't the ideal preference of nearly anyone, haha. In fact, the whole point of the post is that OP is enjoying being a feedee now as opposed to mutual gaining. Seems to me like OP is perfectly accepting and supportive of their partner's weight loss, and just celebrating the new dynamic!
WideJuan76:
Everyone on this post has a point and I actually had a fiance leave because I was losing the weight so I can see this from all of these vantage points and I agree that all it takes is just to bring it up to your spouse and let the chips fall from there because each person sees this way of life very differently and some are more experienced than others in which some will divorce you for losing weight while other will just see it as a minor thing so it depends.
DaphneFeedMe:
Thanks for the thoughts and sorry to hear you had something similar happen.
You are welcome but I know exactly where you are coming from and those experiences teach you whom to deal with and whom not to deal with when it comes to how we want to live our lives
4 years
Complicity:
DaphneFeedMe:
He's not happy her tits deflated...sounds like something they should seriously talk through before marrying or they could experience what I did. She's dieting and he doesn't like the results. Communicate! Again, divorce sucks lol
Complicity:
Don't people usually prefer firm/shapely breasts over deflated ones? What's there to talk about, "Honey, the way your breasts look after weight loss isn't as sexy, just wanted to let you know"? If OP were to divorce over saggy tits, that's a totally separate issue from this fetish.
If the complaint was that she was losing weight, period, I'd get the concern, but that wasn't mentioned at all. This is just a matter of a looser, saggier body after weight loss, which generally isn't the ideal preference of nearly anyone, haha. In fact, the whole point of the post is that OP is enjoying being a feedee now as opposed to mutual gaining. Seems to me like OP is perfectly accepting and supportive of their partner's weight loss, and just celebrating the new dynamic!
Everyone on this post has a point and I actually had a fiance leave because I was losing the weight so I can see this from all of these vantage points and I agree that all it takes is just to bring it up to your spouse and let the chips fall from there because each person sees this way of life very differently and some are more experienced than others in which some will divorce you for losing weight while other will just see it as a minor thing so it depends.
4 years
Anjou:
My fiancé has been dieting since the New Year. Done 45 lbs on Keto. While not really happy that her tits are deflated so much, I will say that having those pounds plaster on me has been fun. I am over 270 now to her 185 and she LOVES me turning into a fatty. The other day we went to dinner and while drunk she called me her “*** toy”.
Anyone else go from mutual gaining to being a feedee?
I was introduced to this lifestyle by someone I was dating but I always saw myself wanting to always be fat in my mind and I never thought that I could actually manifest it nor did I ever realize that it had a name and I went from one end of the spectrum to the next and the biggest mind-blower was that some women actually liked it. It took years to convince me that the woman that I was dating did and after that, I was ALL IN
4 years
BigFox:
Ya I'm at the point that my member is fully buried when soft. And just the head will stick out past the fat pad wile standing. But is buried when setting down when hard.
GainingLear:
I'm right there with you, but I stay buried while standing too. It's got to be hard to stick out anymore.
What folks really can't ponder is the transitional mindset that comes with growing into an obese man. All other urges have funnelled themselves to one specific drive and that is too eat because you have become so addicted to eating that you have to ask yourself if you have the drive or stamina to bother losing it but once you get to the point of fat hanging than most likely you will stay how you have grown into instead of trying to lose it all.....
4 years
ruby6335:
Guys I just made a typo ahahah I’m a feedee for sure
We welcome you to the way of we future waddlers. lol
4 years
AskDrFeeder:
Many fear gaining weight because of possible social consequences. If you've experienced such fear, what are you worried about exactly?
1. your appearance
2. that people will think you're a glutton
3. that people will think you're weak and undisciplined
4. that you'll have trouble finding/maintaining a relationship
5. other
6. some combination of the above.
Details welcome.
I experienced all of these fears and what I had to realize was that it was my life and I controlled who I wanted in my life. My mom was the one who kept saying comments about it but eventually, they fell of deaf ears with me. I had always been an athlete so that is what I saw myself as but I started to date women much older than me and they showed me that that plenty of women loved fat men. I was always self-conscious about the moobs that I grew and how people would respond to them and the only people who responded were women who approached me and were scared to ask for my number. They loved them and said as much. A lot of the fear is most in our heads and the truth is as you age; no one actual cares how obese we are because they are minding their own business
4 years
